When people tell me they want kids, I'm just gonna start saying "you'll change your mind" so they know how infuriating it is. November 30, 2021 at 11:03PM

Luckily my brothers both had kids and are both on their second round. My parents are fine with me never wanting kids, especially because they agree that the world is too messed up November 30, 2021 at 11:02PM

So, we're at a milestone, and I'm so, so glad. We've been through everything, even losing a child together (FYI I do not recommend eclampsia-bp goes up, mum goes to the er!) I'm intending on ordering sushi, giving him as much beer as he wants and the kids are at my (beloved) MIL for the night. He's a very vanilla kind of man, but I would love some ideas to knock it out of the park for our anniversary! Pertinent info- he's had a vasectomy, so no worries. Anal is good for him to give but he doesn't want to receive. I'm a little overweight- chubby, not obese. Honestly, it doesn't even need to be sex, even pleasant seduction and foreplay ideas would be grand. I know there's tons out there we haven't tried! Hoping for new ideas to make my sweet man happy. Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:29AM So, we're at a milestone, and I'm so, so glad. We've been through everything, even losing a child together (FYI I do not recommend ecl...

TW: sexual abuse This is a really long post, but I need help. I was groomed by my stepfather. He only ever did light touching, but he made sexual comments about me and my body and told me his preferences, made comments like he wished he was my age so he could date me, etc. I am very sensitive surrounding consent. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and consent has been an ongoing issue, but there are things that I think are common sense. There are 2 things that really bothered me. The first, is we had been sexting and I asked him to come over, but I fell asleep. He began taking my clothes off in my sleep, and I was half awake just trying to cuddle, before I woke up and told him to stop. We discussed it (it happened 2 months ago) and I asked “other than our conversation 30 minutes prior, what was I doing in that moment to make you think I was enthusiastically consenting?” He mentioned cuddling and I reminded him that cuddling doesn’t equal sexual consent. And Then I ...

I wondering for quite a while, and I fought this subreddit would give me a good answer. Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:53AM I wondering for quite a while, and I fought this subreddit would give me a good answer.

Context: Me (M25) and my wife (F25) have been together for a little over 2 years. She is introverted and I’m a mix but mostly extroverted. I have had many (20+) sexual partners and I think she has only been with like less than 10. So to the point our sex life is slow already we have sex like 2-3 times a month. When we do it’s either her on top and then missionary, missionary then doggy, or just straight up missionary only. I am a very open person and have been trying to figure out what exactly like she’s into or that she likes (tried asking what she likes and she deflected with “idk whatever you like”). She says she likes choking but I think she only says that cause it’s like the go to “norm” and I would to do more and improve out sex life. I enjoy literally just pleasing her like I love just anything that involves her having a good time. We don’t have a problem with orgasms it’s every time for the both of us. But I want to give more and push past our limits in a sense. But I just fe...

I’ve posted about this before but I want more peoples opinions on it. I can only masterbate by squeezing my penis between my thighs while laying on my side. I’ve been doing it like this for about 5 years. I’ve never came from actually “jerking off.” Jerking off feels good but I use it more as a foreplay before I actually finish off with my legs. I’ve recently been scared that whenever I have sex with someone I won’t be able to cum because I’ve become so acquainted with this way of masterbating. People have told me that I have something called “death grip.” Basically I need advice on how to get rid of it. I keep trying to stop masterbating but the urges are too strong sometimes. I’m scared, what should I do? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:58AM I’ve posted about this before but I want more peoples opinions on it. I can only masterbate by squeezing my penis between my thighs while laying on my side. I’ve been doing it like this for about 5 years. I’ve never came from actually “...

This post was inspired by another, I wanted to ask what or how is the preferred way to cold approach a girl out in public not at a typical bar setting? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:05AM This post was inspired by another, I wanted to ask what or how is the preferred way to cold approach a girl out in public not at a typical bar setting?

