Do I (22F) have attachment issues?

To preface this: I have never had a bf, gone on a date, first kiss, etc. Nada. I was just never interested in dating and I’ve always put my education first.

Now onto the problem: So there’s this guy (25M) that has somehow weaseled his way into my life. We have very long phone calls and I’m not used to this AT ALL. I don’t really call anyone except for my parents and best friend and I don’t even have 4+ hour long calls with them. We’ve talked about hookup culture (both find it yuck), the future, kids, if his parents might have a problem with me being from a different culture and vice versa, etc. (Idk if this is normal because we’ve only really talked for a month and a half.)

I also have a very rare skin condition that I used to be bullied for, especially by boys. Now, idgaf about what people think and I don’t hide myself to make others comfortable. But I knew that would be a hinderance in finding someone romantically. So I made up my mind in high school that I would get a sperm donor and live my life as a single mom if I hit 30 alone.

This guy thinks I’m badass for not giving a fuck about what other people think and doesn’t mind my disorder at all. Ever since he said that I’ve been thinking about a future together. My gut is just saying “he’s the one, girl.” I also really like his personality (matches mine), humor (matches mine as well), and mindset (10/10 IDEAL). So it’s not that I just like him because he doesn’t give a shit about my skin. I just never thought I’d have someone like me for me.

Now, I’d just like to know if I’m taking this too far by already thinking about the future. We haven’t gone on a date yet since I have finals these next two week but we’ve planned on setting something up after.

Add on: He’s never been in a serious relationship (but has dated) because he prefers to be alone but decided to try something new. And I, obviously, have also never been in a serious relationship.

Submitted November 27, 2021 at 01:07AM

To preface this: I have never had a bf, gone on a date, first kiss, etc. Nada. I was just never interested in dating and I’ve always put my education first.Now onto the problem: So there’s this guy (25M) that has somehow weaseled his way into my life. We have very long phone calls and I’m not used to this AT ALL. I don’t really call anyone except for my parents and best friend and I don’t even have 4+ hour long calls with them. We’ve talked about hookup culture (both find it yuck), the future, kids, if his parents might have a problem with me being from a different culture and vice versa, etc. (Idk if this is normal because we’ve only really talked for a month and a half.)I also have a very rare skin condition that I used to be bullied for, especially by boys. Now, idgaf about what people think and I don’t hide myself to make others comfortable. But I knew that would be a hinderance in finding someone romantically. So I made up my mind in high school that I would get a sperm donor and live my life as a single mom if I hit 30 alone.This guy thinks I’m badass for not giving a fuck about what other people think and doesn’t mind my disorder at all. Ever since he said that I’ve been thinking about a future together. My gut is just saying “he’s the one, girl.” I also really like his personality (matches mine), humor (matches mine as well), and mindset (10/10 IDEAL). So it’s not that I just like him because he doesn’t give a shit about my skin. I just never thought I’d have someone like me for me.Now, I’d just like to know if I’m taking this too far by already thinking about the future. We haven’t gone on a date yet since I have finals these next two week but we’ve planned on setting something up after.Add on: He’s never been in a serious relationship (but has dated) because he prefers to be alone but decided to try something new. And I, obviously, have also never been in a serious relationship.