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Not sure how to sum this up, but my wife always ignores me and pays more attention to our dog. We both work, active military, and no matter what happens during our day, she always downplays my problems and gripes, and ramps her day up to sound like she just landed at Normandy. Whenever I try to bring up my issues, I get the "well at least you're not xyz". Whenever I talk about it with her, it's the same downplaying, and that I don't have anything to complain about. Even now, I'm sitting on the couch with her watching the Simpsons after she vented about her day for over an hour, and didn't even ask me about mine. Has anybody else gone through this and came out on the other side? Sorry if this is the wrong sub for this, I just needed to vent. Thank you for your time. Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:44PM Not sure how to sum this up, but my wife always ignores me and pays more attention to our dog. We both work, active military, and no matter what happ...

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Hey all. So I'm a 26/M and I left a long distance relationship a couple of years ago. I loved her very much but it wasn't working out. She broke up with me and it took some time to accept but now I wish the best and feel like I have to live on myself. The thing is, I've never been a good dater because I was an awkward and nerdy teenager and am now an awkward and nerdy adult 😂. I've struggled previously with depression but am in a great place mentally and comfortable with myself for the most part. I've found great success with actually meeting people online but I kind of feel like I'm a bit of a personalty catfish - I never get past the first date and am starting to feel like I'll never find anyone and be alone forever. My most recent date was with a girl who we had some very heavy flirty texting and when we met we kissed and cuddled all night pretty much, but the second day I came across a bit needy and strong... A mistake I know. I've read r /niceg...

So, I(22M) went out with my coworker(20F), after nearly 2 months of flirting, and a few weeks of non-stop texting. Stopped after 1 date, but left it open in case one of us left since I was her supervisor, and she didn't want someone to find out and get me fired. Fast forward to mid-December, she goes on unofficial leave(immigration stuff). Manager would rehire her if she wanted to come back. I reached out to her today just to ask how her new year went and see how her immigration stuff is going. Anyway, she tells me that due to current US political issues, her case got delayed again, indefinitely. And, I figure that by the time everything is done(could be months), my manager will hire someone new to replace her. I want to ask her out again, but if feel like a douche to use her situation for my benefit. If i wait too long, i think she might grow disinterested. I had originally decided that by next week, she would have decided to come back if she wanted to, assuming everything had g...

I've got a reasonably long tongue, I can easily touch the tip of my nose and even a bit higher. Most past sexual partners I've had have told me time and again I was the best oral they've ever had. I highly doubt I'll ever be able to get my tongue split.. No doubt it would depend on how long the tongue is and how well they can work it, but I'm insanely curious as to how much difference a spilt tongue makes during oral. I could imagine it'd be pretty fucking phenominal being eaten out by someone who has it done. I know when I had my tongue pierced it restricted movement, but the freedom of two muscles intrigues me. So guys and girls, if you've received oral from someone with it done please comment with experience! How long was their tongue? How well could they work the individual sides in general? And people who have it done, comment your reactions from people who've received oral from you before and after you had the procedure. Thanks! Submitted ...

Me and my boyfriend have decided to start having sex. We are 18 and 20 respectively. We’re long distance for this year, and will not be living near each other until possibly September should I get admitted into a school in his country. This entire week we’ve pretty much attempted sex every day. I’m leaving in 2 days. We won’t see each other again for another 3.5 months. I am a virgin, and he is not, but has only had one sexual partner before me. So far we’ve worked on getting me to be less tight, which we’ve improved on and has gotten easier, but he’ll randomly lose an erection and it’ll hurt when he tries to put his full dick in there. So far, we’ve worked up to 3 fingers in there, but there’s some resistance when it comes to the other half of his penis. Then, he might randomly lose an erection and we won’t know what to do. I’ve gotten better at giving blow jobs, and hand jobs and have made him cum that way, but penetration is kinda hard right now. I almost want to cry. I feel unat...

Follow up question: what if you do know the other person and they happen to be your bestfriend's or your sibling's significant other? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:21PM Follow up question: what if you do know the other person and they happen to be your bestfriend's or your sibling's significant other?

