So I’m a woman and I LOVE sex. Like reeeeeally love it. However, I have only ever orgasmed while masturbating. Granted, I’ve only ever had one sexual partner, but it’s just weird because it’s like two types of enjoyment in sex vs masturbation. Doing it myself feels dirty and wild and I almost always finish but sex for me feels so passionate and romantic that it feels like the wrong time/place to orgasm(?). Even when my partner would touch me exactly where I wanted to be touched, nothing happened. Like it felt nice, but it wasn’t going anywhere. Maybe it was lack of attraction or something but I don’t know tbh. Figured I’d ask to see if anyone has had a similar experience or knows if this is normal or whatever. Submitted December 13, 2019 at 12:21AM So I’m a woman and I LOVE sex. Like reeeeeally love it. However, I have only ever orgasmed while masturbating. Granted, I’ve only ever had one sexual partner, but it’s just weird because it’s like two types of enjoyment in sex vs m...

Hi guys, how are u doing I am new at this and i am a little bit paranoid I figured you could help me . I just want to ask u i had an adventure with a lady who i don t know her status we just kissed briefly, then she gave me to kisses without using saliva on on my testicule and one on my shaft. She had no visible sores me neither am i at risk of having stds ot stis? Thanks in advanced. Submitted December 13, 2019 at 12:25AM Hi guys, how are u doing I am new at this and i am a little bit paranoid I figured you could help me . I just want to ask u i had an adventure with a lady who i don t know her status we just kissed briefly, then she gave me to kisses without using saliva on on my testicule and one on my shaft. She had no visible sores me neither am i at risk of having stds ot stis? Thanks in advanced.

My gf is going out with an ex tonight to get food because “she feels bad for him”. I asked to pick her up but she wont let me. She got mad and said she does not want to create drama or a fight with him. She was also being somewhat flirty over text message with him while we talked about trust. She flipped out on me because i dint “trust her”. She just threathens to breakup or says she can’t do “this” when i get mad. Why do i put up with this? Because im lonely have no self confidence. I hate being alone and depressed. I also don’t want him to win. This sounds so bad and any guy would drop sucha girl. Submitted December 12, 2019 at 11:54PM My gf is going out with an ex tonight to get food because “she feels bad for him”. I asked to pick her up but she wont let me. She got mad and said she does not want to create drama or a fight with him. She was also being somewhat flirty over text message with him while we talked about trust. She flipped out on me because i dint “trust her”. Sh...

I think the whole feminist movement and me too movement has made young woman much more independent as well as fearful of men, it has done a lot of good however it seems as though woman now are hiding away or acting very standoffish, approaching or meeting woman is as hard as ever now, girls either don't want a relationship as they want to be independent or there too scared of being played with. Where are all the single woman? Where and how would you guys ideally like to be approached? What's your ways of letting a guy know your open to dating? Submitted December 13, 2019 at 12:11AM I think the whole feminist movement and me too movement has made young woman much more independent as well as fearful of men, it has done a lot of good however it seems as though woman now are hiding away or acting very standoffish, approaching or meeting woman is as hard as ever now, girls either don't want a relationship as they want to be independent or there too scared of being played ...

whenever I hear someone say their ideal mate has to look like so-and-so, using celebs as a reference point, I just think it's unhealthy. Submitted December 13, 2019 at 12:19AM whenever I hear someone say their ideal mate has to look like so-and-so, using celebs as a reference point, I just think it's unhealthy.

I(M19) have been feeling even more and more frustrated ever since I broke up like 9 months ago. Rn I have a healthy social life,hit the gym a few times a week, work at a local restaurant and study in senior high etc etc...but I haven't had any luck with women ever since the breakup (mostly with getting hardly any matches and keeping up a conversation on tinder) and like I said it seems to get even more and more frustrating. I've tried almost everything from cheesy pickup lines to flattering. Being as original as possible has shown most success but the thing is that no one seems to truly get interested in me and I almost never get proper responses. (Or just dumb ones like lmao, xdd, ok, yup etc...) Thanks to my job, It feels much easier for me to handle social situations face to face and I really CAN make people laugh hard if I want to. I live in a big city (in Finland) with bunch of other nice girls and I get along with almost anyone but the online conversations never seem t...

so my sort of boyfriend and i had a fight today. basically we hadn’t talked for like two days and i told him i didn’t like how he treated me the other day. basically his car broke down and needed it to get towed back to his house before another company towed it so i let him use my car all day to go back to where the car was and talk to the towing company and i let him borrow money so that he could pay the guy because he didn’t have enough cash on him. basically the same entire time he was acting super irritated and rude but i was just like whatever because i knew he was stressed out. we had planned to order food to pick up and he was like after i make this stop you can call. so after this stop i just double checked and asked him if he wanted me to call now and he got so mad and said i never make decisions for myself and he didn’t want to spend the day with me anymore and that just made me feel really unappreciated because i was literally helping him out all day and he decides to take ...

