How do you know I'm not ace December 29, 2021 at 03:52AM

Nahh I´m ace myself, I know better how diverse aces can be than you random person. December 29, 2021 at 03:51AM

Shire sounds like it December 29, 2021 at 03:51AM

So much ignorance. December 29, 2021 at 03:50AM

Going through a tough phase December 29, 2021 at 03:50AM

Oof yes, I mistook aesthetic and romantic attraction for sexual attraction. My second rotating experience was quite different. After a couple of times it left me feeling worse than before I went there, so I stopped completely. I have zero desire for casual sex these days. Dealing with libido on my own gives the same level of satisfaction. I also relate to being uninterested in dating because, ugh, I just don't want to go there with anyone right now even though I am alloromantic. December 29, 2021 at 02:34AM

I read a bunch of x Reader and I genuinely enjoy them. It's mostly the focus of the personal attention and central focus of yourself to me rather than the actual smut part, and they have made me question my asexuality purely because I'm reading them, but I like the sensual parts of it. Porn is a completely different story however. Absolutely not. December 29, 2021 at 02:32AM

If nothing else was accomplished today I can at least be sure of my asexuality based on my grievous misunderstanding of sexual attraction. Mahalo! December 29, 2021 at 02:32AM

In my experience, there is no reason to be ashamed of, or not to be opened about your asexuality. It's just who you are. Look at it on a positive way, you won't be used for sex by anyone. That said, I can relate in not finding someone. I have other things along side being body fluid repulsed of it's entirety to feel this way. December 29, 2021 at 02:31AM

A fair bit of the early 20s phase was "for sport" for me, not completely without attachment because some of them I liked romantically, but I would have been just as content having a game night or doing something else fun together. The mid-30s phase was different, it was like I was trying to hang on in a dysfunctional way to a sense of normal.. I quickly discovered after two partners that it most definitely was not for me anymore. That's wild that multiple partners believed you were asexual. I didn't come to that conclusion until quite recently in my late 30s. December 29, 2021 at 02:30AM

My BF and I have been together over 3 years. He agrees it’s weird but says it’s because it was a very expensive ring and she probably wears it for materialistic reasons vs sentimental (She is a proud gold digger and loves to flash anything expensive) However she is also a monster ex wife. She had an affair, he left, and when that went south she wanted him back. And suddenly started wearing the ring again And ever since it’s been an attack on me trying anything to get me to leave him or him to leave me. I dont believe she wears it for materialistic reasons. I truly feel she wears it as a possessive statement. Or a hit at me (she waves her I was his wife flag a lot) Is it cringe? Or does my dislike for her cause me to feel weird about it? Submitted December 29, 2021 at 02:06AM My BF and I have been together over 3 years. He agrees it’s weird but says it’s because it was a very expensive ring and she probably wears it for materialistic reasons vs sentimental (She is a proud gold

Sexuality can change throughout your life so yes, you can become asexual if you were once allo and you can change back as time goes on. Just don’t try to force anything and just do what’s comfortable with you. You’re welcome here as long as you want to stay. 👍😊👍 December 29, 2021 at 12:44AM

My gym crush (m21) and I (f32) finally hooked up a couple weeks ago. I know the age difference is pretty big but I’m into younger guys and he looks older. We had an ice cream date first after which I wasn’t sure about him however he continued to pursue me through text. I decided to give him another shot and he came over to watch movies and we hooked up, he said he really liked me, wanted to date me and all these cute things. The next night he took me on a date to dinner and to look at Christmas lights and we had a great time. He stayed over at my apartment that night. The next couple days he kind of started to be distant towards me and said he wanted to slow things down. I was confused because I thought we were on the same page and he was the one saying all these things to me. We ended up hanging out one more time and hooking up and again he was distant after and not answering my texts. When I saw him at the gym a couple days later I asked what his deal was and he said he wanted to be

Yeah it’s a blue and orange sunrise flag December 29, 2021 at 12:44AM

So I have gotten coffee and hung out with this girl a couple times and today I asked her on a date and she said this “Date? It sounds so official and serious! 🌹” Is this a good or bad thing? Unfortunately she has Covid right now so the date won’t happen soon but that reply really threw me off Submitted December 29, 2021 at 12:14AM So I have gotten coffee and hung out with this girl a couple times and today I asked her on a date and she said this “Date? It sounds so official and serious! 🌹”Is this a good or bad thing? Unfortunately she has Covid right now so the date won’t happen soon but that reply really threw me off