Hey guys, long story short I had two dates in the past couple weeks with this girl ive been crushing over in college. (Both sophs) All seems to be going well, but now we have a 5 week break from college. She lives on the opposite side of the country from me, which she told me was almost 3,000 miles. Were not even close to exclusive, so im worried I could lose all progress if she sees an ex or someone new in the 5 weeks. How should I go about texting her over break? Im thinking of pulling back and just trying to have fun with my friends, but I feel like if I dont text her at all she’ll lose a little interest in me. Submitted December 21, 2019 at 11:48PM Hey guys, long story short I had two dates in the past couple weeks with this girl ive been crushing over in college. (Both sophs) All seems to be going well, but now we have a 5 week break from college. She lives on the opposite side of the country from me, which she told me was almost 3,000 miles. Were not even close to exclusi...

Ok this is a bit misleading but I didn't wanna make the title too long. He cares but he loses them or lets them break and then he gets annoyed when I get pissed. And I'm not talking cheap gifts either. Like couple-hundred-dollar gifts. I've always put a lot of thought into my gifts which is why they tend to be pricey, I use old memories or his favorite things and create something personal to give to him. And twice in the last month has it backfired, because the one thing broke (and he blamed me when the warranty expired even though I told him when it did. He claims I didn't) and he lost the other thing. He doesn't ever act like it matters he just says "it'll turn up" or just waits until I keep nagging him to get the thing fixed. Of course, it's too late to fix the thing now, which really upsets me because it was $400 straight down the drain. When I make him stuff it just get stuffed in a drawer or crumpled up behind a desk. And I'm very good...

Okay so I’m just a girl (16) talking about a guy I really like (17). We had a really deep conversation once and he said something I look back to that I don’t fully understand. We had this conversation through text so I’ll tell a little bit about it just so you can have a better idea of the conversation. Him: “Look I really like you and you have turned school into something to look forward to I don’t know what I would do without you. I fully meant when I said I would do anything for you.” Me: “And I meant when I said I trust your words. I believe you and really like you as well. Time goes by faster when I’m with you, it’s like it never lasts long enough. I’ll continue to wait though until I see you again.” Him: “I don’t want our relationship to end, at least for a while. Even if you want a more intimate relationship I wouldn’t mind. You mean the world to me and I wouldn’t give that up for anything or anyone.” I’m confused on when he said, “at least for a while.” We are friends righ...

Texting games causing troubles. So I’ve (M21) met this girl (19F) that I’m currently ”dating”. She’s completely unexperienced, I’m her first experience even when it comes to kissing. We’ve known each other for a while but only met 4 times outside work (we used to work together, how I met her) and every time we met it’s been amazing. She even wanted me to take her virginity last time we met and both agreed it was an awesome night. But there are some problems, which mainly come from AFTER we meet. Our texting becomes very off. We’re used to snapchat a lot and it’s nothing special just bullshit and flirting which we both enjoy. She becomes somewhat distant after we meet ( although after last time we continued flirting, texting like usual etc). As a person she’s quite insecure and generally shy, not that good social skills, she doesn’t have many friends at all and doesnt see them that often. She’s quite lonely. The first night we showed each other affection we talked about how long she...

(18M) Any tips or advice on dating girls that have lives opposite to mine? Most of the girls I get involved with have a good family life and are usually well off. I usually attract these girls because I'm pretty attractive and was raised really well, but I come from a lower class family and my parents are separated. It's probably my biggest insecurity when it comes to dating. Submitted December 22, 2019 at 12:15AM (18M) Any tips or advice on dating girls that have lives opposite to mine? Most of the girls I get involved with have a good family life and are usually well off. I usually attract these girls because I'm pretty attractive and was raised really well, but I come from a lower class family and my parents are separated. It's probably my biggest insecurity when it comes to dating.

I've been trying OkCupid, but it feels like it wants me to buy more and more boosts. I think I need to try something else, but I'm not sure what. I'm just looking for a dating app thats useful for somebody that wants to find a serious relationship, though is perhaps more effective than a questionnaire. Submitted December 22, 2019 at 12:20AM I've been trying OkCupid, but it feels like it wants me to buy more and more boosts. I think I need to try something else, but I'm not sure what. I'm just looking for a dating app thats useful for somebody that wants to find a serious relationship, though is perhaps more effective than a questionnaire.

This is the first time ive dated someone who was younger than 18 and i’m not sure how to feel about it. Anyone who has gone through this, i would love to hear your story and things i should know. We went to a local Foodhall. Even though she’s under the legal drinking age i bought her a glass of wine. I had seen on her social media that she had that before and i asked if her parents were ok with that, she said that it was ok. She only had 1 glass and had ice tea after. She offered to pay for my next glass i kindly refused at first, couple minutes later she went to the toilet and asked again and i said yes and explained her that that never happened to me. She said she thinks its normal, which i really liked about her, she was raised well. We really talked and laughed alot, we were holding hands and being flirty, the chemistry was there and we kissed there. 5 hours later she offered me to bring me home, that was a first too.( I came by public transport and was planning to walk her home ...

