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/u/Cheese-Water on Is it normal to be uncomfortable when people assume I want to do... things... with people I like?

I think that's pretty normal. It's uncomfortable when people make incorrect assumptions about me when it comes to most things. February 11, 2022 at 12:19AM

/u/aliasforwhat on how old are you ?

What's the third flag besides your user? Obviously it's something on the acespec but I can't recognize the specific flag. February 11, 2022 at 12:18AM

/u/Automatic-Ad2554 on "Am I asexual?" – FAQ – etc.

"thinking you're just a late bloomer (or picky) and waiting for the moment that sexual attraction comes to you but never does" This is highly how I always feel. I've always been extremely picky finding someone who I am actually sexually attractive to but never find that "person". I stopped enjoying sex and found nobody I am sexually unattractive to 5 years ago. I enjoy being abstinence and don't understand why sex is always on people's mind 24/7. February 11, 2022 at 12:14AM

/u/-____deleted_____- on Happy Pride Month y’all :’)

Ayy I’m pan and ace! February 11, 2022 at 12:09AM

/u/FrostbiteThigh on My friend is surprised that I like to make sex jokes and pretend to act sexy.

Yeah, why do people think that jokes correlate to sexuality? Kinda annoying February 11, 2022 at 12:05AM

UPDATE: So I gave it another go, and this time she was honest with me... But she still looks at me and sits by where I sit.

So after some waiting around, and building up some courage, I decided to go back to the store where she works after three months of not seeing her there. I approach her as she is checking the shirts for stock. When I do see her this time, she does step away from her job momentarily and talk with me. We talk about how both of our grades were shit in prior classes and I even made her laugh again regarding which class she's taking. Considering that she is usually shy around me, I just thought I'd give it another go since I was not sure if she was expecting me to ask again. So I did it, and, while painful, she was honest this time. She told me that she wasn't interested (said it very softly and noticed she squinted her eyes while saying it too), and that there was a lot going on in her life, and she was too busy balancing a full time job and college together. I told her it was fine, and I looked forward to talking to her again, and I left. It did hurt for a bit, but I also w...

/u/HeartlessAceofHearts on GRSM, LGBTQ+, OR BOTH?

You're very kind, thank you! Yeah it's not very common, but it doesn't take much when you're young and prone to influence XD February 10, 2022 at 11:36PM