So basically, without being prompted, this girl said she isn’t interested in a committed relationship with me. I never asked her for that. And I confirmed that she is romantically into me, attracted to me, and enjoyed her time with me. She just has a lot going on (she told me the few things that are overwhelming her but I don’t want to share). She says we can still talk and maybe hang out if she has free time. But I can tell already things are different. She’s not as energetic or as excited. I doubt she will initiate like she did in the past. I don’t know what the right answer is here. I know she likes me. I know I like her. I just wish she would tell me the right answer. All I could do is just lay out a bunch of options. She told me she knew all that and that she just wasn’t interested right now. She has only really given me short answers since she brought it up. What is the play here? Submitted November 27, 2021 at 01:05AM So basically, without being prompted, this girl said ...

I don’t understand why he’s doing this to me So my boyfriend and I have been together for eight years, we have a child together and have lived together for all of those eight years. We both work in the adult entertainment Industry, myself more than him as it’s my full-time job & I am very successful with loyal followers on onlyfans, he has a corporate job for his main income. *(so me being in the sw industry has never been an issue-) So here’s the what’s been going on- a few months ago I found out he’s been using pictures off of my phone(ones I’d never post because they are extremely unflattering and” pretending to be a female with my body’s on Reddit/Twitter/kik.. he will post really unflattering pictures of me in groups and ask them to degrade/humiliate me- , some are pictures of my stretch marks, others are really unflattering naked pictures, some are screenshots of videos(I’ve posted to onlyfans) where my body looks terrible for a split second as I change positions.. he know...

I am a young teen boy with anxiety and stress issues and I like this one boy in some of my classes. He is openly gay, so I don’t have to worry about that, it’s just that I can’t talk to him as my mind shuts down every time I am in the same room as him. Also the fact that he is “popular” and hangs out with this one girl who I think hates me because I tried to correct her on misgendering me on a paper she had to write. (It was some icebreaker thing we had to do in Language Arts in the first week of school). How do I talk to him? Submitted November 27, 2021 at 01:07AM I am a young teen boy with anxiety and stress issues and I like this one boy in some of my classes. He is openly gay, so I don’t have to worry about that, it’s just that I can’t talk to him as my mind shuts down every time I am in the same room as him. Also the fact that he is “popular” and hangs out with this one girl who I think hates me because I tried to correct her on misgendering me on a paper she had to write. ...

To preface this: I have never had a bf, gone on a date, first kiss, etc. Nada. I was just never interested in dating and I’ve always put my education first. Now onto the problem: So there’s this guy (25M) that has somehow weaseled his way into my life. We have very long phone calls and I’m not used to this AT ALL. I don’t really call anyone except for my parents and best friend and I don’t even have 4+ hour long calls with them. We’ve talked about hookup culture (both find it yuck), the future, kids, if his parents might have a problem with me being from a different culture and vice versa, etc. (Idk if this is normal because we’ve only really talked for a month and a half.) I also have a very rare skin condition that I used to be bullied for, especially by boys. Now, idgaf about what people think and I don’t hide myself to make others comfortable. But I knew that would be a hinderance in finding someone romantically. So I made up my mind in high school that I would get a sperm donor...

Title says it really. I really am at a total loss for where to start dating or finding someone I am compatible with. I find myself with fewer options than ever. The past 3 years have been a downward slope for me. I used to have a good job in wealth management, groups of friends i saw regularly and reasonable social life with travelling etc. Then I started losing friends as they paired off and dissapeared into their gfs lives, ditching our friend groups (happened to 4 of my friends), my social life wittled down to maybe a pub trip once every 2 months and lockdowm has destroyed what was left. Lockdown also cost me my 10 year job which was a social outlet and i now work from home by myself. On top of this my mother passed away last year from cancer and i no longer hear much from that side of the family. I now work by myself, live alone and the only people i see are my brothers and sometimes my dad. With a total of say 2 visits a week. I am pretty much alone all of the time. To go fr...

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If I make out with a girl, she gives me multiple hickeys on my neck and chest while rubbing me through my panties, sucks and pulls my nipples, spanks me, we're both covered in each other's saliva,I lick and touch her too and I'm moaning does that count as sex? She was wearing a hoodie with some panties and I was only wearing a thong. Strange question, I know but it just hit me in the middle of the night that I might not be a virgin and I need to know. Submitted November 27, 2021 at 12:30AM If I make out with a girl, she gives me multiple hickeys on my neck and chest while rubbing me through my panties, sucks and pulls my nipples, spanks me, we're both covered in each other's saliva,I lick and touch her too and I'm moaning does that count as sex? She was wearing a hoodie with some panties and I was only wearing a thong. Strange question, I know but it just hit me in the middle of the night that I might not be a virgin and I need to know.

