Hello, I have a huge insecurity about having no experience. I want to be able to come to terms that every girl I meet will have a past and that I will never have that. For example, I met a girl who I really like who has had a ton of hookups and ex boyfriends. I think she likes me but I have an insecurity where I feel like I don’t want to be with her because she has more experience that me. I know this is ridiculous and I want to get past this. The way I see it is that I feel really bad about myself because I don’t have a past where as she fell in love with other people and had “fun” with others while I had absolutely no one. I’ve always thought that I could meet a girl and we could be each other’s “first everything” but I want to come to terms that chances of this very unlikely. I’ve gotten too old now for this to happen. I want to be able to accept this and not feel guilty about it. Please help me out, thanks. Submitted December 23, 2021 at 01:07AM Hello,I have a huge inse...

I’m gonna preface this by saying the guy in question is my former TA (teaching assistant for a college class). We’re the same age (I’m 26F, he’s 26M), he’s no longer my TA, and we got along famously this year—to the extent that I’d almost be more shocked if he didn’t like me. We talked every day, emailed a ton outside of class, and connected over some shared interests. There were also a couple moments when I DEFINITELY felt he was flirting. At the very least, I’m almost positive he knows I like him. This is all ethical and fine since the class is over, but it’s still kinda “controversial”. So, there’s a little bit of gray area here. I worked up the nerve to ask him to meet up after the holidays, and he said yes and that we should grab a coffee together. This will be the first time we’ve met outside of class, and so I really don’t know what this meeting is and I don’t know how I would ask. We’re technically getting together to talk about books and shared interests, and he said yes to...

Hey everyone, I am seeking relationship advice. I have been dating a cardiologist fellow. We matched on bumble and have been seeing each other for the last 17mos. He was in 2nd year fellowship when we first met and is currently doing his program in my state. He is originally from another state. When we first started seeing each other, I was very clear with him about not wanting a "casual relationship". I had also inquired about if he was in a relationship of any kind or married or divorced or had kids. He had said no to all of this. While we were together, we were seeing each other about every 2wks (RED FLAG! I know) and I didn't find it weird because I thought perhaps I was accommodating to his very busy schedule. Because I am also in the medical field (not a physician), i knew that being in a fellow program isn't easy so I was trying to be this very understanding partner. But, after having dated him for 9mo, I stumbled on his social media and came across this wo...

This man texted me long ass paragraphs, talked to me on the phone for hours about work, life passions, family etc and we made each other laugh. He was also physically attracted to me and asked me out for coffee.I texted him and now no response. WTF?!? What a waste of my time. Why did he do that? Submitted December 23, 2021 at 01:14AM This man texted me long ass paragraphs, talked to me on the phone for hours about work, life passions, family etc and we made each other laugh. He was also physically attracted to me and asked me out for coffee.I texted him and now no response. WTF?!? What a waste of my time. Why did he do that?

I (22F) have been dating this guy (28M) for a couple of months now and sometimes when we’re talking he’ll just bring up that I’m Asian out of nowhere. To give it more context, he’s not Asian and is from a different country. Like he’ll say things like “my Asian babe” or something along those lines and I find it kinda weird, but I also thought maybe it’s a cultural difference?? I’m not sure. Submitted December 23, 2021 at 01:16AM I (22F) have been dating this guy (28M) for a couple of months now and sometimes when we’re talking he’ll just bring up that I’m Asian out of nowhere. To give it more context, he’s not Asian and is from a different country. Like he’ll say things like “my Asian babe” or something along those lines and I find it kinda weird, but I also thought maybe it’s a cultural difference?? I’m not sure.

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As others have said, it's definitely tasteless and tacky. On top of that, it gives me a "this person is on their first outing in public and has never talked to a real person face-to-face before and only sees other people as sexual objects" vibe. That's not how all the people who wear them are, but the level of tastelessness and implied sexualization of the hoodies makes them give off that feeling. December 23, 2021 at 12:26AM

I’ve been having a rough week recently and I’ve decided to get back in to marsturbation. Any tips and/or tricks? I’m not fruity so dong give me any of those ideas. Submitted December 23, 2021 at 12:53AM I’ve been having a rough week recently and I’ve decided to get back in to marsturbation. Any tips and/or tricks? I’m not fruity so dong give me any of those ideas.

So I (17M) am a timid, socially awkward mess, who either doesn't know how to start up a conversation or doesn't know when to stfu when in a conversation I do know about. I wouldn't say I'm attractive, but Definitely not ugly either (I could be worse, but definitely could've been better) but earlier this year, I met a girl one of my classes that I never really paid much attention to. There wasn't anything interesting about her that caught my interest so just like everyone else since I had no friends in that class, I ignored her and just did my work as quickly and effectively as possible so that I had to do nothing for the rest of the class. Later on though, she randomly decided to talk to me out of the blue asking me about my interests. Me, being one not liking to share information out of embarrassment just told her a half-truth in that I didn't really have one and that I'm mostly open to anything. Shockingly, I learned that we both shared having a cert...

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