I can honestly say squirting is one of my biggest fantasies and yet still the most elusive. I've read all kinds of articles, watched squirting porn and videos and still the most I've managed to achieve is a gushing orgasm after about a half hour of edging with my wand vibrator and two fingers inside. I've tried playing with my gspot with fingers and with something less flexible like a hairbrush handle (don't have a dildo at the moment.) I've tried rubbing my clit quickly from side to side when I cum, which seems to work often in porn. I've tried fingering myself hard in different positions. My bf has tried with fingers, and I feel as though that's almost worked but I can't manage to cum from him stimulating my gspot even when I'm completely relaxed. I just get stuck in that needing to pee sensation, even though I know I won't actually pee. Idk what gives. Ladies, please share any testimonials or advice you have. I'm willing to try anything...

Looking for a female to give wife her first bi sexual massage. Happy ending type. Anyone live around here? Thanks Submitted September 10, 2019 at 11:45PM Looking for a female to give wife her first bi sexual massage. Happy ending type. Anyone live around here? Thanks

I know some or most of girl deep down them want to get all their holes filled up some how by(toys or real thinglol). The question is what if your gf/wife opened up and told you that she want to full fill her fantasies about being gangbanged and want you to get involved in it. And she won't do it unless you are involved . I know it's something she like but I don't know how to feel about it ! I watched gangbang porn before and it turns me on being a Dom and having one submissive girl getting all her holes filled . But that's another girl not mine so what y'all think guys and girls .. Submitted September 10, 2019 at 11:49PM I know some or most of girl deep down them want to get all their holes filled up some how by(toys or real thinglol). The question is what if your gf/wife opened up and told you that she want to full fill her fantasies about being gangbanged and want you to get involved in it. And she won't do it unless you are involved . I know it's s...

This has happened a couple times in a row now with girls im trying to date, and definitely in the past. So we'd have seen each other a couple times over the course of a couple weeks, conversations going great, she starts face timing me sometimes, we've slept together. We're texting every day. And then suddenly I feel a difference, she's not texting me during the day, or asking me what im up to. I still get something, but it's an obvious departure from where things have been at. I'm pretty good at keeping pace with someone so I just let it slow down but it's hard to adjust to since I was enjoying the steady, positive momentum we were having. The last time we hung out we had fun, she told me nice things about me and complimented me. Said she was happy I kissed her on the first date. But then lackluster communication. I really dont like feeling like I'm playing games but after a pretty minimal response from her on sunday I'm giving it a few days of no...

My husband is the Andy Dwyer to my April Ludgate and I am so damn lucky to have him. But as the pessimist in our marriage, I'm having a hard time helping "Andy" with his current patch of melancholy. It's a cliche, but we've been through a lot together. In our first 6 months of dating, we both had some professional setbacks and moved provinces. During that same period, Andy's father passed abruptly while we were across the country. Some days it feels like every time we've managed to catch our breath, the next crisis is right around the corner. We're barely financially stable now, thanks to very careful budgeting. Throughout everything, my husband is still the kindest, most patient person I've ever met. Andy projects a very friendly, optimistic personality to others, because he never likes to bring the mood down. However, he really struggles to extend that same kindness towards himself. Instead, like many men, he bottles up his anxieties and inse...

My BF (31 M) and I (27 F) broke up mid April and then first week of June I found out that he’s getting married. We dated on/off for 4 years. I know we weren’t compatible but it’s heartbreaking he moved on so fast. I’m still trying very hard to move on from this but every time I think about this situation it makes me uncomfortable. I know I shouldn’t care but the woman he’s getting married to is a bit older than him and she’s a successful surgeon. He works for his dad as they have a family business. TL;DR: found out ex is getting married a month after break up. Is this normal or am I crazy?! Submitted September 10, 2019 at 11:03PM My BF (31 M) and I (27 F) broke up mid April and then first week of June I found out that he’s getting married. We dated on/off for 4 years. I know we weren’t compatible but it’s heartbreaking he moved on so fast. I’m still trying very hard to move on from this but every time I think about this situation it makes me uncomfortable.I know I shouldn’t ca...

