so i am 19F & i have noticed my love life completely fall down over the past few years. I used to be quite naive and not say anything to guys about my preference etc , i used to be very sweet & charismatic at the age of 17/18. Well now i have noticed a massive shift on me, i was speaking to a guy today and we were meant to meet up & we ended up changing the date around.. so we have a date planned for this week but i had said to him something about a preference i have and i don’t like that he has it. I am way too honest & forward i think, i come off as rude and defensive when i genuinely am not 90% of the time i am joking back & not getting rowdy if they start banter. I don’t understand myself , it’s gone from having dates weekly to me blocking guys because they reschedule a date or something minor. i don’t know what has changed about me to do this but i am so straight forward and honest to the point maybe it’s not attractive because i come off as rude or defensive,...