To start off I’m (20F) not obsessed with sex as in being a sex addict. Thank you for taking time to read :-) But I put a lot of value on sex and to me, I only have sex with people who I have feelings for / who I would like to be in a relationship with. Ever since I was a kid (11/12) I’ve been pretty sexual in general which doesn’t help that I’m so highly emotional towards sex. When I was 16 I was pretty sexual still, and hadn’t done anything so I was really curious and wanting to try, I was a pretty big attention seeker (I think I was extremely insecure with myself) and would send lots of provocative pictures to lots of guys. I met this guy (mentioning him as he was my biggest life changer) when I was 16, well we were friends prior but as bad as it sounds we started to speak more after I started sending him random booty pictures (I know it’s terrible). I wanted to do sexual stuff so badly and in the beginning this guy wanted to go on dates etc. but I’d always just ask to go to his h...

I'm in my early 30s now. Some days I have "dry spells" where I get very little cum out especially if I don't exercise and pay attention to my diet. I find the more I jerk off, the less cum I produce especially if I do it once per day. However, I find waiting between 2-3 days makes a difference in semen amount. This didn't use to happen in my teens and 20s where I could jerk off everyday and get a good semen amount. Is this normal part of aging and just being out of shape?? I recently started exercising more and paying attention to my diet and drink a gallon of water everyday. I find this revs my libido more and I produce more "volume" but not the same amount as when I was younger in my teens/20's. Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:29PM I'm in my early 30s now. Some days I have "dry spells" where I get very little cum out especially if I don't exercise and pay attention to my diet. I find the more I jerk off, the less cum I pr...

Guys who I’ve slept with have been pretty shocked to see it because even a bit of touching before sex gets me soaked... I’m thankful that it’s not the other way around but I wonder if this is off putting? Apparently it can reduce friction but I’ve never had problems making a guy cum so I’m interested in other’s opinions/experiences. I’ve read that it’s due to increased oestrogen that extreme vaginal wetness can occur and I’m on the pill so there is increased oestrogen I suppose, but isn’t dryness supposed to be the more likely effect? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:32PM Guys who I’ve slept with have been pretty shocked to see it because even a bit of touching before sex gets me soaked... I’m thankful that it’s not the other way around but I wonder if this is off putting? Apparently it can reduce friction but I’ve never had problems making a guy cum so I’m interested in other’s opinions/experiences. I’ve read that it’s due to increased oestrogen that extreme vaginal wetness can...

Listen, I'm 20 and I think I'm bad at sex. Or, I thought I was good and then in my last relationship which lasted a year, I just became bad at it. My ex was asexual and we probably only had sex 10 times or less in a year. He was also verrrry vanilla. Never made eye contact and was stiff. I feel as if I forgot how to have sex "properly". I'm suuuper excited to get "back on the horse" soon, but I realized I'm an awkward climaxer. I don't know what to do when I orgasm. I'm always pretty silent. What can I say/do to make it obvious and sexy when I orgasm? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:45PM Listen, I'm 20 and I think I'm bad at sex. Or, I thought I was good and then in my last relationship which lasted a year, I just became bad at it. My ex was asexual and we probably only had sex 10 times or less in a year. He was also verrrry vanilla. Never made eye contact and was stiff. I feel as if I forgot how to have sex "properly...

Why is it OK to shame men for their penis size? If you see a douchebag in a big truck or sports car, everyone says he must have a small penis. It's ok to make fun of men with small penises and treat them like they're assholes. Imagine if men correlated small boobs with being insecure assholes. Why is this body shaming allowed? Asking for a friend. 😐 Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:46PM Why is it OK to shame men for their penis size? If you see a douchebag in a big truck or sports car, everyone says he must have a small penis. It's ok to make fun of men with small penises and treat them like they're assholes. Imagine if men correlated small boobs with being insecure assholes.Why is this body shaming allowed?Asking for a friend. 😐

So we have been together for 2 years. I love him very much. I have caught him checking out other girls on this site. I don’t care but wish he was upfront with it. To me honesty goes further than anything. I’ve tried telling him this many times but he still continues to lie about it. Why?? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:51PM So we have been together for 2 years. I love him very much. I have caught him checking out other girls on this site. I don’t care but wish he was upfront with it. To me honesty goes further than anything. I’ve tried telling him this many times but he still continues to lie about it. Why??

