I have plans with someone to get coffee in a few days. She didn’t reply after one of my texts and after I double texted a “how was your day”, and I didn’t get a reply. Mind you she posted on her instagram recently, so I know she’s active. Should I triple text to confirm with her? Or just take this as a no and move on. Submitted January 03, 2023 at 01:14AM I have plans with someone to get coffee in a few days.She didn’t reply after one of my texts and after I double texted a “how was your day”, and I didn’t get a reply.Mind you she posted on her instagram recently, so I know she’s active. Should I triple text to confirm with her? Or just take this as a no and move on.

sex indifferent and favourable aces exist. ivf exists. plenty of allo folk are childfree by choice. people with functioning genitals and reproductive organs do not exist solely for population. January 03, 2023 at 12:46AM

I'd say it's the difference between someone who likes being dominated and someone who's just passive. Subs can be quite assertive. A sub who's completely submissive isn't necessarily bad in th bedroom as long as there's proper communication like when to stop etc. January 03, 2023 at 12:46AM

I grew up in a conservative Christian family where it was understood that premarital sex = bad. So, for the longest time I assumed that my lack of interest in sex was me being good and pious. Once I went away to college got out of that bubble, I realized that while my view on sex changed, my lack of sexual attraction didn't. First, do you experience sexual attraction? You can still be sex-averse or repulsed and still experience sexual attraction. But generally, whether or not you experience sexual attraction, and how you experience it, will determine if you're a-spec. Second, how do you think of sex in general vs. sex in regard to you personally. For example, I don't mind watching/reading sexual content, or hearing people talk about sex. But the idea of me personally engaging in sex is very repulsive. That helped me realize that I wasn't just casting a blanket judgment on sex, or people who are sexually active - it's just not something I want. January 03, 2...

I’ve been talking to this guy for the past year and he seems he wants to get into a serious relationship with me sometime within the next couple of months. Theres this girl that he used to be friends with back in university and he never dated her or was ever intimate with her but he has told me she has sent him nudes over Snapchat. I just got him to delete her from Snapchat but it still bothers me that he has seen her naked and he still follows her on Instagram. She has tried hitting him up on Snap for the past couple of weeks but he has told me he hasn’t responded to her and leaves her on open. They haven’t seen each other in person in like 2 years and like I said I just got him to unadd her from Snapchat today. I’m still upset tho that he has seen her naked and still follows her on Instagram. Am I asking to much from him to unfollow her? Submitted January 03, 2023 at 12:15AM I’ve been talking to this guy for the past year and he seems he wants to get into a serious relationshi...

We only do what she wants, if she (and she doesn't want) do something sexual, we never will. It's power play essentially. Nothing more. And we talk about feelings, if there will be any spark of then, we tell eachother January 02, 2023 at 11:41PM