I seem to click with Women in the 20s and have done for the last five years or so since been divorced. But it’s time to settle down again soon I think so I’m keen to hear of the good points and bad points about such an age gap when it comes to settling down. The girls out there what concerns do you have? Children? General stage of life? Physical attraction declining potentially? I really love to get inside your mind a little bit to find out what you’re really thinking in there because I don’t wanna make a mistake for myself or someone I care about…once she comes along. Relationships I’ve hard till now with Women in this age group have been mutually causal, What’s zero pressure and just lots of fun. So the settling down part has been hard to gauge. Guys, keen to know from your perspective as well, what’s worked and what hasn’t worked, did something surprise you In both a good way or a bad way, along the way. No haters please…let’s keep it nice…thank you 😊 Submitted October 02, 20...

So this ones got a story with it for my specific situation however I’m genuinely curious what people think. Main question: After a while of being in the talking stage should I just be straight up with how I feel towards the person? My situation: so I’ve been talking with this girl at my uni, we’re both really into each other and have gone on two dates now. I accidentally got black out drunk at her place one night and kept telling her how much I liked her. She thinks I don’t remember that but I do. After that night we had a bit of tension for 3 days until I reached out to make sure she was ok and we’re back at it. I guess the main fear right now is rejection. Not too sure if I should just go with the flow of this or just be straight forward with her. Submitted October 02, 2021 at 12:50AM So this ones got a story with it for my specific situation however I’m genuinely curious what people think.Main question: After a while of being in the talking stage should I just be straight u...

So basically I find it quite easy to become friends with people but when it comes to asking women I like out I have no clue how to do it, and mostly just end up becoming friends with them, which complicates things. This isn't a terrible thing don't get me wrong, having friends is always good, I've never been too interested in dating but it would still be nice, it's just when I do see a girl I like and start talking to her chances are we're gonna become mates! I was wondering if anyone had any advice on this? Submitted October 02, 2021 at 12:54AM So basically I find it quite easy to become friends with people but when it comes to asking women I like out I have no clue how to do it, and mostly just end up becoming friends with them, which complicates things. This isn't a terrible thing don't get me wrong, having friends is always good, I've never been too interested in dating but it would still be nice, it's just when I do see a girl I like and ...

Five months ago I met this girl when I was working at a convenience store that is quite close to the town where I live. I was working in the kitchen and at the cash register and was in charge of greeting her and showing her how everything worked when she arrived (This was about 5 months ago or so). I'm 22 years old, I'm pretty shy and suck at personal relationships, I've never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone, let alone lost my virginity. So when I met her I limited myself to just talking about work and teaching her how to improve customer service. I must admit that the moment I saw her I thought she was really cute, but besides my shyness I didn't want to mess with a co-worker either. Weeks went by and I couldn't help but look at her. Several times she noticed it and smiled at me. Other coworkers always talked to me about her and said she liked me and told me to go talk to her, but I said no because we worked together. About two months ago I quit my job an...

So there’s a girl I’ve liked for a couple of years now. I want to know how to start a conversation with her. I’m super extroverted and approaching random people and talking to them I’m usually good at and I can hold a conversation for long periods of time pretty easily but idk how to jut randomly go up to her and talk because I know very little about her. Her Instagram account has no posts an just says in her bio that she likes gaming and art. I love gaming but it’s not my favourite thing ever and I know nothing about art. And the only time I see her is at lunch when she is with her friend and I am with mine. (And sometimes I even skip lunch to get some work done in the auto shop.) And the final thing is that a year and a half ago I messaged her on ig about her profile picture of her dog that looked like my cousins and I have never gotten a response. Do I just let it go now? Any help is appreciated. Thanks in advance! Submitted October 02, 2021 at 01:14AM So there’s a girl I’ve ...

Oh boy, you're not wrong, but also missing the point/origin story. agb was for the "bro gays", the ones that "don't make being gay a personality trait", the "no snowflake fuck pronouns" "masc4masc" crowd, and all the toxic masculinity/internalized homophobia that comes with that kind of mindset. I'd say they're very on brand with their hatred. October 02, 2021 at 12:04AM

But it’s not even a disinterest of sex. It’s a lack of sexual attraction. And being gay isn’t having a different “preference” it’s having a different sexual orientation. Two completely different things. October 02, 2021 at 12:03AM

Most of the time when men talk about being "men", they really mean "little boys" October 02, 2021 at 12:02AM

I was using all I had in me not to call him every curse under the sun tbh. October 02, 2021 at 12:01AM

It comes from the fact that we've made straight the default setting. That, if you did experience sexual attraction you'd inherently be straight. Especially if you're also aromantic as well. Because you're celibate (Not all aces are, of course, but straight people seem to assume so), you can "pass" as a straight person who isn't in a relationship or just is a prude. October 02, 2021 at 12:01AM

I (F22) really want to take my relationship with my boyfriend (M22) to the next level but he seems hesitant to make the first move, despite the little nudges I have given him to show that I am interested. I really don’t want to rush or emasculate him by coming on too strong. At the same time, I want the moment to be sexy. I am also a very tactile person so a straightforward “I want to have sex with you” just won’t do it for me. Any idea what I can do to show my interest? Submitted October 02, 2021 at 12:30AM I (F22) really want to take my relationship with my boyfriend (M22) to the next level but he seems hesitant to make the first move, despite the little nudges I have given him to show that I am interested.I really don’t want to rush or emasculate him by coming on too strong. At the same time, I want the moment to be sexy. I am also a very tactile person so a straightforward “I want to have sex with you” just won’t do it for me.Any idea what I can do to show my interest?