Hey! I am in a long distance relationship and me (F20) and my boyfriend (M23) are looking for a better way to have a good time over the phone.The problem is that he lives in a house with his mother due to her being sick, so him moving out or getting his own place is difficult. Of course, with her being around all the time, he's uncomfortable having Phone sex with me, especially since he has almost been caught before and he's generally just shy.Which I of course understand, though it's quite the big kink of mine to listen to his voice etc. so just me talking and him being quiet won't work out. We already thought about him leaving at night and maybe getting in the car, but time zones are making that difficult as well, since his midnight is my 8 a.m. and I'm at work whenever he's "Free" and has some time. Of course we still do it over regular texts as well, but I would prefer being able to actually listen / talk to him. I know it's a tricky situa...

He'll angle/position me a certain way so he can watch porn on his phone without me seeing him do it. He thinks he's being sneaky or whatever but I don't think he realises it becomes pretty obvious when he speeds up/slows down (even just stops at times) whenever he sees fit with the video, that he's only touching me with one hand (so he can hold his phone), or just is seemingly removed from having sex with me in the moment. I'm pretty sure he also tries to match his strokes to whatever is going on in the video too. It's starting to make me feel like he's having sex with himself. This has been going on for a while now. When I first started noticing, I confronted him about it a few times, and each time he just denied it and got upset at me. I've tried to just involve it in the sex but I guess he'd just rather prefer it to be something he's doing by himself? How do I bring this up without it feeling like I'm attacking him, or him feeling like ...

he always wanted me to have sex with someone else so for our anniversary i thought about tieing him to the bed post, blindfolding him, im going to wear lingerie and bring in a hung guy. ill take his blindfold off and suck him and then jack him off while sucking the other guy and then fuck him in front or my husband. do you think my husband will like that? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:56PM he always wanted me to have sex with someone else so for our anniversary i thought about tieing him to the bed post, blindfolding him, im going to wear lingerie and bring in a hung guy. ill take his blindfold off and suck him and then jack him off while sucking the other guy and then fuck him in front or my husband. do you think my husband will like that?

We're both in our mid 20's and want to be as safe as possible. She doesn't bat an eye at raw sex, but the minute we discuss finishing together she's adamant we're not doing it. Which is completely fine with me (and my anxiety) But shouldn't we just use condoms every time then? Aren't we opening ourselves up to the possibility anyway by using the pull-out method? Or am I being dumb? Thanks in advance for everyone's opinion/help Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:57PM We're both in our mid 20's and want to be as safe as possible. She doesn't bat an eye at raw sex, but the minute we discuss finishing together she's adamant we're not doing it. Which is completely fine with me (and my anxiety)But shouldn't we just use condoms every time then? Aren't we opening ourselves up to the possibility anyway by using the pull-out method? Or am I being dumb?Thanks in advance for everyone's opinion/help

Just saw some of Kaylen Ward s nudes on internet I started to feel strong pain on my body (on the left between the stimach and tbe chest) It hurts very bad. Its like a bone is pressing down an orgasn or something. I am also prettt exhausted. Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:58PM Just saw some of Kaylen Ward s nudes on internet I started to feel strong pain on my body (on the left between the stimach and tbe chest) It hurts very bad. Its like a bone is pressing down an orgasn or something. I am also prettt exhausted.

What is it called when someone does this? Like, once someone gets (or tries to) get close to them, they treat the person like they are dispensable? For example: might have time to talk but will ignore their calls for no reason. Will seem interested (at best) and aloof (at worst) but overall positive towards someone/nice to them but will turn cold. Says they like the person and appreciates them, but treats them as if they don’t like them. Runs hot and cold- like one day they want you in their life and the next they couldn’t care less like you’re a stranger and back and forth. They do this with friends, family, and significant others after a certain level of “closeness” develops. What is this called (besides asshole)? is this some kind of personality disorder or attachment type? Submitted January 06, 2020 at 11:50PM What is it called when someone does this? Like, once someone gets (or tries to) get close to them, they treat the person like they are dispensable? For example: might...