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A girl (20f) I’ve (23m) been dating a few weeks wants to be exclusive, but I don’t think I can date a girl that’s friends with past hookup buddies

The first guy is someone she dated for a few months but she didn’t like the dynamic and broke up with him. The other guy used to date one of her friends and she hooked up with him after they broke up. She said she’s used to close knit communities where everyone hooks up with everyone and it isn’t a big deal. I guess I’m just not used to this. She says that I’d probably be friends with the first guy, but I know for a fact that I will just think about the two of them together and it doesn’t seem fair to make her feel guilty about it. Maybe this makes me insecure, but I’ve tried to fight it and I just can’t. I just want to date someone that isn’t friends with people they used to have sex with. Does that make me immature? Cause I don’t know how to get over it. I don’t want to hang out with guys that have seen her naked. I’m fine with guy friends, but not ones that are attracted to her. Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:29PM The first guy is someone she dated for a few months but sh...

Smash or pass

Please rate my attractiveness. I have a very low self esteem and would love to receive some advice or feedback. Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:31PM Please rate my attractiveness. I have a very low self esteem and would love to receive some advice or feedback.

“Frienship” in online dating?

So this guy and I met on an online dating app but ending up being friends instead. I mean we had fun on our first meeting. Spent more than half a day with him. We’ve been talking for a month before we met. Did tell him I like his personality and see him as more than a friend. but he has his issues and I have mine hence the friendship. So we only met once. And the second time we’re meeting, we’re gonna do a movie marathon (his idea) at my place and his probably gonna stay overnight. We’ve already established that we are not gonna date each other and I told him I never sleep with someone that I’m not dating. This is okay, right? I’m sorry. I’m so clueless about these things 🤦‍♀️ Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:35PM So this guy and I met on an online dating app but ending up being friends instead. I mean we had fun on our first meeting. Spent more than half a day with him. We’ve been talking for a month before we met. Did tell him I like his personality and see him as more than a ...

Am I still straight if I find both genders hot and don’t feel the urge to be sexually active with guys?

I check out guys and girls. Both genders are beautiful. But I’ve only had sex once and wish I didn’t. It’s overrated and would prefer to never give a bj either, that’s gross. I mean I’m still straight right? I want love but don’t care for sexual activity Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:35PM I check out guys and girls. Both genders are beautiful.But I’ve only had sex once and wish I didn’t. It’s overrated and would prefer to never give a bj either, that’s gross.I mean I’m still straight right?I want love but don’t care for sexual activity

Can anyone help me figure out what i should do about this girl I really like?

I met this amazing girl about a month ago. We have been dating and spending time together every other day/ every third day or so since then. We have nearly opposite personalities on the surface but we are both pretty deep and enjoy philosophizing and have a lot to share and a whole lot in common. We are both 29, (I turn 29 in a few days) and we have genuinely enjoyed each other's company since meeting, from day 1. I have never met someone I've liked as much as her. We are both living in Utah right now, and dating here is pretty nuts. People tend to get married earlier than most states (in fact Utah has the youngest average marriage age in the nation) so finding someone special when you're both 29 and have floated through the highly competitive date-to-get-married system here in Utah is special. Now to the details. Last night I went to her house and we had a great time laughing and talking on her couch. she eventually hesitantly brought up that she liked me enough that she...

I want a boyfriend

Im a guy I'm bisexual almost 15 and I'm looking for a boyfriend. But I don't know how to ask a guy if he's bi or not and I don't know how dating guys works Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:38PM Im a guy I'm bisexual almost 15 and I'm looking for a boyfriend. But I don't know how to ask a guy if he's bi or not and I don't know how dating guys works

What is the difference between texting a female friend and a girl that you have romantic interests with?

Like, I’ve never had a relationship and I’m interested in this girl. She also said she likes me and we have been hanging out for maybe a week or so. I feel like im texting just boring stuff. We talk over the phone and all but are there any tips so that it feels “romantic” and all? Edit: i feel like im not being romantic enough lol Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:39PM Like, I’ve never had a relationship and I’m interested in this girl. She also said she likes me and we have been hanging out for maybe a week or so. I feel like im texting just boring stuff. We talk over the phone and all but are there any tips so that it feels “romantic” and all? Edit: i feel like im not being romantic enough lol

I [17M] have "chemistry" with a girl[14F] in my school, but I'm not sure how to make the next step

We always hug eachother when we cross in school (not common where I live if you don't know someone well), even tho we don't know eachother much. She always smiles at me and it's super kind. When it's cold she worries that I'll get sick (I don't like to wear warm clothes). I'm sure there is a good vibe (I'm not sure how to call it in English), and that she likes me, she told a friend of mine I'm cute. The thing is that we just small talk, and we don't know eachother much. Also, we don't cross paths everyday in school. I like her, and I want to be more than friends. What can I do to talk with her more often, and get to know each other better? Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:40PM We always hug eachother when we cross in school (not common where I live if you don't know someone well), even tho we don't know eachother much. She always smiles at me and it's super kind. When it's cold she worries that I'll get sick (I don...

