Isn't that the case most of the time? Suppose a straight guy had sex with someone who later turned out to be a pre-everything trans guy. Does that retroactively make him attracted to men? January 11, 2020 at 12:05AM

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I'm a dice goblin. The dragon bit explains so much. Clicky clacky shiny math rocks. January 10, 2020 at 11:53PM

I accidentally ordered mine a size too small and it only fits on my ring or index fingers, and if I want to order a new one i have to explain everything to my parents and i am not ready for that yet... feelsbadman January 10, 2020 at 11:53PM

It doesn’t make you less of a lesbian, it means you’re something else as well. Your experience is probably different from most allosexual lesbians, right? Not necessarily better or worse, just something else to factor into your relationships, and that deserves to be part of the conversation for the sake of people who would otherwise feel like they don’t belong. January 10, 2020 at 11:53PM

Hells no! Just that if I say I'm gay, the assumption is homosexual, versus just homoromantic. Am a panromanic ace here. Edit:of to if January 10, 2020 at 11:52PM

I can't talk about your experience, but I've had someone tell me I'm not REALLY wlw if I'm ace, like that I'm using asexuality as a way to "fake" liking women. This same logic apparently didn't apply to my theoretically equal romantic attraction to dudes. Idk, their logic didn't make sense, but at least one person thinks it. Another person told me that being ace was just internalized homo/transphobia, because he thought he was ace before realizing it was dysphoria and he was trans. God I have a LOT of weird stories about people reacting to me being ace. Maybe I SHOULD be less open about it lol. January 10, 2020 at 11:49PM

Not while a guy is talking to other women, (the answer for that is obvious) but anyone at all. The guy himself is very open about his beliefs and likes and all, but he never talks about his wife to anyone, man or woman. He doesn’t even have pictures of her on his facebook, not even a wedding photo. The woman is pretty private, so maybe that is it? She has posed for pictures on relatives pages and stuff though. In person, she is far from shy. They are newlyweds, like 2-3 years of marriage. I indirectly tried to get him to talk about her when he was talking about his trip to Colorado by saying “Heh, yeah that must have been a shock to tour wife, being from North Carolina” but he pretty much just dodged it and talked about hunting. Yeah, a pretty dumb thread, but I just wondered if it was weird or just me. Submitted January 11, 2020 at 12:00AM Not while a guy is talking to other women, (the answer for that is obvious) but anyone at all. The guy himself is very open about his belief...

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The last paragraph will quickly summarize the text and elaborate on the question if you are not interested in the backstory I provide down below. I'm stuck with a problem, and it's a problem that has been haunting me for quite a few years now, ever since middle school. I'm a hopeless romantic, I love dating and I love the feeling of love. I want to express my love, and dating someone is a great way of doing that. The only issue is that I am 19 and have been experiencing a lot of change the last couple of years, and will experience a lot of change over the next couple of years. I went to an elementary school in my hometown; then I went to a middle school 30 minutes away from my hometown; then last fall I graduated HS an hour away from my hometown; and this fall I am set to move across half the world to start my university studies. And this is where my problem lies. As you can all tell, I have been living in the same place all my life, but I have been going to schools all ...

I’m 6.8 x 5 any suggestions? Submitted January 10, 2020 at 11:57PM I’m 6.8 x 5 any suggestions?

I'm currently seeing a girl as part of a cuckold relationship where I'm her bull. I wanna spice things up a bit on a trip we're going on soon and both make her feel great and show myself and her off to her boyfriend. The thing is shes much smaller than me. I'm 6'5" 220ish pounds in shape and very endowed. She's Japanese barely 5' and in the 80 something pound range: very petite. So any couples on here with a big size difference: what have you found to work for you? Submitted January 10, 2020 at 11:58PM I'm currently seeing a girl as part of a cuckold relationship where I'm her bull. I wanna spice things up a bit on a trip we're going on soon and both make her feel great and show myself and her off to her boyfriend. The thing is shes much smaller than me. I'm 6'5" 220ish pounds in shape and very endowed. She's Japanese barely 5' and in the 80 something pound range: very petite.So any couples on here with a big siz...

