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/u/hmm_yes_ on If you are on AceAPP keep clear of this charmer. Sorry for unhidden phone number in first post, my bad.

LMAO "Hmm, yes. A sexual category 😏" November 09, 2019 at 12:26AM

/u/benb1103 on Felt super proud of my asexuality today, so I decided to ask my friends if I’d be safe to get a flag and this kinda put a damper on it

Thank youuuuu November 09, 2019 at 12:25AM

/u/Synthetic_Symphony on Felt super proud of my asexuality today, so I decided to ask my friends if I’d be safe to get a flag and this kinda put a damper on it

The way these texts played out seriously seemed low-key abusive. I don't know the context of your friendship, but if they are okay with treating you like that with something so personal that you've obviously thought about and not even TRY to understand you... I mean, that's just not cool. It was pretty messed up of them, even. Again, I don't know your situation, but don't let them get you down! Always know this is a safe environment to talk about that kind of stuff even if others don't accept you, though, if any of that helped. November 09, 2019 at 12:24AM

/u/Guinefort1 on Anyone remember that episode of House about asexuals?

I know its unfair to expect stuff in TV to be 100% correct all the time (because good accuracy and good drama are not the same thing), but House really was exceptionally guilty of bad TV science and good God did it enrage me too. November 09, 2019 at 12:24AM

/u/CrepesOfWrath95 on Anyone remember that episode of House about asexuals?

To be fair, he was heteroromantic from the start, but yeah the whole “you don’t like sex you must be diseased” bit really rubbed me wrong. November 09, 2019 at 12:20AM

/u/TimeSpiralNemesis on The idea that i'm most likely assexual excites me so much.

I would be more inclined to believe it's just you being happy with being yourself. And not trying to force yourself to do or want something you don't want to do. When I finally accepted I was Ace it was like a huge "Oh thank GODS I don't have to pretend to like this anymore" moment. So just enjoy. November 09, 2019 at 12:13AM

do guys like getting peed on?

I’ve never done it before but lately I’ve been kinda wanting to pee on a guy bc I feel like it would be kinda hot? but are any guys actually into that? Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:35PM I’ve never done it before but lately I’ve been kinda wanting to pee on a guy bc I feel like it would be kinda hot? but are any guys actually into that?

Do you think porn has skewed women's ideas of dicks just like it has for men?

Do you think porn has skewed women's ideas of dicks just like it has for men? Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:36PM Do you think porn has skewed women's ideas of dicks just like it has for men?

Long journey to being able to have sex.

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Partner wont be happy no matter what I do?

My partner says they cant control wanting to hurt me in bed. He said it's a compulsion and I cant deal with it anymore I'm not going to sleep with him it's been going on for years. So I try to push the idea of opening our relationship just for him so he can go find someone who is into it. Hes demi so It would have to be a whole relationship not just sex. But he doesnt want that he said he loves me and he wants to be only with me. He says it's a battle he has to work through. But I dont want to he part of that battle. I cant risk what it will do to me if he hurts me again my brain turns to goo for days or sometimes weeks. What do we do? If we dont have sex hell pester and I'll give in. Hes going to talk to his therapist about it in 2 weeks but idk. I am just at a fucking loss it's been so long weve tried so much. Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:39PM My partner says they cant control wanting to hurt me in bed. He said it's a compulsion and I cant deal...

Good specific nsfw subs for men?

Like subs for oiled cocks, solo cumshots, veiny cocks, thick engorged cocks etc... Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:40PM Like subs for oiled cocks, solo cumshots, veiny cocks, thick engorged cocks etc...

Seeing advice on an upgrade to our Hitachi Magic Wand

My wife has had an old Hitachi Magic Wand for several years now. It's the plug-in kind with only two settings (high and insanely-high, according to her). Its the best way for her to masturbate, but I know the lack of control really bothers her. I'm looking for something that's similar, but has either a sliding speed, or at least more than 2 speed options. Something rechargeable would also be really nice. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:51PM My wife has had an old Hitachi Magic Wand for several years now. It's the plug-in kind with only two settings (high and insanely-high, according to her). Its the best way for her to masturbate, but I know the lack of control really bothers her.I'm looking for something that's similar, but has either a sliding speed, or at least more than 2 speed options. Something rechargeable would also be really nice. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

When is the Right Time to "Come Clean" To a Girl about my Fetish/Sexuality [28 m]

I just moved to new city and meeting a lot of new girls through acquaintances, at parties, and also on Tinder. I'm not saying this to brag but I'm good looking, fit and have a good job, girls think I'm funny/interesting so I do pretty well at least at first. ​ My problem: I have some peculiarities and I never know when is the right time to break it to them. Like I wanna do the right thing but it's also awkward and I never really know when the right time is to "break the flow" of a convo and just tell them. ​ My two main peculiarities first I'm bisexual. And the second one I have a rather strong fetish of watching black guys fuck white girls. Like my big fantasy is to have a gf who will fuck black studs on the side occasionally when she wants. ​ When is the right time to tell a girl this stuff? It's like it's almost never the right time. If you say it at the beginning you come off as a sex obsessed freak. If you don't and you leave it for...

I [26f] never had an orgasm

I had some issues with sex stemming from some unfortunate events in my childhood so I started having sex relatively late (first bf 20 and after that, several years had no one). However, I feel like I am totally over it and I really enjoy sex except that I never had an orgasm. I like it very much in spite of that, but it is starting to bother me cause I've tried a bunch of things, i.e. I got a vibrator, lube, etc, made evenings all about myself... But I just get distracted/bored after a while or I really need to go pee so I never really orgasm and have no idea how it feels. It is especially frustrating since I think I reeeally like sex. Do you have any advice on how to overcome this? Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:54PM I had some issues with sex stemming from some unfortunate events in my childhood so I started having sex relatively late (first bf 20 and after that, several years had no one). However, I feel like I am totally over it and I really enjoy sex except that I ne...

