The flag for hypermasculine military bigots is the American flag sadly October 13, 2022 at 01:15AM

So many dates and even friends keep hitting me with the 'oh something just came up I can't make it/I'm gonna be x hours late' too often and usually multiple times in a row, and sometimes season it with a little ghosting. Whenever I try confronting people like this, they often get very defensive and pin the blame on me. I do understand that shit actually happens, but I usually give them too many or too little chances, so I'm just wondering what you guys think is an appropriate number of chances to give a date/friend like this. Also to the women reading, is this something women just do to test men? One time I told a date I'm no longer interested in her and don't want to see her anymore after she kept cancelling dates for 3-4 weeks straight (without reason usually), then she surprisingly got very upset. Submitted October 13, 2022 at 01:10AM So many dates and even friends keep hitting me with the 'oh something just came up I can't make it/I'm...

Hello, I am 24M that goes on tons of dates, like yesterday I had two. So its not problem for me to get dates through OLD. But I get rarely second dates. The problems is that I just go to these dates for the sake of going, not really seeing if I really like the girls I go out. Well, I never know if I like them physically, I just go because its better than nothing. When the date comes I just feel that its forced, because I just go because its better not to go rather because I like them physically. I do have some problems being witty, I can hold conversations, I can 'make moves' but its very difficult because I rather dont feel confortable at dates. I know that I like girls, but I only have been atracted to 2 girls in my life. I just dont know what to do: I feel rejected, idiot, not fun, a loser because even if I try to carry the conversation, the girls just dont seem into me. Neither am I. Pls Help. Submitted October 13, 2022 at 12:15AM Hello,I am 24M that goes on tons of...

I didn't know about this sub and after reading your posh, it existence made me sad. For one, I'm one of those who they are excluding. I'm cupiosexual, but without using a microlabel I could be just sex favorable asexual. I struggle in this sub sometimes because I feel like many memes are more focus on the sex repulsed or sex indiferent side of things. To think that there is a sub like that... It's like when your friends make a group chat without you. And it's also sad because gatekeeping that way, they are making us all look bad and we are already in a rough position as it is already. October 12, 2022 at 11:23PM

Not surprised seeing as military culture tends to be hypermasculine and hypermasculinity has never been a friend of anything that has its own pride flag. Smooth sailing and Godspeed, friend. October 12, 2022 at 11:14PM