yes, absolutely May 19, 2023 at 12:29AM

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a. Few months now and met each other friends. One of his friends who I have met and came to one of my parties is celebrating his birthday! So I was at his place and we were talking and his roommate says we’re hosting the pre, you should come.. I look at my bf and he’s like oh I didn’t invite her yet cause I don’t even know what we’re doing. I brought it up to him and he’s like we didn’t even confirm anything (which is true) and then today he calls me saying oh they confirmed the pre at their place but don’t know where they’re going out. And I brought it up as a joke saying wow u didn’t even invite me .. ur roommate did .. and then said it again and he didn’t say anything. And I’m like ok wtf?? So now I’m mad and upset cause wth .. Would u be mad? Submitted May 19, 2023 at 12:11AM My boyfriend and I have been dating for a. Few months now and met each other friends. One of his friends who I have met and came to one of my parties is cel...

Communication, communication, communication. Until you have the first conversation of boundaries and what type of physical contact and romantic gestures are acceptable, ask if it's ok for them. Check in as things progress to make sure they truly are comfortable with where things are going. Make sure your partner knows you want them to speak up if they feel you're inadvertantly getting too excited about something or unconsciously pressuring them. Make sure you check in with yourself as well. Don't deny your needs just to make them happy. If you find yourself wanting some kind of contact or interaction that hasn't happened yet, talk to them to see if this is something that could be comfortable or something you can find a happy compromise on. It's possible your ace partner could want to try things but didn't know it was an option or just need time to consider it on their own. May 18, 2023 at 11:53PM

I want to try to distance myself from him for the next two weeks after next week. We've been emotionally dependent on each other for too long and I think the last time I physically hung out with my other friends was Halloween 2021. I was also busy with college and a part-time job, but I chose to spend all my free time with him when I know I shouldn't have. I needed a healthy balance. May 18, 2023 at 11:53PM

It’s rape. May 18, 2023 at 11:52PM

This is a lot of info of what he wants and little of what you want. But what is there is that you want him to change and be different...and he is not changing. And to be honest being in a relationship with someone you want to change isn't going to end well. He is who he is and you are who you are, and if you want him to be different and he doesn't you need to accept that and move on. Dumping hurts, but you can't change people, they have to want to change. Sorry for throwing that out, but like, this clearly sucks for you, and I hope you feel better. May 18, 2023 at 11:52PM

Yeah around my period I get very into masturbating but sometimes I masturbate even when my libido is low cause I do it when I'm really bored May 18, 2023 at 11:51PM