Keeping where I am going vague as he has reddit. I am moving out of the country in a few days. I was teasing my brother with funny GIF pics and other things. He never told me it was getting too much, or id have stopped. Now heres the event: I was dancing in front of his room then 1 hr later he opened my locked door ( with a coin). He came in, grabbed my luggage and said " I wanna see if you have anything prohibited by TSA" with a smile. He began to throw all my stuff out of the luggage and I begged him to stop but he pushed me away and kept pulling bags, socks, toiletries, and threw them all around my room. I cried and was upset. My mom came in the room but did nothing as if she tried hed get mad and dump the whole luggage. He in general isnt a good person. Lazy, judgemental, abusive to my mom. He is walking the fine line to getting kicked out. He lied that he was studying, which is why he destroyed my luggage. He was even playing video games when I was dancing by his roo...

To make this short, I moved to another country for my masters. When I toured the school in May I matched with a guy who had recently graduated. He was really funny, we have the same interests, and even though I deleted my Tinder we texted every day until I moved last week. ​ A week later he asked me to get drinks. We stayed out until 4 a.m. I noticed he's very shy, doesn't make a lot of eye contact, has some nervous tics like running his hand through his hair and shrugging constantly. But by the end of the night (and several beers later) when we were talking at the table he held my hand and ran his thumb over my knuckles. It was the most gentle, sweet thing I've ever experienced. ​ I have been in some very bad relationships, both emotionally and physically abusive. I have not dated in a long time because I am worried about moving things forward. However, this guy is the exact opposite of any guy I've gone out with. We went on one more date and now we're doing a...

I'm poly with multiple partners, and so is my girlfriend. We're traveling entertainers so it's not uncommon for us to get partners in other nearby cities - I have two partners here in town, but all of hers are in other cities. I'm the only local one, and she considers me her most intimate (she's told me as such). I'm the newest by almost a year. She would text me every day, send me pics on snapchat, call frequently - couple stuff. Even when she was out of town. She took me places and to parties and bought me food and drinks (nothing I encouraged, she's just kind). We hung out 2-3 times a week. Recently, though, within the past few months, it's started to fade. We hang out a lot less, she usually only texts if she wants to complain about someone or if she needs something. We don't go out really, I just come over to help her (traveling and working two jobs, she is extremely busy and often asks for help with personal projects). Her newest partner is ...

A friend of mine who I have known for almost a decade tried to make a move on me over the weekend when I was staying with him and his fiancee'. My family situation is really strained so when I come to visit my hometown, my friend has offered to let me stay at his house. Prior to this, my boyfriend was typically visiting with me, too. But, this time around, I did a solo trip. At first, everything seemed normal. Then, on the second day, I got back to his house somewhat late (around 10:00-10:30pm) and he was still awake playing a video game in the living room. I sat down on the opposite end of the couch, leaving a respectable amount of room between us. Suddenly, I had the brilliant idea of, "Hey, let's get really really high and watch this particular music video I think you'll go bananas for." We watched the video and, at some point, I felt his hand brush up against mine. I quickly moved it away, kind of shrugging it off. His dog was laying between us and we wer...

It was recently my birthday. Everyone in the one of my group chats messaged me happy birthday except the one friend who I thought was closest to. She left it on read and there was radio silence from her for a couple of days until I messaged her and she sent a short apology on how she was going to wish me a happy birthday. And that was fine. I wasn’t really upset because people get busy— whatever. She recently sent me a message over social media about how much of a pain in the ass it is for her to message someone “happy birthday” in a different group chat and how she’s going to because she feels pressured. This obviously reminded me of my birthday and I originally was going to send her something like “I was hurt”. But I’m not sure if I’m reading into this too much or if she’s actually being passive aggressive. I have a history of looking into things too much. I’m also not sure how to address this without sounding petty. Basically: (1) is she being passive aggressive? (2) should I voi...

I have this friend I know for a long time (10+years) and consider one of my best friends. I call to check how's his life going on to keep in touch, message time to time since we are in different cities. Most of the time he doesn't answer back or text back which I told to him not to do this because I find it rude. I told him to at least return the call when you are available but nothing changed. This makes me think that he doesn't want to keep in touch or that he is trying to exclude me from his life without saying it outright. Then he proceeds to invite me to some event or calls me to hangout as if nothing happened. And then this makes me think as if I'm forcing him to hangout since he is the kinda guy that everyone likes and I haven't seen him say outright to anyone that he doesn't like that person. So far I tried to think that I'm being paranoid and trying to ignore this. On most recent case same thing happens. I call to make a small-talk and he doesnt a...

