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For the people who stopped talking to people/ someone during quarantine, do you think you would meet up with them after it’s all over?

Whether or not you don’t talk anymore because of fade out or you just can’t meet up with this person because of corona, do you think there’s a chance that when things open up you will finally meet up? Or do you think that if things faded out during quarantine that things are over? Submitted May 24, 2020 at 11:53PM Whether or not you don’t talk anymore because of fade out or you just can’t meet up with this person because of corona, do you think there’s a chance that when things open up you will finally meet up? Or do you think that if things faded out during quarantine that things are over?

I'm gonna be 18, she is 16.

Hey guys, so I need some advice right now. So I am about to be 18 years old on May 27th. My girl just turned 16 on May 14th. We are a year and 11 months apart, with 14 days. My parents, well, one of them is saying I have to break up with her cause I will be turning 18, but I am very unsure with the laws and cannot get a straight answer on anything. I also live in Oregon. If this is more of a legal advice, then I am sorry, i will post it in there if it is. Thank you Submitted May 24, 2020 at 11:58PM Hey guys, so I need some advice right now. So I am about to be 18 years old on May 27th. My girl just turned 16 on May 14th. We are a year and 11 months apart, with 14 days. My parents, well, one of them is saying I have to break up with her cause I will be turning 18, but I am very unsure with the laws and cannot get a straight answer on anything. I also live in Oregon.If this is more of a legal advice, then I am sorry, i will post it in there if it is.Thank you

How inappropriate would it be to ask your boss what brand of cologne he wears?

He smells SO good. We have a good relationship, but he’s still my boss and I don’t want to come across as unprofessional. He wears the cologne everyday and it’s such an attractive scent. Submitted May 24, 2020 at 11:59PM He smells SO good. We have a good relationship, but he’s still my boss and I don’t want to come across as unprofessional.He wears the cologne everyday and it’s such an attractive scent.

A guy I was friends with said some sexist shit and I think he didn’t realizes it. I would like to bring it up on the phone next time but how?

I had a HUGE crush on him and he gave me his number. So for now I say we are “friends” but clearly we are seeing what might be there anyhow, in our 4 hour conversation was actually really cool in many ways. But in between He said a few things but in a tone where he seemed like a guy who is literally socially absent minded and actually thinks real life is like this. I was so shocked and he said all this so nonchalantly and he talked so fast and jumped subjects that I couldn’t process my feelings or didn’t want to get upset. I feel he could be open to correction. He talks soft spoken and not douchey Anyhow here is what he said: “ The me-too movement ruined everything for men. I’m afraid to even talk to women. I could end up having my life ruined even if I didn’t do anything. All anyone has to say is that I did it even if I didn’t. When I hear rape stories I wait for the facts to come out. And do women think assault only happens to them? It happened to me too and men don’t talk about ...

What is the best bit of flirting dialogue you’ve experienced? I’m leveling up my flirting game and need examples of it done well.

I’ve encountered a next-level flirt. Like... this man deserves a merit badge for his level of flirting skill. Nothing will happen between us for good reasons, but the flirting is harmless, enjoyable, and helps the day pass while we’re both single. However, he’s always ‘winning’ our conversations because he’s like a flirting Obi-Wan whereas my own skill level is more like the equivalent of someone who enters the ring, maybe gets a punch in, but gets knocked out immediately after. To level up my flirting game, I’m making more of an effort to flirt with people in general as practice. It’s kind of fun, actually. But my skills are still pretty basic. What are the best bits of flirtatious dialogue you’ve overheard or been personally involved in? I think it’ll help to hear good examples!! Submitted May 25, 2020 at 12:00AM I’ve encountered a next-level flirt. Like... this man deserves a merit badge for his level of flirting skill.Nothing will happen between us for good reasons, but th...

This has got to be the longest crush ever.

I(M) have had a crush on this girl for about a year now, not sure if it's still considered a crush anymore. We were in the same class last year, I had honestly never given her the time of day till she started talking to me. We'd joke around, she'd constantly tell me how she hates me and some days she'd just come over and give me hugs and hint at me being her boyfriend. There were a lot of mixed signals, but regardless I fell for her and I never had the guts to tell her how I felt even though our mutual friends would constantly tell me she likes me. A year later, I think no I know I still like her a lot. Seems she's moved on. Should I just forget about it or just tell her how I feel so I can move on? Submitted May 25, 2020 at 12:04AM I(M) have had a crush on this girl for about a year now, not sure if it's still considered a crush anymore. We were in the same class last year, I had honestly never given her the time of day till she started talking to me. ...

Why do I feel weird bringing him over?

I’m a girl in a new relationship with a guy who I really like and want to impress. I haven’t liked someone like this in...ever I guess. It’s been a while since we’ve seen each other, for obvious reasons. The last 3 times we saw each other, I always went over to his place. I feel it’s now time to bring him over but I feel weird/have some anxiety about it. I guess it’s partly because my apartment is so old and shabby compared to his, and has issues (loud A/C units, toilet in bathroom that keeps making weird flushing noises at random intervals, whole place can get stuffy). So I guess I’m embarrassed about all that. Not to mention that I have 2 cats that I worry he would trip over or something, or would get in the way of any activities we do and annoy him or us both. I’d feel more comfortable and natural going over to his place, and I don’t know why. But I’d feel really shy going over to his place again, especially since I’ve already been 3 times in a row. And I want to bring him over bu...

