I am still figuring out exactly what category I fit into as well. I almost have a sex repulsion. It takes me a lot of thinking and talking myself into it to do it. My husband basically let's me know he is ready and a few days later I convince myself to do it. It physically feels good but it's not at all what I desire. I like cuddling and kissing and I do fall in love but it's intellectual based and not physical. My husband was getting really offended that I wasn't sleeping with him and I basically sat him down and explained that I was asexual. That I didn't want or need sex. I would never initiate it and that if he wanted it I would be willing to give it to him but he had to give me time to prepare. It took a bit of patience and understanding on each end but we kinda got a flow working now. We don't have sex very often. I even gave him the option to sleep with someone else because I understand he has needs. He told me no that he is fine as long as I love him an...

Divinity Original Sin 2 is pretty damn good, a shame it is incredibly long since I started drifting from it around the 90 hour mark but I do want to play it again one day. September 10, 2020 at 11:53PM

Thanks, this was really helpful September 10, 2020 at 11:51PM

I like to play a huge variety. I have played in my lifetime over 300 games and I am not even 18 yet (just 7 months away). I have a PC with dozens of games unplayed. A PS4 with yet again unplayed games and I will get a Nintendo Switch next month which means my library will grow once again. Recently I have been playing Fall Guys, Castlevania Symphony of The Night, A Plague Tale Innocence and Crash Bandicoot : Warped. I could talk about video games all day. Unfortunately I don’t play online multiplayer much with the exception of Rocket League or Fall Guys. September 10, 2020 at 11:50PM

You don't stop eh? September 10, 2020 at 11:48PM

I need some help. Me (26 F) and my partner (29 M) have been together for 2.5 years, but we have not started to have sex or had any sexual contact. As time has progressed, I've seen signs that may point to him being asexual, but he has adamantly denied being asexual and says he is just uncomfortable and anxious about starting sex, the unknown of how it'll go, and it's something he knows he needs to get over. He denies having sex repulsion and I know he masturbates on occasion. He claims to be sexually attracted to me yet has never initiated sexual ideas or actions. He finds the idea of me touching his genitals or seeing me naked as uncomfortable. Is it possible that someone gradually 'becomes' more comfortable with those things with more contact, or is this a sign of asexuality that will probably not change? The furthest we have gone thus far is cuddling with some belly skin contact, and we're trying to get him more used to holding me under the shirt, skin acros...

Your dragon is sooo adorable, I love it! September 10, 2020 at 11:46PM

Haha that’s a funny way to think of it XD. Yeah, it was really an awesome experience about finding out I was ace. Came out almost 2 years ago and I wondered why I never had crushes or felt attraction like everyone else my age and I didn’t understand it. When I found out there was a word to describe me and a whole community behind it, it was the happiest moment I’ve felt in my entire short life. Good to know you’ve felt the same! Take care, kind stranger! Also, you look a lot like Harry Styles with long hair btw lol September 10, 2020 at 11:46PM

What goes through my mind? Pretty much the same thing as when I see a nose or an elbow. They’re all just body parts, some more aesthetically attractive than others. September 10, 2020 at 11:44PM

I haven't, but when I'm nostalgic, my copy of Pokemon Red still works. (RIP my copy of Pokemon Blue) and I have the virtual console Yellow and Gold. ​ Well, you basically invalidated the hurt a lot of people felt, in a safe place for them to express that hurt, and told me to just be "self-confident" so I guess I disagree whether that was an argument or not. September 10, 2020 at 11:43PM

Of the two people that I’ve talked to about it, one understands that we’re different and we don’t judge each other. The other always says “So your dick don’t work” (his words) if we’re ever talking about attraction or attractive people or whatever. I’m just like that’s not how it works shut up September 10, 2020 at 11:43PM

You can be gay, bi, straight, etc and still identify as ace. here are some definitions September 10, 2020 at 11:42PM

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Breasts look comfortable generally, i wanna lay my head on them, while muscles look safe and comforting. September 10, 2020 at 11:39PM

Mine's a bit niche I suppose but I'm aego ace (recently discovered, woo!) and I participate in fandom spaces specifically for anime/video game pairings. Ever since I was in high school and I discovered yaoi/BL (boy's love), it's been a way for me to explore my sexuality in a way that's safe and makes me happy. I didn't tell a lot of people in my life about it because not many people would have understood it. I'm also a cis woman and totally secure with my female identity. But people who are like me have been catching flack especially lately as gatekeeping becomes more rampant in LGBTQ+ and fandom spaces and I've been told I'm "not allowed" to enjoy these sort of things simply because I'm a cis woman and not a gay man. Aegosexuality is one of the umbrella identities that isn't really spoken of that much, because most people think an ace person is someone who doesn't want anything to do with sex whatsoever and has no gender/sex p...

Thanks! :D September 10, 2020 at 11:38PM

Thank you so much!! September 10, 2020 at 11:38PM

Almost all of my friends (that know, anyway) were pretty supportive. The vast majority don’t really know what that means, which is fine. They just think that I’m a bit prudish, but I’m fine with that...it makes the shocked looks/uproarious laughter at my occasional vulgar jokes that much more satisfying haha. Others are genuinely curious and start asking rather personal questions, but I don’t really mind because I approach that sort of stuff from a very clinical perspective anyway. And I like teaching people things! And a few...haven’t been as nice about it. Saying that “asexuality doesn’t exist” or trying to convince me I’m something else like being ace is a bad thing. But it’s no sweat off my back. All in all, it’s been positive. They’re all fine with my other weirdness/quirks/eccentricities so they just take it as that I guess September 10, 2020 at 11:38PM

It’s got me at orchid, C, and 3 September 10, 2020 at 11:37PM

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So dating has been rough for me always. Had a bit of a thing for the first half of 2020 but now I find myself in the dating scene yet again (always taking Covid considerations seriously of course). I've really been reflecting on how I approach dating and I've noticed ways to make it more tolerable for me. I had a situation happen where I know last year would have made me feel really upset. I [31F] met up with him [33M], last week. Unfortunately I had to cancel on him twice before meeting because it was pouring, and covid precautions mean I'm only hanging out outside. So, we finally meet over drinks for over four hours. To me there's definite chemistry, he starts to get touchy and leaving the wine bar he kisses me and invites me over his place. I say no. He alludes to it again. Again I say no. I get in my uber and we keep texting. We end up going on a second date and I could tell he was a little reserved comparatively but didn't know if he was waiting for my signal...