I totally get this and feel this way often. The past few days especially I’ve felt this way. You’re not alone January 28, 2020 at 11:58PM

Hey, I am not to sure what I can say to help but feel free to dm me if you want to vent or let me know the situation a little more to see if I can help January 28, 2020 at 11:58PM

Holy crap! I was just there 2 days ago! We should share art! January 28, 2020 at 11:57PM

Absolutely glad to be of help! :) January 28, 2020 at 11:57PM

“Ahhh smug mode” January 28, 2020 at 11:55PM

As a female asexual, I always feel bad for the male asexuals due to ToXiC mAsCuLiNiTy. Male prejudice is real and it tends to especially affect male asexuals. My support to you guys, you are completely valid despite what any "bros" might tell you. The real bros are the bros that respect your experiences, desires and boundaries. Good luck out there! January 28, 2020 at 11:55PM

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Done! I always love filling out surveys/studies on asexuals/aromantics/whatever! January 28, 2020 at 11:52PM

Spongebob of course January 28, 2020 at 11:50PM

Usually "homosexual" is used in really derogatory ways towards gay people, so it and "homo" are usually seen as slurs. From the GLAAD website; https://www.glaad.org/reference/offensive Just using "gay" works fine, you don't need to say "gays and lesbians" since "gay" covers mlm and wlw (aka gay men, bi men, gay women, bi women, etc). You didn't know, it's okay; the older people may not mind as much, but the more "current" generations do. If you aren't, like, gay as well as being ace, I really wouldn't suggest using the word. Like given I'm both ace and a lesbian I could use it and it would been seen as slightly less of a slur because I'm a lesbian, but it still stings, if that makes sense? January 28, 2020 at 11:48PM

.....that looks like Reily Street..... January 28, 2020 at 11:47PM

Everyone always asks “are you dominant or submissive?” And sometimes I feel like one, sometimes I feel like the other (kinda depends on my mood). I feel like I’m generally speaking I’m the only one of my friends who doesn’t fall into the binary. Does anyone else feel this way? 21F for context Submitted January 28, 2020 at 11:47PM Everyone always asks “are you dominant or submissive?” And sometimes I feel like one, sometimes I feel like the other (kinda depends on my mood). I feel like I’m generally speaking I’m the only one of my friends who doesn’t fall into the binary. Does anyone else feel this way? 21F for context

I’m a gay male, and I have been super sexually frustrated lately. So let me explain whats going on, and let me know if this is something I should go talk to someone about or if it’s just the way I am. So I have normal sexual urges like any other gay man, but I have a VERY hard time with actually having sex with anyone or any form of intimacy. It has a lot to do with me being gay because I feel like it’s a common occurrence for gay people (not all) to just sleep and hookup with whom ever. Thinking about sleeping with someone off of tinder or Grindr isn’t appealing to me at all, and I always think about my emotions being played with. Like letting a man I don’t know “have my body” And then just leaving like I was only a body to him. Self respect is a huge thing for me and I respect my body a lot! These values seem to get in the way of me being able to experiment and experience sex. And as stated before a lot of gay men aren’t looking for anything long term especially in my demographic (1...

i’ve heard some men say that a condom takes away 80% of the feeling, or that it’s nearly impossible for them to cum with a condom on, which seems a little dramatic to me, but what do I know since I don’t have a dick. does condom sex really suck that bad for guys? or is this just an excuse to go raw? Submitted January 28, 2020 at 11:48PM i’ve heard some men say that a condom takes away 80% of the feeling, or that it’s nearly impossible for them to cum with a condom on, which seems a little dramatic to me, but what do I know since I don’t have a dick. does condom sex really suck that bad for guys? or is this just an excuse to go raw?

The conversation: https://imgur.com/a/cjPp4ST Surprised? Confused? Shocked? Aroused? Upset because it's technically cheating? I feel like the answer to all of the above is currently yes . Submitted January 28, 2020 at 11:48PM The conversation: https://ift.tt/3aPtZV1? Confused? Shocked? Aroused? Upset because it's technically cheating?I feel like the answer to all of the above is currently yes.

I um...am extremely sexually frustrated. If it means anything at all I'm still a virgin sooo. Besides a few manic periods of diligence, I think about sex all the fucking time. But I'm not horny. I just feel this weird sexual envy and shame. I feel like I'm not supposed to have sex or enjoy it because I'm weak and don't enjoy it as much as others. Jacking off feels alright but it leaves me feeling bad about myself. Like I feel limited or not sexual because of it. I desperately WANT anal to be more pleasurable but it doesn't. Like I think about (and sometimes act on) putting things up my ass. It doesn't feel bad, it just feels boring. I finger myself in the shower out of habit and I get aroused and worked up and moan for some reason, but I don't feel anything physically and the arousal fades into boredom almost immediately. It's becoming not even an addiction, but more this weird, crazy longing for something I only half want. ​ I'm just wond...