This girl I've been seeing really wants to have sex. Right now, I can't have sex because my test results are not back yet. It's been a week since she first asked, now it's getting incessant.. My test (stds and HIV) results will be back in 2 more weeks. This morning she said we are for sure having sex today or else she'll take that as a sign that I am not interested in her.. Once the test (hopefully) comes back negative, I can FUCK! but right now I can with a clear conscious. Im too nice of a person lol. How do I get her to wait? The reason I don't want to tell her about the test is because she might take it the wrong way.. Like im a fuckboy or something. This is literally something my doctor told me while I was going in for a regular blood test. I really like this girl (met her in my class) and I realllllly want to be with her.. physically :) Submitted December 12, 2019 at 11:58PM This girl I've been seeing really wants to have sex. Right now, I can...

Hello guys/girls! I'm 28/M. I haven't been dating any girls since 4-5 years ago (maybe had a date or two in this timeframe but nothing special, nothing longer term), I had a girlfriend for more than a year back around 2012-13-14, then I went around dating and hooking up with girls for a one night stands. But after that I got bored a bit with it, not finding any long term girlfriend. So I just got less interested in the whole thing, then my confidence started to dip too (taking too long to get my engineering degree, some girls saying I'm nice and everything but I'm still in school rather than having a job and starting a life etc.. I know I shouldn't worry about them but these things put a mark on my confidence big time, so I'm less likely to start a conversation with a girl knowing I will be declined later on because of this... Anyway I'm half a semester away from my degree, started thinking about work too, but I'm still not sure if I should start a rel...

So I’m [M20] in a small club at my university that is very tight-knit. We meet a couple times a week and are fairly close for the most part. It’s one of the things I’ve enjoyed most about being at my school. This girl joined our group this semester and she’s been a great addition. She’s a lot of fun to talk to and she vibes well with us. Recently I was on Tinder and saw her, and decided to swipe right for the hell of it. We ended up matching, and while we haven’t set up a date yet, it seems like she’s interested. Would it be a bad idea to act on this? My fear is that we would start dating and things would go badly, and then we’d have to see each other in this group for the rest of college. I also don’t know what the rest of the group would think. She’s a grade below me, and even though that’s less of an issue in college I’m afraid they would find it strange Submitted December 13, 2019 at 12:13AM So I’m [M20] in a small club at my university that is very tight-knit. We meet a co...

Hii, so I went on a first date with this guy I met on tinder. We had been talking for over two weeks and we made plans to go out to eat last night. I went to meet him there but the first place we went to was actually closed because they're relocating.. so we ended up going somewhere else and he drove both of us there. He said how he wasn't really hungry because he was nervous, which is exactly how I felt, so we just ordered appetizers. On the date I could tell he was nervous and kind of rambled and tripped over his words a bit. It was easy to talk about things and we found some things that we had in common and laughed a lot together and he even brought up and remembered little things that I had told him before. When we were finishing up he asked me if I wanted to go to the store with him because he had to get some things so then we went there and kept talking and laughed some more. However, this is the part I'm confused about.. he was driving me back to my car and I said s...

I have one class with this girl and see her every other day. I wanted to ask her out to go on a date on Saturday, but just got told by my parents and they’ll be full the whole weekend and won’t be able to take my anywhere. I really wanted to ask this girl out this weekend and dont want to wait another week. Should I tell her how I feel? What do I do for those days in between? Or should I just wait? Submitted December 13, 2019 at 12:16AM I have one class with this girl and see her every other day. I wanted to ask her out to go on a date on Saturday, but just got told by my parents and they’ll be full the whole weekend and won’t be able to take my anywhere. I really wanted to ask this girl out this weekend and dont want to wait another week.Should I tell her how I feel? What do I do for those days in between? Or should I just wait?

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Why do I feel attaked by this December 13, 2019 at 12:13AM

Add "Dr Who" to the list. December 13, 2019 at 12:11AM

I'm this way too! December 13, 2019 at 12:11AM

I can relate to this way too hard December 13, 2019 at 12:06AM

In Prince’s song “Little Red Corvette,” there’s a line “She had a pocket full of horses, Trojans and some of them used.” It took me forever to realize he was referring to condoms, not actual horses... December 13, 2019 at 12:02AM

I never got the sexual innuendos in songs. My sister had to explain to me that ‘cake by the ocean’ had nothing to do with cake. That was a sad day December 12, 2019 at 11:56PM

think of it this way, if you don't have any attraction and your body isn't craving sex anymore, you're not missing out on anything if you only have affection and closeness. I can understand the worries, but I don't think anyone here can give you tips and tricks on how to become sexual , as this is something we have little power over! hope you find your answer _^ December 12, 2019 at 11:52PM

SAME. apparently another version says "makes my panties drop" as well but I've never heard that one. December 12, 2019 at 11:52PM

Check out r/asexualdating . It's a good place to meet people! You can also try asking friends that know your boundaries if they'd be willing to help you figure out dating (if that's not weird for you?) December 12, 2019 at 11:51PM

Cherry lollipops are tasty and I had that same image in my head. I liked the song more when I thought it was literally about candy December 12, 2019 at 11:49PM