Me and my SO [26M] have been together for five years, living together for four. My MIL has always been supported by my SO, and ever since I came along, me as well. My MIL begged me and my SO to move up by my SIL. She can't afford it by herself, and has too many back problems to work full time anywhere that requires her to lift moderately heavy objects. And since we all have a good relationship, we both agreed. But recently, she's found this supposed miracle of a job, and has recently been pressuring me to join as well. Child Care Providers. She found out from her granddaughter's fifteen year old friend, which I don't even know how she got into it at her age. Please note that everything I've listed below is just what I've found out from the paperwork and office about it. I have no experience in the job she wants, and if I get something wrong and it's not as bad, I'd love to know. I had two concerns right off the bat; this job requires way too much wo...

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. We met when I was halfway through college. He "finished" school (which I later found out meant he flunked and left) and moved back home with his parents. It's been two years, he has not gotten a job, crashed his car and has made no effort to get a new one, has become consumed with fun, semi-pointless hobbies (drones, MY video game systems, vaping, bubble blowing), and on top of that drinks alcohol nearly every day and smokes at least $100 worth of thc products a week. He also has a dream to become a musician and owns at least $10k+ worth of music equipment. Produces his own musics but never finishes the songs nor posts them. He sucks at communicating (via phone, internet, ect) and since coming back home has lost the majority of his fanbase. I've addressed to him multiple times that I'm concerned with what he's doing with his life and he always gets defensive and says things take time. He turns 25 next y...

I got a message from a guy (32/m) -me -29:F 10 years ago. Back then, were madly in love, and were both already in relationships. We both went completely separate paths even though there was a tiny window of opportunity, neither of us took it because we were too shy. I just got married this year. He messaged me and told me he couldn’t stop dreaming about me. (Random!!) I can’t do it, I just can’t. He hasn’t aged a day. When I spoke with him shortly it felt like it was only yesterday. I’m going to stop this, as exciting and emotional as it seems. Nip it in the bud. Has this happened to anyone? NOT some old ex (as we were never officially together but we KNEW) more like something along the lines of a chick flick romance. I’m 29 years old and refused to get married all of my life until recently because it finally felt right. What do I tell him? I already told him I’m married and happy, and he is too. But there’s that - tension. Somebody slap me!! (Or give me advice on how to handle cu...

I mean, it's self-explanatory. He knows it's an important period of my life, too. Every single thing he's sending to me after I told him to leave me alone has just made me to lose progress. Also, no, I can't change my number or Whatsapp. I have to check them often because of family or university. He's half-way across the world, so I can't really involve police. Blocked our mutual friends as well. TL;DR - Ex was told to leave me alone and cut off, using everyone that knows me to push me to contact him, intentionally tries to get round me blocking his main numbers to send me messages that I don't like. Submitted September 10, 2019 at 11:41PM I mean, it's self-explanatory. He knows it's an important period of my life, too. Every single thing he's sending to me after I told him to leave me alone has just made me to lose progress.Also, no, I can't change my number or Whatsapp. I have to check them often because of family or university. He...

My boyfriend and I are college students and we both have separate on campus apartments. Since this current year has started I have spent basically every night at his because his apartment is closer to my classes, I’m friends with his roommate and his roommate’s girlfriend and I just genuinely enjoy being in his apartment with him. Anyway, a couple days ago I came down with a terrible flu/sinus infection. Like fever, pain, almost constant painful coughing and sneezing. I was and still am in hell. I’m not in the best mental state when I’m ill. I’m not sure if many people are but I’m normally very smiley and happy so at least for the majority of the day I stick that illness depression into kinda like a growing ball of duck tape and go about my day. But today it was very bad mentally...I couldn’t seem to my process my professors when they were lecturing and I stared at my TF for about 5 or more min before I understood her very simple question. Also some other small things sucked but meh....