I feel lonely and sad all the time. I´m not very good looking and i can´t do excersise. my classmates in college are people from +40 meanwhile i´m an 18 year old. And rn i can´t search for work bc of quarantine. What can i do?

Is there anything i can do to find someone who feels even a little something 4 me? Submitted May 25, 2020 at 12:15AM Is there anything i can do to find someone who feels even a little something 4 me?

/u/takomoFA on I still want a "cure". How can I get over it?

Hey, it's nice just knowing I'm not the only one. It can be kind of lonely feeling like the only person who isn't 100% down with what genetics or life or whatever had in store for me. May 25, 2020 at 12:02AM

/u/zoidbergerest on Ok,so i dont know how to start but please help

You’re better off in the r/nofap group and probably seeing a therapist. Asexuals don’t make a choice to be asexual it’s a disconnect with a way people experience sexual attraction/connection. Many asexuals masturbate and have libidos and many wish they could be sexual/allo. May 24, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/StableState on Asexual characters in literature

I second Every Heart a Doorway. The actual murder mystery plot is kinda boring, but setting and characters are very interesting, so it's one of my favorite novellas. May 24, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/blackandwhitepaint on How do I know if I’m on the asexual spectrum or just afraid to have sex?

Everyone benefits from therapy no matter what their issues are. A therapist can help you figure out what you're feeling better than we can. It's hard to diagnose you without knowing you. May 24, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/StableState on Asexual characters in literature

The main character of the Murderbot Diaries sounds asexual, at least in the 1st novella (I haven't read the others yet). It is a part-organic robot who calls itself "murderbot" because its job is to kill things to protect the humans its leased to. It hacked its governor module a while ago and likes to spend its spare time secretly streaming soap operas. May be a touchy point since main character is a robot, but I identified with this quote (albeit I'm cis-female and still trying to decide if ace-spectrum fits) I don't have any gender or sex-related parts (if a construct has those you're a sexbot in a brothel, not a murderbot) so maybe that's why I find sex scenes boring. Though, I think that even if I did have sex-related parts I would find them boring. May 24, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/jojo_and_bombo on Do i sound like aro-ace?

Sounds like you have a lot of stuff to work out, but you are on the right path to me. Some aro-ace people seem to others as depressed, while to me you seem to be reacting just fine, you're branching out, talking and listening to others. And listening to your feelings. Keep that up for sure, and if you feel like you're leading someone on, just be honest. I hope that helps at all, i do believe you're young enough to still be questioning, which is normal. May 24, 2020 at 11:33PM

/u/openanopen on ASEXUAL PIRATES ARE NOT INTEREST IN YOUR BOOTY..(Awesome One)

Damn boi. May 24, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/Jasmin_Ki on I made a small ace pin! the white paint got a lil' messed up but other than that I'm happy!

Super cute May 24, 2020 at 11:21PM

/u/RandomBluePeacock8 on Heello, guys. I'm new here :)

https://www.idrlabs.com/sexual-orientation/test.php I think this is the link May 24, 2020 at 11:12PM

/u/RandomBluePeacock8 on I did the test thing, and it was surprisingly good.

I think I got about two squares lower than you May 24, 2020 at 11:10PM

/u/RandomBluePeacock8 on Um, ideas appreciated

To be honest I’d either waffle or overdo or under explain in the letter. And what’s the meme about? May 24, 2020 at 11:08PM

My Favorite Marriage Advice and Resources

Like many people lately, I’ve had a lot of Reddit browsing free time in my hands. I really enjoy this sub, and thought I’d share my favorite resources with you, Reddit friends. So... here are my 2 cents on making a great marriage. Before I begin: all the advice and counseling in the world isn’t going to help a seriously mismatched couple. It is virtually impossible to build a strong marriage with someone if you don’t share some common values. Compatibility matters in a relationship. When you finally marry, don’t rush to have children. Parenting is not the romanticized fun that movies will have you believe! Enjoy each other for a while before taking the icy cold plunge into parenthood. With that... Put your marriage first. Marriage, not children. The greatest gift you can give your kids is love. The second is a strong family, which means parents who are happy, loving and respectful together. Communicate frequently and clearly. Learn to fight “right.” Confront your spouse wi...

NiceGuy on Tinder shares tips for females to get a date. He looks like a magician and has one photo of only chickens

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Revenge On Ex’s Wedding Day, He Waited Two Years For Good Reasons

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Has anyone tried Elite Singles?

I'm wondering if it's worth the $77+ to get started? Because of Covid I'm not actually interested in dates right now, but I would like to talk, get to know someone, and then when it's "safe" to be out begin the actual dates. I have no interest in the Tinder/Plenty of Fish crowd, given the horror stories I have heard... but I'm also not interested in waiting around for Mr. Right to stumble onto my path in 15 years lol Submitted May 25, 2020 at 12:00AM I'm wondering if it's worth the $77+ to get started? Because of Covid I'm not actually interested in dates right now, but I would like to talk, get to know someone, and then when it's "safe" to be out begin the actual dates.I have no interest in the Tinder/Plenty of Fish crowd, given the horror stories I have heard... but I'm also not interested in waiting around for Mr. Right to stumble onto my path in 15 years lol