Right, thanks for the help! September 08, 2021 at 12:39AM

This. And I’m completely sex indifferent, so I think it’s something about the scenes. Cognitohazard much? September 08, 2021 at 12:38AM

Definitely do. I'm really curious about why asexuals are often ignored by much of the LGBT community. September 08, 2021 at 12:37AM

Yeah, I just use the normal ace flag anyways, I was just curious if there was a more specific one out there. Ty! September 08, 2021 at 12:36AM

I am not sure if it’s the texture or taste of pre/cum but I cannot help but gag. I want to be able to give head, I want to provide equal pleasure my partner gives me. Is there something I can do or am I doomed to keep gagging? Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:42AM I am not sure if it’s the texture or taste of pre/cum but I cannot help but gag. I want to be able to give head, I want to provide equal pleasure my partner gives me.Is there something I can do or am I doomed to keep gagging?

First, sorry for bad english I started dating my girlfriend about 3 years ago and we had our first time together. For all of our relationship, i always was the vanilla kind, but now i wanna change that because shes kinda kinky and i like the idea. How can i START being more of a DOM without sounding or looking stupid? And how can i do that even with the fact that all the sex we ever had was the vanilla kind? I want advice on the sex itself, foreplay and even things i do outside the sexual environment, in a way that doesn't seem forced or fake Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:45AM First, sorry for bad englishI started dating my girlfriend about 3 years ago and we had our first time together. For all of our relationship, i always was the vanilla kind, but now i wanna change that because shes kinda kinky and i like the idea. How can i START being more of a DOM without sounding or looking stupid? And how can i do that even with the fact that all the sex we ever had was the va...

Title pretty much says it all. I haven’t had sex in like a year then a couple months ago I met this girl, we talked/dated for a month or so and did the deed. She ghosted me and I started to feel uncomfortable downstairs so I got a test. Got an email that it was positive but I can’t call til tomorrow for the results to see what it is because they are closed and now I’m freaking out. Any words of comfort out there? Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:45AM Title pretty much says it all. I haven’t had sex in like a year then a couple months ago I met this girl, we talked/dated for a month or so and did the deed. She ghosted me and I started to feel uncomfortable downstairs so I got a test. Got an email that it was positive but I can’t call til tomorrow for the results to see what it is because they are closed and now I’m freaking out. Any words of comfort out there?

I'm 22(m) and married. My sister is 18 and a Senior in HS. She really likes a guy she has dated a few times but is still a virgin and wants to tell him she'd like to sleep with him, but she has no idea what to really do. Our parents prohibited any porn in the house so she's seen very little, but obviously knows what goes on between the sheets. I've always been her hero of sorts and I couldn't ask for a better sister. So the question is this: She has asked to sleep with me 3 or 4 times so I can instruct her about what a man likes. I told her that I love her for feeling so much love and trust for me, but that I have to think about it. My wife is pretty wild in bed but I'm not sure if I should tell her or not. It could go over really badly. Should I tell my sister that she'll figure out what to do, or should I give her some experience that she is asking for so she feels more confident? Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:51AM I'm 22(m) and married. M...

I've been seeing my more sexually and romantically experienced boyfriend(20sM) for a few months. We've taken it slow and have not had sex yet but plan to when we see each other again in a few days. I'm a virgin and he knows that so we're both not expecting anything mindblowing. The thing is, he has mentioned he likes when his partners are a bit more dominant and generally prefers me to be on top when we're doing stuff. I'm not going to be overly ambitious for my first time, but we'll probably be having sex quite a few times that week and I'd like to surprise him by being dominant like he enjoys. However, I have no idea how. I know I should probably ask him what exactly he means, but I'd like it to be a bit more spontaneous and I don't want to just do whatever past girlfriends have done. He's a really kind, caring guy so I want to make this special for him too. He's considerably taller and overall bigger than me but is very receptive when...

