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/u/ennyxy on Dyed my hair purple! Do I look ace yet? :D Seriously tho, got tired of natural colors. I'll be honest the bg is edited,but cuz the doorway caught in the frame and it bothered me. The second pic is the original. No face cuz I don't always feel like showing myself)

Oooh bet that was quite a look too :0 And thank you 💜 July 28, 2022 at 01:41AM

/u/-chychy- on Dyed my hair purple! Do I look ace yet? :D Seriously tho, got tired of natural colors. I'll be honest the bg is edited,but cuz the doorway caught in the frame and it bothered me. The second pic is the original. No face cuz I don't always feel like showing myself)

i just realized that after i read it again. sorry😭❤️ it looks amazing though July 28, 2022 at 01:41AM

He hasn't replied to my message but has been online...

So I met this really cute guy through my friend and I thought things were going well? We'd talk whenever we met (bbq, dim sum) and had good conversation, laughing a good amount too. I hit him up after dim sum and he'd taken a while to respond each time though it went on from Sunday to Tuesday... in my head I'm like if you're taking hours to reply each time why are you even bothering to keep on the convo by asking more questions? I was joking about how he should teach us to make dumplings! and he said he'd coordinate it and I didn't take it seriously until he planned a couple of us to cook lunch together. I was surprised because we all know he doesn't like initiating and making plans We cooked lunch with our one friend and the conversation was going well, lots of questions were directed at me trying to get to know me ("what do you notice in a person when you first meet them?" and inquiring about my life) and I'd return the question. We laughed...

How do I fix this?

I (34m) am coming out of yet another failed "relationship" at 3 months. This seems to happen regularly, I get to the 3 month point, basically at the honeymoon phase, and can't get beyond that. This girl was absolutely perfect for me. She says I'm just missing some "quality" which she can't describe. I know the quality. I've known I'm lacking it for a while, but I don't know where to get it. I'm no alpha male, and I don't want to be, but I'm not even a beta. I'm so far down the list that there's not even a name for it. I'm not confident, I'm extremely self depricating which is obviously a turn off. In my last relationship, she was contacted by her ex. She told me about it, and obviously wanted me to do something, but I just didn't. I sat there and tried to be the "better man" and ultimately she went back to him. I wouldn't say I'm ugly, I have a decent funny personality, I own my own home, g...

/u/KillME778 on am i allowed to call myself asexual if ive only ever been sexually attracted to legolas from lord of the rings?

His face is just making me laugh 😆 July 28, 2022 at 12:39AM

Help asking this girl out

I met her at a party. We had a brief chat and she gave me her number. I texted her the next day and she replied back initially but stopped responding to the conversation. Should I double text and properly ask her out? Or should I take the not interested hint? Or should I text just to hang out with friends? Submitted July 28, 2022 at 12:07AM I met her at a party. We had a brief chat and she gave me her number. I texted her the next day and she replied back initially but stopped responding to the conversation.Should I double text and properly ask her out? Or should I take the not interested hint? Or should I text just to hang out with friends?