Asked me to marry him four years ago, declined, want him back

I met him in 2013. He asked me to marry him four years ago. One month ago I was involved with him when he cheated on his SO with me. I called him in the last couple weeks and he answered, laughed, and calmly said “I really can’t talk to you, okay” and hung up. I told him I’m in love with him by text, the first I’ve ever admitted. His SO is livid but she claims she “gave him permission (to hook up with me), one month ago . Sounds like she is trying to save face. I want him back. I made a mistake not accepting when he proposed. Looking for responses of how to win him back Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:40PM I met him in 2013. He asked me to marry him four years ago. One month ago I was involved with him when he cheated on his SO with me. I called him in the last couple weeks and he answered, laughed, and calmly said “I really can’t talk to you, okay” and hung up. I told him I’m in love with him by text, the first I’ve ever admitted. His SO is livid but she claims she “gave him pe...

How to deal with sexual frustration as a man?

Since getting a women or laid is impossible in this day and age what to I do Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:41PM Since getting a women or laid is impossible in this day and age what to I do

Does he really want a second date, or is he playing games

We went on a date yesterday. There was a language barrier and I showed up an hour late because I thought he'd moved the date up two hours and I was just waiting at the mall. Anyway, I had a good time. We had to use Google Translate quite a bit, but I was into him at least, and he seemed into me. Near the end, he asked to touch my hair and I laughed and said no, that's something very intimate to me (I have locs). At the end of the date, he said bye and we went our separate ways. I asked a few hours later if he wanted to meet again. He asked if I wanted to. I asked my guy friend and he said it's not a good sign, so I thought to just move on. Now date dude responded saying of course. Should I schedule a second date? Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:47PM We went on a date yesterday. There was a language barrier and I showed up an hour late because I thought he'd moved the date up two hours and I was just waiting at the mall.Anyway, I had a good time. We had to use G...

Long distance relationship partner 28F didn’t tell me happy birthday and now I’m sad about this

I’m in my 4th year of my relationship and we just move to two different won’t states. I live on the east coast and they live on the west coast. Our conversation has not been in a good place. It’s been putting a strain on me. Today is my birthday and I didn’t want much. I’m not even asking for much. I just want a text telling me happy birthday or something. I really want to say fuck you to her but that won’t get me anywhere. Should I just not say anything to her....should I leave it alone and let whatever relationship this is diminish? Submitted August 29, 2019 at 11:50PM I’m in my 4th year of my relationship and we just move to two different won’t states. I live on the east coast and they live on the west coast. Our conversation has not been in a good place. It’s been putting a strain on me. Today is my birthday and I didn’t want much. I’m not even asking for much. I just want a text telling me happy birthday or something. I really want to say fuck you to her but that won’t get ...

How true is "the best/most memorable things happen when you least expect it" in the context of meeting people and dating?

To me, it seems both sides have a point. On the one hand meeting, people and forming relationships don't just happen without you making an effort. But on the other hand, if you want a girl/boyfriend you're primary focus should be on you and your goals and not trying to get a girl/boyfriend. Is one side more true than the other? Submitted August 30, 2019 at 12:00AM To me, it seems both sides have a point. On the one hand meeting, people and forming relationships don't just happen without you making an effort. But on the other hand, if you want a girl/boyfriend you're primary focus should be on you and your goals and not trying to get a girl/boyfriend. Is one side more true than the other?

It happens when you’re least expecting it

I (21F) met a guy in Rome last summer. We were both from the US and he happened to live only an hour away. We talked all night, but we never got around to exchanging numbers. I totally regretted not getting his number. Fast forward a year later - he happened to find me on Facebook and sent me a message. At this point in my life, I am content with my life. I no longer want hookups and drunk nights. I’d rather be alone than be with someone who does not respect or bring the best out in me. That guy I met in Rome is now my boyfriend. This is the healthiest and best relationship I’ve ever had. I’m so glad I’ve realized my self-worth. I was dating someone before him and ended it because he not treating me right. Don’t settle, ladies! Submitted August 30, 2019 at 12:03AM I (21F) met a guy in Rome last summer. We were both from the US and he happened to live only an hour away. We talked all night, but we never got around to exchanging numbers. I totally regretted not getting his numbe...

I didn’t get much attention and enough answers from r/askreddit . I hope you can help me more... [a request from a nice guy, of course]

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Does he care?

So I’ve had this problem. Also, I am (19F). The thing is, I always ask about how my bf is doing and he never asks about me. It just feels like he doesn’t care enough to ask but yet again I’m not sure. The only time we can hold a conversation would be about intimacy, and I for sure know that he’s interested in that. He’s usually on his phone playing a game when we’re together and we don’t talk as much as I want us to and it hurts. Submitted August 30, 2019 at 12:15AM So I’ve had this problem. Also, I am (19F). The thing is, I always ask about how my bf is doing and he never asks about me. It just feels like he doesn’t care enough to ask but yet again I’m not sure. The only time we can hold a conversation would be about intimacy, and I for sure know that he’s interested in that. He’s usually on his phone playing a game when we’re together and we don’t talk as much as I want us to and it hurts.

So this happened. I was just being honest, man.

https://ift.tt/3278gCJ Submitted August 28, 2019 at 02:44AM https://ift.tt/3278gCJ

Let's go for a trip into the woods, alone, I don't care how old you are ...

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He said he wanted a female best friend... ☹️ (Excuse typos)

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Sounds familiar?

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Nice guy Picasso: “Even if you think people like you, it will only be a kind of curiosity they will have about a person whose life has touched mine.”

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I’ll brag to my friends about your sexual history. Such a gentleman!

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/u/DrewBobGibbs on I dont know about yall but I can never tell if someone is flirting

Im glad I'm not the only one. Does anyone else "accidentally flirt" but you feel your just trying to be nice? August 29, 2019 at 11:57PM