I (22M) and my girl have been trying to find the right contraceptives for her because we don’t enjoy condoms like that. A few months back she tried to use this type of contraceptive that is like an injection every 6months and things did not go well so I asked her to stop because it wasn’t worth it. Her period was imbalanced, she would have a whole 2 weeks of period 1 week off period n then right back (for a whole six month spam that was the pattern kid you not), her hormones were all over the place mood swings up n down. After the 1st shot i told her she should not get a second shot if it would be another 6 months of BS. But now We are looking for feedback on contraceptives (we know the side effects varies from woman to woman) Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:55AM I (22M) and my girl have been trying to find the right contraceptives for her because we don’t enjoy condoms like that. A few months back she tried to use this type of contraceptive that is like an injection every ...

I'll keep this as short as possible. Me (19 m) met with this girl over tinder, we texted for almost a month in a more seductive way.. We went out on the first date and everything went great, now she is "busy" almost all the time, and dry texting at most times.. A flirt text comes through at times but I just don't even notice it anymore, am I the problem here and what should I do about this? Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:04AM I'll keep this as short as possible. Me (19 m) met with this girl over tinder, we texted for almost a month in a more seductive way.. We went out on the first date and everything went great, now she is "busy" almost all the time, and dry texting at most times.. A flirt text comes through at times but I just don't even notice it anymore, am I the problem here and what should I do about this?

27m, was dating a girl for a few years before covid, then been out of dating for nearly 2 years. Thinking about getting back into it, but not entirely sure where to start up again. Any of the dating sites actually worth the time and effort? Suggestions otherwise? Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:10AM 27m, was dating a girl for a few years before covid, then been out of dating for nearly 2 years. Thinking about getting back into it, but not entirely sure where to start up again. Any of the dating sites actually worth the time and effort? Suggestions otherwise?

Give me some insight what to expect and what is expected being a newly single in your 30s or 40s. What is usually out there? Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:10AM Give me some insight what to expect and what is expected being a newly single in your 30s or 40s. What is usually out there?

So TLDR, I (20M) like this girl who goes to the same school as me. I talked to her a lot, and got to know her pretty well. Not long after I started liking her more and more. Then my friend comes to me like "I like this girl." and I'm like, well shit. Dilemma is, I don't want to lose my best friend over a girl. But, the issue here, is that whenever I picture him with her, it just hurts. I want to back off, because I value our friendship over a potential love interest. But it's just so painful... Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:11AM So TLDR, I (20M) like this girl who goes to the same school as me. I talked to her a lot, and got to know her pretty well. Not long after I started liking her more and more.Then my friend comes to me like "I like this girl." and I'm like, well shit. Dilemma is, I don't want to lose my best friend over a girl. But, the issue here, is that whenever I picture him with her, it just hurts. I want to back off, beca...

Dear friends, Recently, I (30M) meet girl (25F) at club. She so sweet, she so nice. I cuddle with her but nothing more. Why?! Is she not like me? Dears, I hope I don't make a fool of myself. Tell me how to feel more confident! Submitted September 08, 2021 at 12:11AM Dear friends,Recently, I (30M) meet girl (25F) at club. She so sweet, she so nice. I cuddle with her but nothing more. Why?! Is she not like me? Dears, I hope I don't make a fool of myself. Tell me how to feel more confident!

Oh yeah. I agree with you that it’s definitely a daily battle. September 07, 2021 at 11:36PM

Are grey asexuals/demisexuals allowed to help with the invasion of Denmark, and after that other countries? Or is it specifically asexuals? September 07, 2021 at 11:33PM

Yes, this exactly. I'm aroace but I feel aesthetic attraction all the time and it can be awkward. I wish there was to signify I am not looking at someone in a weird romantic/sexual way; I'm just admiring the colour pallet of people's clothing, or they way their glasses frames compliment their face shape. September 07, 2021 at 11:33PM

I'm pretty sure it's just the regular ace flag with a heart in the middle that has the hetero flag inside it. I know it's that for asexual homoromantic people but only with the gay or lesbian flags. Whether you want the flag you use for the heart to be a straight flag or an ally flag is up to you but I hope this helps even if it's not official. If I'm wrong then I suggest just using the asexual flag in itself. September 07, 2021 at 11:31PM

No its not September 07, 2021 at 11:30PM