Not getting wet anymore?

I (F22) have trouble getting wet before sex anymore. When I first started dating my boyfriend 2 years ago, I would get VERY wet before we’d have sex almost every time. About 3 months into our relationship I started on the implant (Implanon) which totally killed my sex drive and my ability to get wet. This time last year I switched to the copper coil (Paraguard), and the problem still hasn’t solved itself. No amount of foreplay will get me really wet. When I watch/read porn I find myself able to get wet a lot easier, so I have cut back drastically on my porn consumption in the last year in an attempt to fix the issue. I now don’t watch any visual porn, but will occasionally (maybe once a week?) listen to audio porn/read erotic stories. This is a problem for me as I like having sex with my bf very much, and at the moment it is uncomfortable verging on painful! Any similar experiences/advice for me? Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:55PM I (F22) have trouble getting wet before se...

When did ya‘ll lose your virginity? + need help

I‘m a fresh 20 yo, some of my friends already lost virginity and being this „old“ I just want to get it over with. Is 20 late? or when did ya‘ll do it? I‘m definitely not an unattractive or heavily introverted guy and have some self esteem (definitely inexperienced and uptight about sex in front of girls tho). So problems about dating: 1) I feel my inexperience and uptightness holding me back and the other person noticing that. 2) I don‘t want to have a gf only for sex since a relationship is more than that. Should I get a hooker, lower my standarts and use Tinder, or what can you give as an advice? Just want to get it over with. Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:56PM I‘m a fresh 20 yo, some of my friends already lost virginity and being this „old“ I just want to get it over with. Is 20 late? or when did ya‘ll do it?I‘m definitely not an unattractive or heavily introverted guy and have some self esteem (definitely inexperienced and uptight about sex in front of girls tho).So ...

I have a fetish for motorcycle gear

In my university, there's a hot guy who leaves his jacket and gloves behind on his motorcycle for the day and I take it in the morning and wear it and get off to it, and then leave it back on the bike for him when he returns in the afternoon Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:56PM In my university, there's a hot guy who leaves his jacket and gloves behind on his motorcycle for the day and I take it in the morning and wear it and get off to it, and then leave it back on the bike for him when he returns in the afternoon

I (F18) am Bleeding every time I have sex

I’m bleeding every time I have sex. For context I was in a relationship for almost a year where I was having sex almost once a month and it still happened pretty frequently then. It’s been 5 months since we broke up now and I’ve slept with 2 people and bled both times. I’ve also just recently had an STD test, I’m clean. Both times the guys wore condoms and I have the implant in my arm so pretty sure I’m not pregnant. The bleeding also only happens during foreplay/sex and stops afterwards. Anyway just kind of VERY frustrating and a turn off any help would be very much obliged :))))) Submitted November 08, 2019 at 11:59PM I’m bleeding every time I have sex. For context I was in a relationship for almost a year where I was having sex almost once a month and it still happened pretty frequently then.It’s been 5 months since we broke up now and I’ve slept with 2 people and bled both times.I’ve also just recently had an STD test, I’m clean. Both times the guys wore condoms and I hav...

Males of Reddit did you and a buddy ever share a woman in bed and did that bring you 2 guys closer in your friendship?

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Anyone had local anaesthetic applied to their penis before/

Hi all,  I have a cyst on the edge of my penis glans and my doctor said I can get it removed. He said it will be a quick 2-3 minute procedure however they will need to apply local anaesthetic to my penis, and it will hurt for a 10 seconds or so.  Im extremely scared of this, more than the procedure!! Has anyone had experience receiving local aneasthetic on their penis, and could you let me know what the pain was like.  Thanks in advance Submitted November 09, 2019 at 12:02AM Hi all, I have a cyst on the edge of my penis glans and my doctor said I can get it removed. He said it will be a quick 2-3 minute procedure however they will need to apply local anaesthetic to my penis, and it will hurt for a 10 seconds or so. Im extremely scared of this, more than the procedure!! Has anyone had experience receiving local aneasthetic on their penis, and could you let me know what the pain was like. Thanks in advance

/u/injusticehasbeendone on Anyone remember that episode of House about asexuals?

House was honestly the worst popular show ever. I used to hate watch it with my friends from medical school. House is an enormous asshole and should have been fired for harassment at the very least been up to his eyeballs in court cases. His mess ups were always treated like price of business while other doctors doing the exact same thing were treated like monsters. It's the brilliant people get free asshole pass and get to be framed as cool for their dickishness trope that I hate. It is fine for your character to be an ass and fine for them to be a little cool but in the decade of tv House was in they were framed like gods for their toxic behavior. The medical mystery is drama driven rather than research driven. He does sketchy things and often his medical advice before they figure out the mystery illness are all TERRIBLE AND DANGEROUS ideas. And that is even if you are excluding all the privacy and patient rights violations. Often when simpler tests and methods would be fi...

/u/Pasvanti on Homoromantic Ace Flag (Inspired by Pink Floyd's Dark Side of The Moon)

But I’m talking about heteroromantic Aces, we’re Ace, hence not heterosexual. We’re not sexual anything. November 09, 2019 at 12:06AM

/u/PennyPantomime on Anyone remember that episode of House about asexuals?

No but lowkey kinda hurts reading what others cited from the episode ;-; Yikes. November 09, 2019 at 12:03AM