I think that's aegosexual, but I'm not aego myself so I'm not 100% sure on it? August 01, 2021 at 12:01AM

i'm sorry that happened. asexuality is 100% real and you are completely valid <3 July 31, 2021 at 11:59PM

I thought I was bi for a long time before I learned I was biromantic. Didn’t even know til recently about split attraction July 31, 2021 at 11:58PM

That he deserves to be slapped with a wet cold fish I think July 31, 2021 at 11:56PM

"No, thanks" or "you're right; I would like to keep that private" are fine if you don't want to come out. You can if you want, though. July 31, 2021 at 11:55PM

*disappears* July 31, 2021 at 11:52PM

Aesthetic attraction: Wanting to BE them more than you want to BE WITH them. :D July 31, 2021 at 11:50PM

I'm going to say this aswell July 31, 2021 at 11:47PM

I remember calling some celebrity “sexy” to try and fit in before I knew about asexuality and it just felt so gross lmfao July 31, 2021 at 11:47PM

Does he think its biologically impossible to be gay too? July 31, 2021 at 11:46PM

Ever notice that whenever someone cites 'biology' as a reason that you shouldn't exist, that that person doesn't actually know a damn thing about biology? July 31, 2021 at 11:45PM

I had to do a lot of thinking and go throught 4 years of abuse( a mix of all kinds you choose your probably right), and I just kinda put together that “ yeah sex is cool but I would die for my friends and I care more about that then sex or anything like that”( also I want to get a job so other don’t go throught what o have). I just never saw a reason for it or cared for it Btw in Demi-sexual and polyamorous just for context July 31, 2021 at 11:43PM

Oh I'm so glad! It can get confusing but as you said, it becomes clear when you realize you haven't thought about sex with them or are motivated to have it. It's all romance and feeling lovely! I so agree with what you said about the potential bond—I recently experienced a "Woah! Can't stop thinking about them" romantic attraction last month and it went away the second I learned more about them. If I know the person well though it can stick around for a long time. July 31, 2021 at 11:43PM

Good bot July 31, 2021 at 11:43PM

Bio major here. Science validates the existence of asexuality. So basically everyone who says that it’s biologically impossible to be ace is proudly flaunting their ignorance. July 31, 2021 at 11:41PM

Ever since I found out that others experienced sexual attraction, I thought that something was wrong with me, until I mentioned my lack of attraction to a friend who told me about asexuality five months ago. July 31, 2021 at 11:41PM

Wow, your answer is great! July 31, 2021 at 11:39PM

I'm concerned what you mean at the end? "It's a real shitty place to be because you're kinda at a dead end" there's nothing wrong with being fictosexual. But yes, it does sound like you are somewhere on the ace spectrum. If fictosexual feels like it fits you, cool! Use that label then. If it doesn't fit, that's also valid and there are plenty of other labels out there July 31, 2021 at 11:39PM

you could come out as ace or you could stand your ground and just say you will not date. end of. July 31, 2021 at 11:38PM

I've seen a huge lack of empathy in people. I once got downvoted to hell for saying that I didn't mind that my dad didn't come to lunch on my 21 birthday. July 31, 2021 at 11:37PM

I does get worse, by a lot, trust me. July 31, 2021 at 11:36PM

A frigid prude is what I was labelled as. July 31, 2021 at 11:34PM

This. If you are meant to be together, in two or three years, then you can make contact with him again and consider dating if it feels mutual July 31, 2021 at 11:33PM