Okay ill just go in to the topic. Im 29 ( m ) and never had sex in my life. Just kissed a once. Now im apart from my family and leaving myself and want to try it. But whenever i think about it, im getting scared. I mean im little overweighted (130kg) and cause of that i have small penis. So while im thinkin having sex with someone ( girlfriend or escort ) im getting scared cause maybe i couldnt make her feel good also. I mean im thinking that sex should be the thing where both sides are having good time. Maybe im thinking wrong i dont know. So until this time i never shared this to any person and yeah this is my throwaway account. I just want to feel normal and have a healthy relationship. Yeah i dont have any girlfriend also thats the other thing that im getting scared. If you watched the movie called " 40 years old virgin " i feel like that im that guy. I dont know what should i do. Even writing about it im getting scared. Help ? Submitted January 29, 2020 at ...

So I've been in a mono relationship for a long time and I have no idea how to do these anymore. What I know, is that the bisexual in me does love all the dick, but really craves some pussy too. My partner isn't the fan of the open relationship idea, so we might compromise at a threesome. Do you just have to be lucky and meet the right one at a houseparty? Is there tinder for couples? And if you're already here... do you think a strong "NO" to poly has a potential to ever change? I'm kinda sad, but what can you do, it's fair and it's his right. Submitted January 29, 2020 at 12:00AM So I've been in a mono relationship for a long time and I have no idea how to do these anymore. What I know, is that the bisexual in me does love all the dick, but really craves some pussy too. My partner isn't the fan of the open relationship idea, so we might compromise at a threesome. Do you just have to be lucky and meet the right one at a houseparty? Is t...

Opinions? Submitted January 29, 2020 at 12:03AM Opinions?

I grew up in an extremely religious household where everything sex related was banned and shamed until you got married and you're magically supposed to figure everything out... During my time in this intense religion I found myself drawn to my same gender, mainly in porn and it scared, confused, and shamed me at the time. I've since left the intense church I belonged to and my incredible spouse has encouraged me with love to explore this important part of myself. It's been a crazy, wild, and meaningful journey so far and I just feel like the luckiest in the spouse department. Final thoughts: love your person, see them, and accept them as best you can without judgment. Listen to understand. Put aside ego and pride to allow space for individuality that will empower your person to choose you every day while still being themselves. IF you do, letting your partner go enough to let them discover their true self will ultimately and counterintuitively bring you closer and make y...

Should I shave my dick or keep some hair? Submitted January 29, 2020 at 12:15AM Should I shave my dick or keep some hair?

So I very recently (3 days ago to be more specific) turned 18, and so I thought why not try my luck with dating apps n whatnot, and so far i've met some cool luckily, mostly lots of dick pics and offers for me to be older mens sugar babies lol, but otherwise pretty good. But one thing I notice is that if a guy who is serious about wanting to be with me, yet i'm not too attracted to him and thusly don't really wanna be with him. I feel guilty about saying no, as well I have had a guy who was really nice and attractive and seemed pretty cool, yet he has kids, and he lives far away and those are deal breakers to me as of right now. But at the same time I feel guilty rejecting him because he just is looking for a lover. Does anyone else get this type of guilt when someone genuinely wants to be with you yet your not really into them? Submitted January 28, 2020 at 11:53PM So I very recently (3 days ago to be more specific) turned 18, and so I thought why not try my luck wi...

This guy and I met three years ago through a mutual friend and have been talking online ever since. We finally had the guts to go on a date a few days ago and instantly hit it off. He seemed to genuinely really like me and would constantly go out of hims way to talk to me. Second date was amazing as well. Third date we made out and immediately after that he seemed to get extremely distant. He seems to have backed off completely and his texts are really dry unlike before. It’s been a couple weeks and I just want to know what I could’ve possibly done for him to lose interest. He’s a very attractive freshman in college and likely gets swarmed by girls. I’m a senior in high school and he never wanted me to get with me, instead he was super interested in getting to know me and seemed to really like me for who I was. I think that he just wanted something to “chase” and now that I finally expressed interest back, it’s over. :( I feel not good enough for him to genuinely want me. I wonder w...