This! Honestly. The idea is wonderful, especially sense I like researching things like BDSM(mainly for the culture and order behind it) and sometimes the ideas of trying things that look nice come in, but then I'm reminded of all the work and effort I would have to put in, and that just makes me cringe. I'm barely am adult. I don't need to be doing extra work for something that might be an hour. Two max. December 01, 2020 at 12:00AM

Idk, i do love mayonnaise... In seriousness, I've noticed this as well. You say that you don't feel sexual attraction and they somehow think "but you fuck animals right?". NO! Why does your brain go there?! People are weird. December 01, 2020 at 12:00AM

Yeah, not gonna throw my opinion out there either but there is a setting on Instagram where if you click on the video you can click “show me less posts like this” November 30, 2020 at 11:57PM

Yup mom, should've given me a brother November 30, 2020 at 11:44PM

That's not great, in very new on Instagram so I'm unsure 100%, I just had a lot of bird posts since that's what I clicked like on November 30, 2020 at 11:41PM

In theory. I've been on the Gram for years, had to have liked hundreds of posts, and my recommendations still suck. November 30, 2020 at 11:39PM

Isn't it fun when you can find out your identity so quickly 😂 if only gender had been that easy hotdamn November 30, 2020 at 11:39PM

This is pretty close to the definition I'm familiar with, which is basically: "The abstract idea of sex, and maybe even other people having sex, is an appealing idea. The idea of experiencing sex personally is gross/slightly repulsive/undesirable/off-putting." I'm like that 90% of the time. Sex can be a beautiful thing. It can be sensual, arousing, and look like it would be extremely pleasant. Me personally having sex sounds tedious and gross. Making it personal reminds me of the reality of the situation. There would be odd smells. And acne. And sweaty hugs. There would be unusual sounds. My bed would get messy and I'd have to change the sheets. (Obviously, I'm not doing it on dirty sheets, so they'd get like 1/2 a night's use before getting washed again.) My housemates would probably hear us. There's bad breath and BO. Skin is often greasier than you might think it is. Also, sex would probably be a lot of work. There would probably be panti

The first season was pretty good (for a cheesy teen drama) and it all went downhill in season two. November 30, 2020 at 11:29PM

It really does just get repetitive sometimes. But other people can enjoy that music. I’m just gonna steer clear from that stuff because songs about having sex and doing this and that overall make me somewhat uncomfortable. I have to kinda not listen to the lyrics to actually enjoy it. November 30, 2020 at 11:28PM

Me when I bring my date to my place and she assumes we might hit it but I just wanna show her my model car collection ;_; November 30, 2020 at 11:27PM

In my opinion, songs about sex just seem so like boring? I’m not saying artists shouldn’t make that type of music, they’re allowed to make whatever they want. Songs about sex just don’t sit right with me personally and that’s probably because I’m a somewhat sex repulsed asexual. But you know, let any artist write about anything because to them I’m just one out of their millions of listeners lol November 30, 2020 at 11:26PM

Yooo, I feel this. When I joined the sub a few months ago I went to the pinned post and sorted the comments by new (I don't remember why) and someone asked if they were ace if they could like the idea of sex if it wasn't them (more eloquent than that but you get the idea). I really resonated with that and someone replied that they might be aegosexual so I looked it up and bam, that's how I figured everything out in under fifteen minutes. November 30, 2020 at 11:25PM

No November 30, 2020 at 11:24PM

You didnt specify what type of naked scenes.. November 30, 2020 at 11:19PM

I see! If it makes no difference then it should be demi and pan. I am still questioning so this reply helped me a lot. I'll think about it better. Thank you! (Also I don't know the right term). November 30, 2020 at 11:17PM

Riverdale can kiss my ass I watched a few episodes once and it just felt so... standard November 30, 2020 at 11:16PM

Here's the thing though, he's never indicated he's dissatisfied with our sex life. When I brought up sleeping with other people, he immediately dismissed it. That's why I feel like this is coming out of the blue. I know I need to talk to him, I'm just trying to process my emotions first. Thanks for your insight. November 30, 2020 at 11:12PM

I came across the r/asexuality <20 minutes ago looking for literally this. The idea of sex as an abstract concept that I'm not a part of is fine or even enjoyable. But noooooo thankyouuuu. I'm glad that it only took me a few posts to find a reference to this identity. I'm proud to be here. ❤ November 30, 2020 at 11:09PM

So far I relate to your answers the most. Thank you! November 30, 2020 at 11:09PM

No, that logic makes perfect sense! Thank you so much! November 30, 2020 at 11:08PM

I think that if you want to ring that you should get one. I’ve struggled a lot with the “what if I’m not actually ace” type statements and what I had to come to terms with is that that’s okay. The ring represents what you feel now and if you think you’re aspec then you are allowed to label and take part in things as that. And even if your feelings change that doesn’t invalidate how you feel at this point. So get the ring if it makes you feel good<3 November 30, 2020 at 11:08PM

I just feel bad for these people, theyre at the mercy of this male dominated society of which i dont fit in to. November 30, 2020 at 11:07PM