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/u/Rivkari on So this is really for the girls on here.

Thanks! March 21, 2023 at 01:08AM

How do you express that you want 'friendship' without scaring off potential partners forever?

For religious reasons and reasons related to being in an abusive relationship for the past 10 years, I'm not ready to date. I need friends and I feel like I'm just a bull in a china shop emotionally. Afraid of pushing away genuinely nice guys because they think I'm "friendzoning" them. Advice? Submitted March 21, 2023 at 01:11AM For religious reasons and reasons related to being in an abusive relationship for the past 10 years, I'm not ready to date. I need friends and I feel like I'm just a bull in a china shop emotionally. Afraid of pushing away genuinely nice guys because they think I'm "friendzoning" them. Advice?

Trying to complete my highschool bucket list.

I'm a senior in highschool and we have this thing called "Senior Ball," which is basically a Senior Prom. I have my dress, and everything I need even though the prom is in May. One of the things I've dreamed about when I was a kid was, having a super hot boyfriend and go to prom like Cinderella. My dress lookin' like peachy Ariel, and my super hot boyfriend doesn't exist so I'd say "close enough." I would like to replace "super hawt bf," to a date. So, maybe a second date which is at the prom, though I have a very tiny little issue: ♡I don't talk to any men ♡Don't have any friends who are male ♡Awkward around men. Is there like a Tinder for Teens? That sounds illegal, scratch that but, I don't know men, I'm awkward around men unless it's in group. Finding a man is like find water in a dessert. How do I find someone to date without being creepy? Should I just text someone from Instagram? It's only a date, not ...

When & How Should I Ask Her To Be In A Relationship With Me?

I've (M28) been dating this girl (F28) for the past few weeks and I have a really great feeling about her. We frequently send long texts to each other throughout the day and tomorrow night I go on my 6th date with her. I get the feeling that she also likes me so now I'm wondering if this next date is the right time to ask her to be in a relationship with me. Usually by now I would have been a lot more intimate with a girl but so far the most we have done is kissed. Usually when I get into a relationship with a girl, that relationship talk always naturally happens around the first or second time we sleep with each other, and I don't really expect that to happen tomorrow night with her. Is it reasonable to wait until we get to that part in what we have to ask her? Or should I just go for it tomorrow night towards the end of the date? Part of me just wants to say to her "hey so I really enjoy our time hanging out, going on these dates together, and I like you. So I was...

Truly need actual advice this time

For anyone who saw my last post, it was all just a joke. I wanted to see what ppl would say but this one isn't in any way a joke. How did you figure out that current significant other or an ex was the one for you? If an ex how long after breakup? Would you recommend reaching out to said ex and trying again? Is it wrong when looking for a gf/bf to take into consideration what your family would think, lemme explain. Like if they would bully or tease you about certain things like weight, height, ethnicity the more looks of a person. Is this wrong to take into consideration or not? Submitted March 21, 2023 at 12:13AM For anyone who saw my last post, it was all just a joke. I wanted to see what ppl would say but this one isn't in any way a joke.How did you figure out that current significant other or an ex was the one for you? If an ex how long after breakup? Would you recommend reaching out to said ex and trying again?Is it wrong when looking for a gf/bf to take into...

/u/BlaqNeko9 on Garlic bread is SO much better

If someone says they are interested in sex with me, for some weird reason, I get excited and think, "Ooh, I feel needed and wanted!" then I realize just what that means, and just what they want to do to me, and I run away screaming in terror. I am not aromantic, I wanna be loved, but I don't wanna "do that". March 20, 2023 at 11:34PM