Long story short,So as I knew the guy who she have been with her before me. I used to suffer from RJ alot. But after having sex for the first time with her I was kinda in process of healing. But then last night while talking about sex, I asked her about our experiences (whenever we got intimate sexually), I asked her did she ever orgasm when we had sex (not more than 2 times till now). Her answer shook me. She said she got turned on for the first time when we were together the day before yesterday. And regarding orgasm, she kinda sensed that I would feel bad if she answers negatively so I guess she lied about reaching orgasm once (last week when we had sex) Now I have these thoughts of being incapable of satisfying her and that is making me crazy. Little about me, I was a virgin before her, and I have had sex couple of times with her. That too was felt like LEARNING, because I couldn't do it properly. But now I am stuck with these thoughts of comparing her experience with me ...

Okay so it's only been my first couple of times having sex, but it was literally like there was a wall there and I was trying all I could do to just relax my vaginal muscles but wasn't seeming to work. I had to get super high on weed & he had to put the vibrator on my clit at a very high intensity, and then he was able to get it in all the way and actually move it! It felt really good I even finished. There is definitely something wrong. Like normal foreplay just doesn't really work, I need a lot of stimulation, otherwise he literally can't thrust in me, same thing happend when I tried to ride him, I mean it was almost stuck. And when he can move it, it hurt for me, and in those situations he can only move it after he makes me finish with help from the vibrator. At this point only the vibrator helps... and the weed. It seems like I need a toy for penetration to feel good or for it to just work! does any other women experience this? I feel broken? Help me. Sub...

Ok so im pretty sure that Im not trans but I feel like im just not as attractive as women, I feel like my body is boring and ugly compared to thier's. When I look in the mirror I think to myself "How the hell could a woman find this attractive" It also doesn't help when many women (including straight) say that women's bodies are better looking while mens are boring, Apparently even straight women prefer looking at women lol. It just sucks and in a way I kind of wished that male bodies were more sexualized, Even on naked subreddits it's the women who always get the attention while men don't. I sometimes question if women are actually sexually attracted to us/our bodies. In a way I think women are attracted to our masculinity and personalites instead of our looks To be honest the only demographic that has ever made me feel attractive are gay men, In fact I use to upload nudes to gay subreddit's and they really liked them (By the way I have no attrac...

So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years and she randomly texts me and asks when was the last time i watched porn. I told her i just use pics and vid’s of us we have. She replies how come you don’t tell me. This is just weird to me, like i don’t feel like i should have to tell her when i masturbate? Is this normal? Submitted November 27, 2021 at 12:54AM So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years and she randomly texts me and asks when was the last time i watched porn. I told her i just use pics and vid’s of us we have. She replies how come you don’t tell me. This is just weird to me, like i don’t feel like i should have to tell her when i masturbate? Is this normal?

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Title says it all. I’ve not had much dating experience as it was never an interest to me growing up. I’ve always had a hard time loving myself and within the last 2 years I’ve grown to appreciate myself and love me and now I’ve been interested in trying to build a relationship with a girl. Im about to get my bachelors degree and head off to law school and live in a pretty huge college town. Despite this, finding girls to date has been a huge problem. I don’t drink (often, maybe a few times a year) so naturally because of this I try not to meet girls at the bar, but it’s really the only way. Dating apps also have not really got me anywhere. So I guess I’m asking What do you nice people of Reddit recommend that could help? Also this might not matter but I’m also a virgin, and Im more interested in building s relationship than sex at first. Cheers, Reddit! Submitted November 26, 2021 at 11:59PM Title says it all. I’ve not had much dating experience as it was never an interest to ...

So I’m (24F) with this guy (26M) since 4 months. We’re not exclusive but both ok with that. I really like him. But he is not really talkative between 2 dates. When I try to ask him questions he says he doesn’t really think (in comparison to me who overthink everything). It’s hard because i always feel like I’m bothering him. And I just dont know if he doesn’t care, if I bother him or if he is just diferent than me and has another way of comunicating? I feel like a complete stranger when we don’t see eachother and I don’t know if this is just how things are supposed to be since he is not my bf? (He is my very first relationship) Submitted November 27, 2021 at 12:01AM So I’m (24F) with this guy (26M) since 4 months. We’re not exclusive but both ok with that. I really like him. But he is not really talkative between 2 dates. When I try to ask him questions he says he doesn’t really think (in comparison to me who overthink everything). It’s hard because i always feel like I’m bother...

For context, I just got out of a very long relationship, and really no idea how to go about dating. I met this very attractive, funny and what seems to be genuine guy. I just learned he's Muslim, which does not bother me at all, but I seem to be getting so many conflicting answers to what I need to do. He brought it up about not being able to have sex before religious marriage, which I absolutely respect. So I before I ran the other direction I decided to meet up and get to know this person before making any rash decision. So if I fall head over heels for this guy, I was trying to figure out if it will work with our cultural backgrounds being so different. Would his family accept me? Would he be an outcast in his religion? I would hate if I made his life harder because we're so different. But I also don't want to walk away from something that could potentially be the real deal. Any advice welcome! Submitted November 27, 2021 at 12:13AM For context, I just got out...

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