~Possible Trigger Warning~ Alrighty folks.... so a bit of backstory, I’m 18 and have only been dating since I first turned 17. Within that 14 months, I’ve had 3 boyfriends. The first one was a pretty good guy. I’ll call him M. We met at work and clicked, flirted for a couple months and i coerced my way into a relationship with him. M and I dated for exactly 3 months. Then he started to distance himself and we ended up splitting on our 3 month anniversary. I was crushed. I cried over him off and on for weeks, months even. My first real heartbreak, and I did not handle it well. I spiraled into a deep, deep depression and stopped caring about everything. Fast forward a few months, and I met a guy at my new job that I started not long before my first heartbreak. We’ll call him C. C seemed nice, and i was never fully convinced of my feelings for him, but he was so pushy about getting into a relationship as soon as possible (because he was “in love” with me) that I finally caved and made ...

Thats what i told'em but it they kept insisting that they where right some of the dumbest people i know October 30, 2019 at 12:18AM

Here’s a link to my previous post. Previous Post Update: It was 100% another woman. They’re now a couple but lately he’s been practically begging me to see him. He’s even suggested that I see him once a week because he misses me and the sex...I’m pretty sure it’s just the sex. I haven’t given in & I won’t give in. I’m still into him but proud of myself for ignoring his advances. At this point I’m giving dating a nice long rest. Thanks for all of the feedback. I read them all but was too bummed to respond. Submitted October 29, 2019 at 11:42PM Here’s a link to my previous post.Previous PostUpdate: It was 100% another woman. They’re now a couple but lately he’s been practically begging me to see him. He’s even suggested that I see him once a week because he misses me and the sex...I’m pretty sure it’s just the sex. I haven’t given in & I won’t give in. I’m still into him but proud of myself for ignoring his advances. At this point I’m giving dating a nice long rest.Than...

I don't think I ever seriously wanted kids even before I figured out I was ace. I love other people's kids, but I don't think I could handle being around them all the time. I also know some allo straight couples who never wanted kids, so that argument is doubly invalid. October 30, 2019 at 12:16AM

So my girlfriend tells me we have good sex and my dick is big... typical stuff I guess The thing is she always “jokes” around about my dick and calls it small, thing or something. It’s really getting to me I don’t care if my dick is small but I just want to know what she thinks why can’t she just be honest? I’ve asked her many times to be. Submitted October 29, 2019 at 11:46PM So my girlfriend tells me we have good sex and my dick is big... typical stuff I guessThe thing is she always “jokes” around about my dick and calls it small, thing or something.It’s really getting to me I don’t care if my dick is small but I just want to know what she thinks why can’t she just be honest? I’ve asked her many times to be.

Just wondering if this is the right post to comment about cam model stuff. Submitted October 29, 2019 at 11:51PM Just wondering if this is the right post to comment about cam model stuff.

Why am I so bothered? I hate this so much. I need advice on how to handle it. I can’t even talk to him. Submitted October 30, 2019 at 12:02AM Why am I so bothered? I hate this so much. I need advice on how to handle it. I can’t even talk to him.

25F here. I’d never been with an uncut guy before my current SO and sex was great (or not, depending on the person), and I’ll admit I was nervous about being with someone uncircumcised because of what my friends had all said but the prejudice against uncut men should really go away. Having sex with an uncut guy is amazing. It feels great and everyone who likes penises should try it. That’s all! Submitted October 30, 2019 at 12:05AM 25F here. I’d never been with an uncut guy before my current SO and sex was great (or not, depending on the person), and I’ll admit I was nervous about being with someone uncircumcised because of what my friends had all said but the prejudice against uncut men should really go away. Having sex with an uncut guy is amazing. It feels great and everyone who likes penises should try it.That’s all!

Hi! Today i was just messing around with myself and i nearly came while fingering my clit. And then i just got in and "scratched" it and then I came. It felt so weird. Does anyone have any experiences? Or tips? Idk what I like better tho. I feel like clitorial climaxes last longer Submitted October 30, 2019 at 12:06AM Hi! Today i was just messing around with myself and i nearly came while fingering my clit. And then i just got in and "scratched" it and then I came. It felt so weird.Does anyone have any experiences? Or tips? Idk what I like better tho. I feel like clitorial climaxes last longer

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Oh.... well thanks. That does sound painful October 30, 2019 at 12:11AM

My dream SO is someone I feel safe with, enjoy the same movies/games with, and can share a house and completely forget they're there sometimes. I don't want cuddling, kissing, or touching of any kind unless it's really cold or one of us is really sad. I just want security and an emotional connection. October 30, 2019 at 12:09AM

This is my GOTY, easily. October 30, 2019 at 12:04AM

I spent years in fic heavy fandoms so yeah. October 29, 2019 at 11:52PM

I (M48) have been with my wife (F41) for ten years. In the last five years, we have separated four times. It all started about one year into our relationship when she expressed a need to live with her parents (they lived in South America). We lived in Australia. And she would take regular visits to see them. Later she said she wanted to spend 3 months living with them and the rest with me ... per year, and then changed it to six months with them and six months with me. About four years into the relationship, she became pregnant and then left at the end of the pregnancy to give birth in South America. She stayed there for over a year, and I missed out on the first year of our daughter's life. She eventually returned to Australia and then started demanding that her parents live with us. I said no. After quite a bit of conflict, she then left me out of the blue and took my daughter and went back to South America. I was heartbroken and chased her. Eventually she said she would get b...

