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/u/Madmonkeman on Would you call heteroromantic ace a straight person?

Yeah I mean for the most part I feel straight but I’d feel dishonest if I implied I was 100% straight because I’m definitely different from the norm since I can’t get turned on by girls. August 12, 2022 at 01:43AM

I’m starting to think that my coworker (18F) might have a crush on me (19M), any advice?

Over the last few weeks, I’ve been talking with this coworker of mine (18F, but she’s leaving this job in a few months so her being a coworker is irrelevant to me) and our conversations have been going very well. We’ve learned a lot about each other and I recently was able to get her snapchat from her. I was there on my day off (We work in retail, I didn’t know she was working this day and after talking to her, I asked for her snapchat and she gave it to me). I'm working on talking to her outside of work but I wanted to see if the people of Reddit had any advice for me on how to progress or if she likes me or if it's possible she likes me. Some of the signs I’ve seen from her: I’ve been in situations where she stares at me for a few seconds but when I look up at her, she looks away and acts like she wasn’t looking at me. The one day I was working on something and I happened to be near her, She walked over to me and we had a nice short conversation. It went on for a few min...

/u/FreakingTea on Man I sure love dating apps

Maybe I'm weird, but I would rather be asked that way, just to minimize the interaction. Even better if I can answer with just the aisle number. August 12, 2022 at 12:45AM

Meeting my crush/friend for coffee for the first time. How to let her know I like her?

I've been friends with this girl for about 5 years (we were students in the same university). When we first met, she had a boyfriend. I was interested in her at first, but decided to be friends once I got to know she had a bf (I mean my feelings towards her didn't go away, I just felt it would be unethical to make advances since she was in a relationship). She had since dated one or more two different guys after then bf. She's been single for about 6 months as far as I know. Me on the other hand have never been in a relationship but I've had crushes on other girls. I am just one year older than her. We have had a few fallouts over the years but have always become friends again. Now she's single, I have been thinking of asking her out. I think (I think) I have been flirting with her, but she's somewhat friendly with guys (I live in an Asian country, girls tend to be rather shy here), so I dunno if she's flirting back or just being friendly. I think she know...

/u/TheCelloPlayer on Is it normal to only feel romantic attraction for one gender and only feel sexual attraction to another gender?

Possibly. Only one or twice I felt something weird towards another girl when I was a younger teen. I have no interest in a romantic relationship with another woman, but I also don’t get weird feelings when I see men that are alleged “eye candy.” I just say I’m ace for simplicity’s sake. August 11, 2022 at 11:30PM