I'm able to get her dripping wet, to the point where when she gets on top of me and starts grinding(the way she likes to orgasm since penetration is impossible at this point), my whole penis and thighs are covered in fluid! I've tried fingering her with one finger and I'm able.to insert it almost fully in(2+ inches), but as soon as I try to insert two, she says it hurts. My penis is atleast 3 fingers big and 5-6 inches long and this is a major roadblock(pun not intended) for us to have sex. Till now, we've managed to get each other off by grinding(dick on clit) and oral, but penetration has been impossible. I've tried in in missionary, doggy, cowgirl but it feels like her vaginal opening is too small! I've never had sex before, so I'm inexperienced here, but I've fingered my ex and I could easily put in two fingers and get her to orgasm with just that and a little clit stimulation. She has a very petite build and I'm not sure if that's causi...

She lives about an hour away. She has sent me nudes and stuff. Would it be rude to ask her if she has any stds? What else should I keep in mind? Submitted October 02, 2021 at 12:50AM She lives about an hour away. She has sent me nudes and stuff. Would it be rude to ask her if she has any stds?What else should I keep in mind?

Long story short. I had a one night stand. We were drunk and didn’t use a condom. She took a plan b but apparently that isn’t effective if you’re over a certain weight. Does anyone know the chances of pregnancy from having sex one time? Submitted October 02, 2021 at 12:50AM Long story short. I had a one night stand. We were drunk and didn’t use a condom. She took a plan b but apparently that isn’t effective if you’re over a certain weight.Does anyone know the chances of pregnancy from having sex one time?

Hello people of this sub! So a boy invited me to stay over at his house tomorrow. Realistically specially, it’s pretty evident what he’s expecting. He also invited me swimming before hand to really hammer it home. I think I’m just scared. Scared of doing something wrong, scared of messing up. Scared of pain. I don’t want to be the reason things are really awkward but I think I’m quite scared of the potential pain of having sex for the first time. Any advice to combat the fear? Submitted October 02, 2021 at 12:51AM Hello people of this sub!So a boy invited me to stay over at his house tomorrow. Realistically specially, it’s pretty evident what he’s expecting. He also invited me swimming before hand to really hammer it home.I think I’m just scared. Scared of doing something wrong, scared of messing up. Scared of pain. I don’t want to be the reason things are really awkward but I think I’m quite scared of the potential pain of having sex for the first time.Any advice to combat t...

I (22M) am using Tinder for the first time to try to find a date. Is Tinder worth it? I’m not looking for anything serious, but I’m also not trying to hookup or waste anybody’s time. Any thoughts about Tinder? Submitted October 01, 2021 at 11:56PM I (22M) am using Tinder for the first time to try to find a date. Is Tinder worth it? I’m not looking for anything serious, but I’m also not trying to hookup or waste anybody’s time. Any thoughts about Tinder?

Yes try it out or don’t do it Submitted October 01, 2021 at 11:59PM Yes try it out or don’t do it

I recently sat beside this guy in one of my classes in university. We have only sat together a couple of times, we chatted a little bit before class and at the end of the class he asked me for my (20f) number for the reason if he were to miss the classes and needed to catch up on notes etc. i didn’t think much of it until I told my boyfriend and he was saying maybe this guy has other intentions but I didn’t get that vibe at all. My boyfriend is the most chill man out there he never gets jealous or insecure which is super nice but today after class the guy texted me asking if I was free soon so we could do school together. I thought this was a nice gesture but I barely know the guy. Side note he also has a girlfriend from what I could see on his phone. I asked my boyfriend what his thought are on this and he assumed the same thing as before but said he trusted me and honestly didn’t care if I met with this guy at the library. I don’t think the guy is interested maybe he just wants a fr...

I stopped trying to chase girls 3 years ago for various reasons, but now I'm confident enough to get back in, but I don't know where to go? I am appalled by online dating as it's toxic, and every girl at work is taken, and it seems nowadays approaches someone in public seems creepy which doesn't really help me out in any way. Wtf do I do? Submitted October 02, 2021 at 12:10AM I stopped trying to chase girls 3 years ago for various reasons, but now I'm confident enough to get back in, but I don't know where to go? I am appalled by online dating as it's toxic, and every girl at work is taken, and it seems nowadays approaches someone in public seems creepy which doesn't really help me out in any way.Wtf do I do?

The struggles of dating in 2021 really highlighted somethings to me: First look impressions, girls have it way easier than guys. Ghosting is very common. Instead of saying they arnt interested, they just leave you on read or disappear. I rather just be told hey I’m not interested. I hate wondering if I did something wrong. Hookup culture. No one wants anything serious, they want the risk “free” fun without realizing STDs especially herpes is there. Height does matter. Guys who are below 6’ will struggle. They are seen as inferior, lacking, and just not taken seriously. The best thing I have learned is just to be happy with myself and accept the insecurities. I stopped worrying about dating, and instead just living and having fun doing things I enjoy. Submitted October 02, 2021 at 12:14AM The struggles of dating in 2021 really highlighted somethings to me:First look impressions, girls have it way easier than guys.Ghosting is very common. Instead of saying they arnt interes...