So I live an hour from my bf and my parents don’t let me drive to see my boyfriend (I’m 20) because On the chance I get into an accident and the insurance goes up. Well sometimes my boyfriend brings up how he has no spending money because he’s spent a lot in gas to come see me.. but it like bothers me because he makes about 1,200 each paycheck, and he goes to dinner and out to eat with his coworkers a lot. he always prefaces it “I’m not complaining I just have spent a lot of money in gas” or before it was “I can’t see you everyday because i sometimes don’t have time for that” which I totally understand, it just made me upset and didn’t sit well with me. I’m not sure though, thoughts? Am I in the right to be a little upset with those comments? Submitted December 22, 2019 at 12:25AM So I live an hour from my bf and my parents don’t let me drive to see my boyfriend (I’m 20) because On the chance I get into an accident and the insurance goes up.Well sometimes my boyfriend brings u...

I've been talking to a guy quite frequently, and he sent me recently a random text at 5am, a bit relevant to our last conversation (which was one week ago), and when I asked him what it was about, he said he doesn't remember since he was high. Thoughts? Submitted December 22, 2019 at 12:31AM I've been talking to a guy quite frequently, and he sent me recently a random text at 5am, a bit relevant to our last conversation (which was one week ago), and when I asked him what it was about, he said he doesn't remember since he was high. Thoughts?

I (24 m) met this girl (26 f) a few weeks ago through a coworker. The night we met we both had a few drinks. We ended up booking up in my car to kill time and then going back to my house and continued to hook up. After we hooked up we went to sleep she snuck out. I woke up she was gone and didn’t have her number. I hit up my coworker and asked if her friend was wanting a one night stand or something more and may have forgot to get my number. My coworker gave me her number and told me that she was hung over and forgot to leave her number but wanted to talk. I hit her up and we hang out for the next few weeks. Each time we hang out she was never drunk but had been drinking and never wanted to go out and do something. Each time we would hook up she would act like we were in a relationship where she would want me to spend the night or she would spend the night and she would turn to me and kiss me good night. She said to wanted to be casual but when I said so would you be okay seeing m...

So I am going to be single through this time of the year. I guess many of us are. What are some good thoughts to motivate us get through it? Thanks! Submitted December 22, 2019 at 12:32AM So I am going to be single through this time of the year. I guess many of us are. What are some good thoughts to motivate us get through it? Thanks!

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Met this girl a few weeks ago through a coworker. The night we met we both had a few drinks. We ended up booking up in my car to kill time and then going back to my house and continued to hook up. After we hooked up we went to sleep she snuck out. I woke up she was gone and didn’t have her number. I hit up my coworker and asked if her friend was wanting a one night stand or something more and may have forgot to get my number. My coworker gave me her number and told me that she was hung over and forgot to leave her number but wanted to talk. I hit her up and we hang out for the next few weeks. Each time we hang out she was never drunk but had been drinking and never wanted to go out and do something. Each time we would hook up she would act like we were in a relationship where she would want me to spend the night or she would spend the night and she would turn to me and kiss me good night. She said to wanted to be casual but when I said so would you be okay seeing me with someone e...

I wasn’t necessarily “shocked”, I believe “disgusted” would be the right term. I remember wanting to fit in and feeling abnormal because of my lack of desire to let someone in my pants, lol. I was (and am) too busy with school, money, and planning a life for myself to focus on what’s going on “down there”. December 22, 2019 at 12:22AM

I mean, from my experience anyway, there are plenty of dungeons that don't allow sex for various reasons (such as where they rent the space from). The one I'm thinking of was still extremely popular right up until closing (sadly the place renting the space decided they wanted to sell up). The BDSM scene is certainly not all about sex and there's nothing weird or unusual about being into it without being into smut. December 22, 2019 at 12:21AM

So shiny and pretty! December 22, 2019 at 12:20AM

Not from myself, but I've actually specifically heard several Aces mention that they enjoy BDSM either directly or just the idea of it. They always said it just checks certain boxes but still doesn't quite connect to the genitals is all. December 22, 2019 at 12:20AM

i remember some girls in my class back then talking about wet dreama and stuff and me just being...ridiculously confused. like, those are real? you werent joking? ok then. a year later it happened again when a girl in the school (15) had a pregnancy scare because she kept having sex with her BF but only used birth control pills (she turned out to be fine). still though, it felt strange being older than her and realizing i never experienced anything similar, let alone the urge to do such a thing at her age. being ace is weird when youre surrounded by people that arent. December 22, 2019 at 12:02AM

Yeah, I'm 18 too, and it still amazes me that some people out there actually think about, and desire sex December 21, 2019 at 11:59PM

Holla!! December 21, 2019 at 11:58PM

There was a daycare in my MIDDLE SCHOOL for the students children. Yes. It confused/disgusted me then and confused/disgusted me now. December 21, 2019 at 11:55PM

Thank you so much for the recommendations! Ill have to go check them out. December 21, 2019 at 11:54PM