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Talked to a former classmate of mine on the bus. Guy behind me asked me why I didn’t ask her out after she got off.

This made me self-conscious as to whether he noticed signs I didn’t about her liking me. Truthfully, I do think shes cute and almost asked her out once after class last spring. Since then, I have run into her every now and then but it was usually awkward and brief. I’ve seen her on dating apps but she never swiped right on me. Apparently she matched with my friend who was in that same class with us and even tried talking to him but he’s not into her. However, the point is that I should ask her out just to get experience and see what she says. Clearly we run into each other often enough. Would it be weird to look her up on social media and follow her or should I wait and see if I catch her at the bus again and then do it? Submitted January 10, 2023 at 02:13AM This made me self-conscious as to whether he noticed signs I didn’t about her liking me. Truthfully, I do think shes cute and almost asked her out once after class last spring. Since then, I have run into her every now and ...

/u/shapeshifterhedgehog on Anyone else wants everyone to know you're ace?

I get that, and I get that way too sometimes. I'm biromantic and I like to be open about it in some spaces because I really wanna try dating a girl! Also If I'm dating someone I like to let them know right off the bat that I'm greysexual so no one gets the wrong idea. January 10, 2023 at 01:42AM

Had a misread, kissed a girl when she wasn’t ready for it.

So I work at this restaurant (before anyone says don’t date your coworkers, it’s not my regular job, I help out there from time to time) and I became acquainted with this girl. On New Years I did a closing shift with her. As the night went on we talked a lot and i could tell she was flirting with me, so I asked her if she would like to get pizza with me after our shift, she said yes. We went and talked the whole time, there was good chemistry, she would joke with me and flirt a bit. And I walked her back to her car. She asked if I wanted her number, I said yea and that I’d like to take her out sometime. Before we parted ways, she stretched her arms out for a hug with a big smile. We hugged and she gave me a big smooch on the cheek. This is where I made an error. In my head, I was thinking that maybe she wants to kiss me, and I didn’t want to be the one giving her the cheek, so I pulled sorta just went for the kiss on the lips. It lasted about a second and she was like goodbye, so I ...

/u/POLESLAYA on Asexuality & You

I am very sure I am ace - furthermore, most likely demi (which is it's own rabbit hole lol) January 10, 2023 at 12:45AM

He tells me he loves me when he’s drunk… we aren’t dating yet

(23F) I’ve been talking to (23M) for about 1.5 years off and on. We met in college and started as friends and things progressed from there. Things have been really good (we have the best communication we’ve had in our whole relationship and we’ve discussed more about our future) despite us living 2 hours away from each other. Lately he has been texting me things like “I love you” and “You’re the best, I can’t wait to be with you forever” when he’s drunk. We haven’t had that conversation sober yet and we aren’t dating yet… I understand drunk thoughts are sober actions but it also feels like he’s playing with me a little bit. I’ve expressed that it makes me upset when he says things like that but I’m stuck. From a guys perspective, what does this mean?? Submitted January 10, 2023 at 12:15AM (23F) I’ve been talking to (23M) for about 1.5 years off and on. We met in college and started as friends and things progressed from there. Things have been really good (we have the best comm...