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AITA for Wanting my Poly Boyfriend to Change?

I met a guy on a dating app, and after some really promising conversations, he says he's polyamorous with two people who live out of state that he sees a few times a year. ​ I immediately told him that, while I don't judge his lifestyle, I lost my 15 year marriage due to cheating, and I would find it damaging to be in a serious relationship with a poly person, so I couldn't do that. And his response was "I could be monogamous for the right person. My two other partners are already aware that I'm looking for a life partner, so I might come to them and say 'no more’ if I meet someone special.'" ​ So we start going out, everything is going great, he is around all the time, I’m meeting his friends and family, he very quickly gives himself the "boyfriend" label, and he keeps treating me like he feels so seriously about our relationship. Then I suddenly get told one day last month "should we be Facebook official? I'm not sure where we...

/u/epicnagito on How old were you when you found out that you're ace?

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/u/-sickofdumbpeople- on I’ll take a dozen for me and my Ace homies.

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Question for all the people who went after the person who was “out of your league” how did it go?

I saw someone today who was absolutely stunning, nothing I’ve ever seen before. My heart wanted to go up and say hi, but my brain kept telling me she’s is way out of my league. My question is, anyone been in my position and went for it? How did it go? Do you believe leagues are a real thing or nonsense? Also, when I mean league I mean physical appearance not financial. Thank in advance! Submitted August 15, 2022 at 11:54PM I saw someone today who was absolutely stunning, nothing I’ve ever seen before. My heart wanted to go up and say hi, but my brain kept telling me she’s is way out of my league. My question is, anyone been in my position and went for it? How did it go? Do you believe leagues are a real thing or nonsense? Also, when I mean league I mean physical appearance not financial. Thank in advance!

34m 28f thanks dating advice and another question.

I posted about a tiny incident that happened the other day. She recently found out about the huge favor between our incomes. We had a good talk about it things are good now I believe her doubts have been settled. But yah she got all in a huff and said FINE in going to do something for you...... So she came over to my place to make me dinner. Now it's the thought that count and I enjoyed the evening probably one of the most enjoyable evenings I have had in a long long time. I don't have the heart to tell her it was also probably the worst meal I have ever eaten in my life (girl can't cook to save her life) but yah ts the thought that counts. Just something I'll have to take to the grave.... That being said I had planned on taking her out this weekend I had a whole thing planned indoor skydiving a really nice meal BUT with recent events I know it's not a great idea. So does anyone have a relatively inexpensive date idea something fun? I just want to make her...

/u/ironicallynoname42 on How old were you when you found out that you're ace?

Knew something was up around 13. Found the word at 16 now and I'll be 20 this year. August 15, 2022 at 11:40PM