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/u/LetMeDononYou on Told my friend that I was aroace and thats what they replied with ;(

“Ik better” lmao no u don’t. Show me someone right now that I like in that way. I’m waiting. February 16, 2022 at 12:24AM

I need some real brutally honest advice from some women

Okay ima just be straight up…im a 23 yr old light skin male and I rarely get laid. I can vibe w people and talk w them all day but when it comes to approaching women about like dating or sex I fall flat on my face. My personality is goofy af so I play w people a lot like for instance a new girl at my job.. I be like okay I see you w those glasses looking all cute ima have to borrow yours cause I’m blind af like see that sign over there I can barely see it so one day you gonna go for you glasses and their gonna be gone. And she be laughing and shit but idk how to go further than that. I’m ngl when people bring up anything sexual I blank. Like okay I got my haircut, my hair used to be long and now I got the fresh cut w a fade and everything. I was talking to this girl she like oh dam you cut your hair I’m like yeah I had to let it go cause I was getting too much shut stuck in there. And she’s like..getting shit stuck in there why be doing after work? You be all up in it huh? (And this...

/u/yorkiemagpie96 on Someone in a YouTube comment claimed I’m going to realize I’m not asexual by my mid 20s. I’ve decided I’m going to take them up on the challenge! Does anyone know a better way to remind my future self?

I'm 25 and still ace, still not done the dirty, still have no intention to. I find major flaws in the given theory and have evidence to back up my statement 😁 February 16, 2022 at 12:23AM

dating & too honest

so i am 19F & i have noticed my love life completely fall down over the past few years. I used to be quite naive and not say anything to guys about my preference etc , i used to be very sweet & charismatic at the age of 17/18. Well now i have noticed a massive shift on me, i was speaking to a guy today and we were meant to meet up & we ended up changing the date around.. so we have a date planned for this week but i had said to him something about a preference i have and i don’t like that he has it. I am way too honest & forward i think, i come off as rude and defensive when i genuinely am not 90% of the time i am joking back & not getting rowdy if they start banter. I don’t understand myself , it’s gone from having dates weekly to me blocking guys because they reschedule a date or something minor. i don’t know what has changed about me to do this but i am so straight forward and honest to the point maybe it’s not attractive because i come off as rude or defensive,...

/u/AnonymousHermitCrab on How did you guys discover your sexuality?

I was unsure about myself so I did some research on the LGBTA wiki. I found asexuality (which I had heard of before) and it fit. After that I constantly questioned it and did more research, but I always ultimately came back to asexual. I would find microlabels that almost fit, but were never quite right. Finally (several years later) I had done so much research that I knew no existing microlabel worked for me. So I put all my research together and coined a new ace microlabel that I felt described my experience. February 15, 2022 at 11:22PM