I’m 27 and he’s 34. I dated this guy for almost a month and we’ve seen each other once a week for a total of 3 dates. Dates are fun and full of laughter and we slowly starting learning more about each other as it’s supposed to go. However, outside of that, I could barely get a hold on this guy. For context, he initially pursued me and I wasn’t all that interested tbh but he asked me to hang out and I gave him a chance. Long story short, I grew to see him as a potential partner. By our third (and final) date, I found myself mostly initiating our conversations. When he would respond, I would follow up and then not hear from him for days. The very few times he would start a convo, I would still be left on read. When I questioned him, he said that his work takes a toll on him and he gets super busy and doesn’t have the time or energy to text back. I would be ok with this except for the fact that I see him active on this dating app we met on every night. So I called him out on it thru t...

You don't need a pap smear if you are a virgin. September 30, 2022 at 11:46PM

Ooh that makes sense, thank you! (And I probably should too... so I'm glad I asked!) September 30, 2022 at 11:45PM

Or do you think it's parental love? Did you like to take care of them, kinda of like a parent. I sometimes think about being able to be a parent, and loving a child and raising them. September 30, 2022 at 11:44PM

Yeah even if you don’t have sex it is good to at least have it checked once, you only need regular checks if you’re sexually active, but it’s always good to have one checkup. September 30, 2022 at 11:42PM

Cooking together, hiking in the woods, going on a road trip to somewhere cool, and also watching movies/shows together. September 30, 2022 at 11:42PM

Depends on the intent... You can kiss someone (even on the lips) in a purely sensual way, buy it can also be romantic or sexual September 30, 2022 at 11:42PM