Curious to see the answers Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:07AM Curious to see the answers

I’m m18 and I wondered if being skinny fat would be a dealbreaker for a next date. I mean a girl would firstly see it in the bedroom if you know what I mean. Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:08AM I’m m18 and I wondered if being skinny fat would be a dealbreaker for a next date. I mean a girl would firstly see it in the bedroom if you know what I mean.

How often you all contact your love interest in the early stages of a potential relationship? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:12AM How often you all contact your love interest in the early stages of a potential relationship?

I take the train everyday and sometimes i'm zoning out while avoiding to look at people because it's easy to creep girls out in the train. But sometimes girls glance at me more then once probably because they think i'm looking at them when they are in my peripheral vision or when my body is facing them. I never really look back because i don't want to be creepy. I'm a bit anxious about awkward eye contact, would it be creepy to look at them when they do that? Could it be that they find me weird for zoning out and avoiding looking at them or should i assume interest? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:14AM I take the train everyday and sometimes i'm zoning out while avoiding to look at people because it's easy to creep girls out in the train. But sometimes girls glance at me more then once probably because they think i'm looking at them when they are in my peripheral vision or when my body is facing them. I never really look back because i don'...

Has this ever happened to anyone? I’ve gone a couple of dates with someone who seems like he really wants companionship and I just happen to be into him so he’s happy someone’s into him. Has this ever happened to anyone? He’s pretty inexperienced. I feel like I’m the only woman whose ever given him sustained attention and that’s why he’s into me. What should I do? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:14AM Has this ever happened to anyone? I’ve gone a couple of dates with someone who seems like he really wants companionship and I just happen to be into him so he’s happy someone’s into him. Has this ever happened to anyone? He’s pretty inexperienced. I feel like I’m the only woman whose ever given him sustained attention and that’s why he’s into me. What should I do?

I'm sure this is a very popular question on this sub, bit I feel like I need to talk about my expiernce. I recently started dating again for the first time in about 4 years. The reason why I stopped dating and having relationships is because I was tired of being ghosted and used, so I wanted to enjoy some solitude and focus on myself. This guy (the one I think is currently ghosting me) and I have been flirting for a while. We work together, but not for the same company, just on the same project. Plenty of banter, fun conversations, laughs and just all round good times, on or off the clock. Before the project really started to ramp up, he would take some time our of his day to come over and talk for a while. It was awesome, and our friendship grew to the point where we could talk about our histories. After the project was in full swing, he became much busier and I was moved to another location, which was totally expected and properly accepted. About 3 weeks ago, I was having a r...

Good to know I'm not the only one who says coolio sometimes November 30, 2021 at 10:57PM

My parents would periodically bother me about giving them grandkids, and whenever I argued with them about it, they’d always say “Oh, you’ll change your mind.” My genetics are complete trash, I am ace and trans, and I don’t want to contribute to an overpopulation problem. And besides, either way, it’s my and my partner’s choice, not my parents. November 30, 2021 at 10:53PM

I'm OK, I disowned my bio dad when I was 16 (I'm 35 now), and the last time I spoke to him was at my grandmas, his moms funeral. I recently reconnected with one of my cousins on that side of the fam, and when his brother and sister died they tried to contact him for the funeral but it was like he dropped off tge face of the earth. He doesn't even know he's a grandpa, but my son knows about him and has no desire to know him. I've told my son that if once he's older that if that changes I'll support him, but right now I don't think knowing him is in his best interest. My moms parents are toxic, and I had to see for myself to truely decide if I wanted them in or out. I'm not gonna take that choice and judgement call away from him, it's just as an 11 yr old the time for that isn't now. My mom I've tried to go nc, only for her to file false cps reports, false police reports, and false missing persons reports. Thank all that is holy that she d...

That was really well said. Sry to hear about your crazy parents. Hope it’s going okay amigo _^ November 30, 2021 at 10:29PM

I can't wait to read that book! It has been on my tbr for months. November 30, 2021 at 10:24PM

It looks so good 🤤 It makes me hungry now, but it's 11 pm 😭 November 30, 2021 at 10:16PM