I’ve known this man for about 10 years. When I first met him, he did not have a disability. We flirted for about 2 years but I transferred to another college and we just decided to we would still be friends but not anything more than that. We never were anything official. About a year ago he was in a car accident. Because of that he lost all mobility in one of his arms. We reconnected through Facebook and he was telling me about his situations. I didn’t realize how bad his injury was until we met up in person and I realized that he cannot move his arm at all. It was a shock to see him now because he used to be a gym rat and now he isn’t able to workout like he used to so he is a lot smaller. I still have feelings for him and we are thinking about picking back up where we left off all those years ago but I’m very concerned about being respectful of him with his situation about his arm and also how to even talk to him about it. I have yet to mention anything about it because I don’t w...

My friend and I always hang out at her house and never mine. She is very close with her family which is a very good thing. But the whole time we are hanging out her siblings come in, demand I watch them do things and tell us they’re bored. So we have to play games with them and basically babysit them, we get very little time to just hang out alone. Does anyone know how I should bring this up to her if at all? What should I say? TL;DR! My friend and I always have to babysit her siblings when we hang out Submitted September 10, 2019 at 11:44PM My friend and I always hang out at her house and never mine. She is very close with her family which is a very good thing. But the whole time we are hanging out her siblings come in, demand I watch them do things and tell us they’re bored. So we have to play games with them and basically babysit them, we get very little time to just hang out alone. Does anyone know how I should bring this up to her if at all? What should I say?TL;DR! My fri...

So to give a little more context, she had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship (I was not the immediate rebound) and she is the best friend of my friends GF, they introduced us in the summer and we immediately hit it off, we were very open about everything, shared a lot of feelings and talked a lot with each other, after knowing each other for quite a bit we started officially dating for about 3 weeks. But then out of nowhere she freaked out one night, called me out of the blue crying and wouldn’t say what was wrong and everyday since then there was a massive lack of communication. For example I wouldn’t even get a response when I asked her how her day was. Because of the type of person I am I got really confused and anxious so I waited a bit and asked if she was alright. She said that she had a lot going on and she needed to focus on herself, and thinks that I’m an amazing person and that she’s not what I need right now and that friends is what we should be. I knew she got out o...

My partner and I have been deeply involved in remodeling a small business, her as an admin and I as the main construction/laborer. We are at about 80% completion as far as labor goes. We were supposed to run said business after the remodel was completed. I believe the stress of everything combined with our fairly fresh relationship drove us apart(as well as other issues). I want to try and work things out, she does not. Now we are both sharing living space and trying to finish this project, as much as possible, before we go our separate ways. I am having loads of trouble staying any kind of motivated to continue sharing space, let alone work side by side, to reach a goal i won't be involved in. I have no contractual obligation to stay. I think the company I work for is amazing and I would like to continue to work for them in the future. TL;DR How do I make this failed relationship still function as a business partnership? Submitted September 10, 2019 at 11:56PM My partner...

Hello, reddit! I'm a 28-year-old woman who is a few weeks out of a tumultuous year-long relationship. I know I'm not ready to move on emotionally right now, but I miss sex, and I'd like to find a respectful guy to form a FWB relationship with (or hell, even a one night stand would be fine at this point). I've been using Tinder, but have had absolutely no luck finding a decent candidate, and guys on Bumble/Hinge seem like they're looking for relationships. This is my first ever time trying to find this kind of arragement (I've typically been in relationships), and I have no idea if I'm doing something wrong. Where do I go/what apps do I use to find a guy who wants to hook up like once a week with no drama or strings attached? ​ tl;dr How do I find a respectful FWB or a guy looking for casual encounters? No luck on traditional dating sites. ​ *Edit: I feel like I should add that I'm looking exclusively for local people. I'm not interested in sexti...

I don't know if this the right subreddit to help me, but I think it's a good start. Recently, I kind of decided that I want to focus more on my career and see where that'll take me. I casually date here and there but my major priority is finding a job in my field, and securing a future, that sort of self-actualizing stuff. Currently, I'm an intern at a media studio, I do a good job. And they trust me with more responsibilities that you wouldn't let an intern usually do ( Things like transcoding, etc.) I eventually realized that just knowing your stuff in the media field isn't going to be enough to land a position, you need to be able to make friends with people. Kind of unfair. my major question is, how do I "Schmooze " with people or co-workers?, I've be great in conversation when it gets going. But I kind of hate small talk, and I kind of feel slimy just getting to know someone just to get a job ( Or maybe that's normal in the adult world...