Sigh. Here we go again. So I met someone on a dating app. Initially I wasn’t into him, found him a bit annoying, and don’t even remember swiping right on him but decided to give him a chance because what the hey. He was very enthusiastic and would talk to me daily, always the one to initiate, always wish me good night and good morning, and ask about my day, etc. After talking for about 3 weeks, idk something changed in me and I started to find him very sweet. I admired his persistence, and thought to myself that I’d be down to go out with him. But right after I started showing interest he pulls away, slow fades, takes forever to respond. Wtf is this? I tried indirectly asking him, and he said he was really busy with work and school and family issues. Sure, adults have busy lives. But my goodness, how do you go from being so persistent to ghost mode so suddenly, and coincidentally after I start showing interest too. Like whyyy? Is he playing games? Or is he actually busy? I’ve been pa

Thank you! I agree! Best wishes! <3 December 22, 2021 at 12:19AM

I lost my virginity to this guy and this is the fourth sexual act we had. So I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob today and 30 seconds into it, he lifts my head up and says hold on but quickly says oh never mind. So when I put my mouth on the penis I noticed that his penis has this lil salty taste all of a sudden similar to the taste when he cums in my mouth. Because of all the spit he wipes his dick off and the salty taste was gone. Submitted December 22, 2021 at 12:56AM I lost my virginity to this guy and this is the fourth sexual act we had. So I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob today and 30 seconds into it, he lifts my head up and says hold on but quickly says oh never mind. So when I put my mouth on the penis I noticed that his penis has this lil salty taste all of a sudden similar to the taste when he cums in my mouth. Because of all the spit he wipes his dick off and the salty taste was gone.

For nearly a year, I've (25F) been talking on and off with this guy (34M) on social media. When we first started, it was very flirty and we would stay up late messaging each other and I caught feelings pretty fast but wanted to take things slow. Maybe it was too slow, or maybe because of the distance between us (over 400 miles), eventually the conversation dried out and we stopped for a while, only commenting on each other's posts occasionally. Recently however, he said (jokingly) that I should move closer to him (I'm starting to look for a new job and place and mentioned in my posts before). I said that while I'm looking in my area, I could crash at his place if I'm ever visiting in his area, and we had a little banter going. I want to ask him if he wants to meet up in person, but I'm not sure how to bring it up, bc we haven't talked about seeing each other romantically since we first started talking. I thought my feelings had finally gone away but talki

How can someone go from talking to you every breathing moment, showing interest in your life, updating you on even the small details in theirs, actively going out of their way to tell you about their past - to suddenly stopping communication practically entirely? If I initiated messaging I'm sure he'd respond, so it isn't ghosting, just no drive to communicate anymore.. not like before. We are still and were just friends during the few months this initial phase went on. He said he wouldn't want to rush into anything more rn, as it would be too hard to lose our friendship which was fair enough, but being somewhat tossed away now one extreme to the next, makes me realise that excuse probably wasn't genuine. Any advice appreciated:/ Submitted December 22, 2021 at 12:16AM How can someone go from talking to you every breathing moment, showing interest in your life, updating you on even the small details in theirs, actively going out of their way to tell you about

thanks! December 21, 2021 at 11:21PM