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Just met this girl, advice?

I officially met this one girl, who is in my class, at a party this past weekend. Prior to that, we spoke like a few words to each other about the assignment since we were partners for like a minute. Besides that, we don't talk at all in class. Well at this party, I see her and go up to her to ask and confirm if it was her in my class, we talk ask the basics, where are you from, what major, year, etc. Then after that she immediately asks for us to take a picture since she said she likes going to parties to take pictures. We took a few but she said they were alright lol, I agree I looked a bit goofy. I was also confused of her wanting to take pictures if we literally just met. She seems cool so far and I'm thinking of asking her out/to hang out but I don't know if it's too early or whatnot. She also sits next to me so it could be awkward if she says no. And I'm not sure if us taking pictures together is necessarily a good thing(can't be a bad thing) or her way...

/u/wzm971226 on Can someone help me understand how you can be asexual without being aromantic? 🫤

just watch kids friendly romance movies. all about love and no mentions of sex. literally most of the fairy tales are like that. they just live happily ever after.... without sex. sure, sometimes they have children, but they could all be adopted February 07, 2023 at 12:34AM

Girl doesn't always respond to texts but will reply fast through social media?

Met this 20f 2 weeks ago, we had a date last night. I would say I think it went decent as when I asked her if she wanted me to drive her home or keep hanging out she was eager on staying out. After I dropped her off she texted me later saying she had a lot of fun and a great time. Ever since I met her, I noticed this weird pattern where her texting is very 50/50. As in sometimes she'll respond right away, other times she'll take hours or even a day or 2 to text me back. Meanwhile on social media she's constantly snapping me pictures/videos. At first I assumed she was just not interested but I'm not sure. 90% of the time she responds very fast on snapchat, and I'll send stuff I'm doing and she reacts to it so I'm very confused. After our date I texted her something last night and she just never responded. However today she was snapping me a bunch so she's not exactly ghosting me which is leaving me confused. Is it normal for some people to prefer soc...

How to get over being ghosted?

I (25f) started seeing a guy for a few weeks. We were just going to get coffee, and ended up spending the entire day together. It was that instant connection I personally do not come by very often. Everything was seamless, and both of us couldn’t stop smiling and laughing. He reciprocated this as well. The first day, we shared how shocked we were to meet someone and feel this way after one day. The circumstances made it feel as if we were in a Hallmark movie or something. The timing, our lives… As the few weeks continued, we would go on adventurous or dinner dates. Everything was going smoothly, as the last few weeks. His last text said I was the sweetest person ever with a heart emoji (i feel so stupid saying that lol) and he missed me. Then, radio silence. After a couple days, I asked if he was okay, since I hadn’t heard from him. The not-knowing was eating me alive. I know you all will sigh, but yes, I texted him one more time. I thanked him for the last few weeks, and wished him ...

he is a bit too feminine

this guy confessed that he likes me i like him too like everything about him is perfect with except that he is too feminine .. i am more attracted to more masculine men .. he has two older sisters so i don’t blame him and i don’t want to change him .. any advice should i date him ? we get along, text everyday etc Submitted February 07, 2023 at 12:08AM this guy confessed that he likes me i like him too like everything about him is perfect with except that he is too feminine .. i am more attracted to more masculine men .. he has two older sisters so i don’t blame him and i don’t want to change him .. any advice should i date him ? we get along, text everyday etc

Weird texting window, I’m confused

I (29F) met a guy on Hinge and we hit it off pretty fast the conversation just flowed. We soon established our motives for being on Hinge - mine not sure/potentially a relationship, him something casual (which is not something I’m into). Anyway I thought it would be nice to keep in contact because we both noted we got on well (probably a mistake?) so we continued through text. However I noticed he stopped texting after 5/6ish and didn’t reply until in the morning. He did this again this evening. He never did this on hinge so I’m a bit confused. Before he’d respond fast and now he’ll take over an hour but he’s still quite engaging, asking me questions back and sending long responses - what’s going on? Submitted February 07, 2023 at 12:14AM I (29F) met a guy on Hinge and we hit it off pretty fast the conversation just flowed. We soon established our motives for being on Hinge - mine not sure/potentially a relationship, him something casual (which is not something I’m into).Anywa...

Communicating with someone who isn't great at messaging

So I have someone in my life who I'm interested in and I'm not sure how to approach this situation. So when we talk and hang out, they are super easy to talk to and super fun, and the dynamic is really good. In addition to that, one of my friends is convinced that this person is into me. But when we message it feels different. Not like unfriendly, just not as dynamic. But from what I know, they're also usually very busy. To add to that, because I'm trying to take things slowly I'm trying to figure out how this person feels about me. But it's hard to figure out because it's hard to find time to hang out as well because we're both busy. So I just kind of feel stuck. Submitted February 07, 2023 at 12:15AM So I have someone in my life who I'm interested in and I'm not sure how to approach this situation. So when we talk and hang out, they are super easy to talk to and super fun, and the dynamic is really good. In addition to that, one of my f...