That's valid💕 every individual has their own likes, dislikes, and "mah"s!💖 May 09, 2022 at 12:44AM

I've been talking to a guy I met online EVERY DAY since January 12th. He always initiated and kept the conversation going. When I asked him to meet he was very open and honest and said he was struggling with a lot of mental health issues (psychotherapy twice a week and recently upped SSRIs) He also didn't want to start anything because he's pretty sure he's moving out of state. When I talked to him Friday he said he was seeing someone. I have no right to be upset because we aren't exclusive, heck we never even met! I'm hurt because he said he didn't want to start anything with anyone. We talk every day and even sexted for awhile. We argued for three hours via text. He begged me not to hate him and had no idea I was taking this so seriously, even though we talked everyday. He said his life is chaos and told me that I'm important to him. He said he did want to meet but now I don't know what to do. I'm sure the girl he's seeing wouldn't b

I can see where you’re coming from. I always thought I was asexual because I’ve had a lack of interest in sex and relationships for as long as I can remember, and I’m extremely uncomfortable with any kind of intimacy and physical contact performed on me (Sexually, but also non-sexually like someone touching my shoulder), but ever since I started therapy a few years ago I’m learning that I have a lot of forgotten/repressed memories related to trauma, and I’m starting to wonder if something happened to me in my earlier years that might have caused my behaviour. Asexuality isn’t necessarily causal, but trauma is. People are asexual simply because that’s who they are, whereas trauma-based sex aversion exists because they are afflicted by trauma. Trauma cannot cause asexuality, but it can cause people to be uncomfortable or completely averse to any kind of physical contact and/or intimacy, sexual or otherwise. A lack of interest in sex and getting close to people is different from being

The pictures decided to go in the wrong order on my end but it's fine lol I got call the plant by my ex back when I thought I was agender, so I'm not sure if it counts for this but I checked it off anyway. May 09, 2022 at 12:42AM

Great boyfriend! But that sucks that they're acting like that, I'm sorry May 09, 2022 at 12:41AM

Ok so this girl came up in the "people you may know section" of Facebook due to mutuals. Her picture immediately made me say, "Sweet jesus she's adorable," so I browsed her profile. Looked like we had a few things in common and she shared a ton of good quality memes so I sent her a friend request. She accepted and I interacted with her posts a little bit over the next two days. Day two, my feed was LITERALLY nothing but her posts so I sent her a message and said, "I swear I'm not trying to creep on you, but all I'm seeing is your posts and they're 👌🤌🤌" She "heart reacted" and said, "Aw thank you lol I feel like people prob get annoyed seeing my shitposting all the time 😅" After that, we talked about our interests and stuff for a bit intermittently over the next day or so, but eventually she stopped replying. A week later, I remember she tells me she works at a store nearby that I shop at occasionally so I stopped