My girlfriend and I were talking about spicing up our sex life a bit and one thing she said would turn her on would be to watch porn with me. She promised she would not judge me on what I watch, she wants to blow me while we watch porn and maybe act out a few scenes depending on whats happening. She asked if we could do it last night but I was too embarrassed to go through with it. I just kept thinking what if she gets jealous over the video I pick? Or what if they do something in the video she thinks I am into and it freaks it her out? I dont know how other guys do it but I dont have like a list of favorite videos or porn stars or anything like that. Its more like I go to a site and start clicking on vids until I find one I like enough to get the job done. I believe her when she says she wont judge me and I dont think she will get that jealous. I mean we had a threesome last year and everything was fine after that. So I think the problem is I dont understand it. I dont see what she...

Throwaway account! I (21 M) have had trouble with my penis for a few months now. To put it British-ly, and quite literally, it’s doing my head in. Sex before would lead to a fairly red and sore frenulum and underside of my glans. Nothing excruciating, but pretty inconvenient. I have cut (like tiny paper cuts, often no blood but stinging) my frenulum a 4/5 time’s too, during sex and washing. The cuts have always healed fine, but I’m worried about the build up of scar tissue making the frenulum tighter. When erect, I struggle to pull my foreskin over the head of my penis. The foreskin and frenulum are both fairly tight, and the top of my frenulum is pretty red. If using lube or receiving oral, I can retract the foreskin after about 10-20 minutes. When flaccid, I can retract the foreskin pretty easily. I’m just wondering what my options are to make retracting my foreskin easier when erect? Will foreskin stretches help retract my foreskin over my glans without having to worry about m...

A dick has a sad life. His hair's a mess, his family is nuts, his neighbor's an asshole, his bestfriend's a pussy, and his owner beats him. Submitted January 11, 2020 at 12:05AM A dick has a sad life. His hair's a mess, his family is nuts, his neighbor's an asshole, his bestfriend's a pussy, and his owner beats him.

I've always wanted to be in a relationship where I can hand over some of my burden. Is this just selfish? My interest and lack of understanding of a s/d relationship? Submitted January 11, 2020 at 12:07AM I've always wanted to be in a relationship where I can hand over some of my burden. Is this just selfish? My interest and lack of understanding of a s/d relationship?

Over the past few months I gained about 10 pounds which doesn’t sound like a lot but as someone who’s 5’0 tall, that much weight starts to show easily. I’m at my heaviest I’ve ever been at 117 (I am in no way bragging). I’m 22 so I know my metabolism is starting to slow down and have been going to the gym regularly to combat it. But I’ve started to get stretch marks on my stomach and stomach rolls. Especially during missionary I can see all my stomach fat and so can my partner. My partner sometimes jokes around about me having a muffin top or whatever which is fine with me because it keeps me in check and motivates me at the gym. But I wonder if he mentions those jokes because it’s a joke-truth that he wants me to hurry and fix. We have had a downward slope in our sex life since I did gain weight. But I’m wondering, is my weight gain causing him to be less attracted to me? If your partner were to gain weight, is that a turn off and would it deter you from sex? Submitted January 11...

So I’ve been together with my gf for 3 years and I LOVE going down on her. However from the beginning she always tried to stop me because it’s embarrassing for her. After some time I noticed that she actually enjoys it if I work my way down slowly and only stops me after a bit. Of course I don’t want to force myself on her but it’s frustrating to know that she actually enjoys it. It won’t let me do it for a longer time, doesn’t want to do 69 no matter what, or sit on my face (or any other position) because it’s embarrassing to her. After 3 years I just don’t understand why ... I mean I know her body completely and she knows mine. We have a lot of sex, used to do it daily for a whole year. And still I get the same answer when I ask her for a 69 or other position that involves me eating her out. Any thoughts? Any similar experiences? Should I just give up, no matter how much I love it? It’s so frustrating ... Submitted January 11, 2020 at 12:13AM So I’ve been together with my g...

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