Do you think you look uglier in reflections or photos? Like most of the time when I see myself I think I look pretty good, but then I’ll see myself in a random reflection or in my camara lens, and I’ll be like, g’damn I’m hideous. Like how do you know if you’re attractive or not without your own biases to yourself interfering I’ve had really good looking girlfriends but I’ve never been complimented on my looks by anyone except like my grandma or mother.. Edit: bad title idk how to change it Submitted October 29, 2019 at 10:40PM Do you think you look uglier in reflections or photos?Like most of the time when I see myself I think I look pretty good, but then I’ll see myself in a random reflection or in my camara lens, and I’ll be like, g’damn I’m hideous.Like how do you know if you’re attractive or not without your own biases to yourself interferingI’ve had really good looking girlfriends but I’ve never been complimented on my looks by anyone except like my grandma or mother.....

I mean people are actually here just to insult others. What the hell? How can you feel better about yourself giving out advice like you just need to work on your personality and being nice to everyone when you take every chance to name call and be an asshole to people you don't agree with. Second any girl that gets advice from someone that doesn't involve cliche statements like love yourself, don't chase men, he's just an asshole, is considered shitty advice? When exactly did go to the gym become offensive to women (literally got harassed by someone that said they're allowed to be fat and people need to accept it) when it's literally the auto response to any guy. What's with the double standards of women are amazing by default and don't need to improve at anything but guys are total garbage, losers, with shitty personalities by default? Submitted October 29, 2019 at 10:42PM I mean people are actually here just to insult others. What the hell? Ho...

So the title really says it all - but here’s a bit of background: We’ve been seeing each other for 3 months now. It has been AMAZING - when I say this, I truly mean it - we’ve had no real conflict, we speak openly and honestly about how we’re feeling, we have an incredible sex life and most importantly, we make each other extremely happy. I feel like he is the perfect fit for me and I couldn’t be more thrilled. He has expressed to me how he’d like to take things slow and not rush into anything too serious, too quick. He’s had two really bad experiences with girlfriends - his first girlfriend (high school sweetheart) cheated on him multiple times throughout their 4 year relationship, this left him heartbroken and he found it really hard to trust again. Skip to his second serious girlfriend, who moved states to be with him after 6 months of talking - he was hesitant to take this step as he didn’t think he felt strongly enough for her, however she insisted she wanted to move anyway and ...

I was sitting around doing nothing on Sunday night and a woman messaged me on a dating site. I met up with her at a cafe and she was really late. While I was sitting there waiting some absolutely gorgeous woman came to my table and sat down and started a conversation. We talked for a good 15 minutes, I told her I was waiting for a date. She eventually walked off. Probably because I didn't ask for her number and sort of hinted that she was a bit young for me. I'm in my 30s and she was a 22 year old college student... Maybe deep down I'm afraid of getting my heart broken by a young free spirited woman. She did seem like my type though. The date wasn't really great, I felt like she was a little off. She gave me her number but I don't think I'll pursue it. Submitted October 29, 2019 at 11:05PM I was sitting around doing nothing on Sunday night and a woman messaged me on a dating site.I met up with her at a cafe and she was really late. While I was sitting ...

So this girl and I got pretty hot pretty quick for about 6 weeks, way sooner then I anticipated- we developed feelings pretty quick and soon enough- I noticed her pulling away so I decided to pull back as well and give her space. I know she was busy with her life and I have a pretty abundant life as well so I was going to move on too if that is where it was heading. I really liked this girl but decided she wanted to move on after not hearing from her after two weeks since my last contact. She has her own business and was going through a lawsuit from one of her ex-employees when we were talking. Timeline was like this: I sent a light message the first week saying something light and funny- no response. Second week gave her a ring to just see how she was- no response. Then went I no contact. Then 2 weeks after that I get a message from her yesterday saying “ Hey I’m sorry for the extremely late response. I’m at home dealing with lawsuit stuff. Excuses aside I’m sorry. I’m sorry I d...

Won't get into long-winded details, but I met a girl on Tinder. Looks average, but everything about her was very eccentric, she seemed quite fun. She's into taxidermy, photography, she's an "expert" in glasses (whatever that means), and she does martial arts. We talked for a while and she jumped into the topic of sex very fast. She told me she's not conventional in bed and hoped that it wouldn't turn me off. I initially thought she was going to say she's into heavy BDSM tied purple tits and all, but instead she told me she likes to be choked and "raped". That's where I physically worriedsmile.gif. So she told me that she likes "role-playing" it, that she likes when it's forced "upon her". Knowing that I have until Friday to cancel everything, I took the chance and continued the conversation just to know where this could potentially go. This is where I sort of panicked and went into a gray area. She sent me a pi...

If you’ve been with someone for 2 years can you get over them in 5 months? Or is that not realistic? Asking for a friend... Submitted October 29, 2019 at 11:40PM If you’ve been with someone for 2 years can you get over them in 5 months? Or is that not realistic? Asking for a friend...

I was dating this guy on and off for over 2 years. It wasn’t a very easy relationship. He was selfish, arrogant and super hypercritical of everything about me, the world, etc but that didn’t matter because I was obsessed with him. It was almost like befriending and angry bear. In the end, I cared about his wellbeing too much, when he wasn’t the person who even deserved it. I became one of those girls who I never wanted to be, the one who keeps trying and assumes assumes we can change them by giving them everything. The thing is, it wasn’t a bad relationship. I considered him my friend. I found comfort in him and he made me laugh. He made me want to be a stronger and better person. He wasn’t a cheater, or physical abusive, but his thought were mentally exhausting. Today, I don’t even miss him as a friend. Before, I felt sad if we didn’t talk for a couple of days but I think after visiting him a couple of weeks ago (before we ended things), I realized that he’s selfish and he just kep...