Can I use this please? July 18, 2020 at 11:52PM

gay means happy ​ I only heard a british person say ​ A gay ol time July 18, 2020 at 11:51PM

You clearly told him you weren’t interested and he kept pushing. Very much this. Even without the asexuality factor his behaviour was absolutely not cool. July 18, 2020 at 11:48PM

Dammit, should have thought of THAT as a username. July 18, 2020 at 11:42PM

You might be really into something yeah. It's just that a lot of people need time to trust someone before having sex with them which as aces we know does not equal sexual attraction in any way. July 18, 2020 at 11:42PM

I like the details with the dragon and card but what's up with the hoodie on the left upper arm? July 18, 2020 at 11:41PM

Honestly! I remember in middle school guys texting me things like that and it was so weird, I never knew what to say. July 18, 2020 at 11:38PM

My favorite was "what would you do if we were in a dark movie theater and I put my hand on your thigh" "idk, keep eating my popcorn probably" July 18, 2020 at 11:36PM

That's a great way to look at it! Some allo/ace relationships work and some don't. But I totally mean what you mean by falling flat, I hate it because it is such an atmosphere killer :/ July 18, 2020 at 11:33PM

to add on, I'm ace, but I enjoy looking at booty (every one has a nice one! even you!). I guess you could say that I have an ​ ass-thetic. B) July 18, 2020 at 11:33PM

I haven't dated another ace (probably), but I had an ace roommate. We could definitely connect about our confusion more. I've confused some allos because of how uninterested I am; they tried to, shall we say, get me in the mood and it just... fell flat. Overall though, differing sexualities hasn't played a major factor in the end of any of my relationships, whether platonic or more. It's the same as any ingrained difference; some people are willing to have different POVs and some aren't. Some cross-religion relationships work, some don't. Some cross-politics relationships work, some don't. Etc etc etc. It all depends on how open to communicating people are and how open they are to others having different opinions/views than them. July 18, 2020 at 11:28PM

Yeah I feel that and it’s such a personal thing to talk about too varies on the person ofc me vs someone else different levels of validation that are comfortable for everyone July 18, 2020 at 11:26PM

Aw, double the cuteness July 18, 2020 at 11:25PM

I’m out to 2 people. The first one casually mentioned she was asexual, so I came out to her. The second person actually asked me if I knew what asexuality meant during a conversation about romance and stuff, so I said yes, and that I am ace, since I could tell she had the intention to inform me I might be ace. I guess it was pretty obvious, lol. July 18, 2020 at 11:24PM

Thanks! :) July 18, 2020 at 11:23PM

Thanks! July 18, 2020 at 11:23PM

...wut? July 18, 2020 at 11:23PM

It doesn't come off as rude, no worries :) Labels are also not necessarily a thing everyone needs to know. Personally I am asexual and sex repulsed, so I use the label as a way to explain why I'm uncomfortable with certain topics. But I also am still questioning my exact gender so instead I always just go with female or demigirl depending on the crowd. They don't need to know specifics. Labels are a useful tool when explaining certain behaviour, but they can also overload people. The same goes for other sexualities. You don't need to know someone's orientation unless you're interested in them. However sometimes it's nice that someone knows exactly who and what you are July 18, 2020 at 11:22PM

Nice! And first time I’ve seen this flag, actually. July 18, 2020 at 11:21PM

Mila :) July 18, 2020 at 11:20PM

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A friend of mine (I swear it's not me) has been dating a guy since September 2019. They've known each other for years prior. She really loves him, but the problem is she has no idea where he stays. He's never asked her to come over to his house, and even when he had a house warming party she wasn't invited. He keeps telling her that he's in a committed relationship with her. But she feels different. He barely texts or calls her. She only meets him in hotel rooms when he's traveling for work and nobody in his family knows about her. Her family does indeed know about him. She loves this man, but she doesn't want to give him too much because she feels like he isn't serious about her. Last thing, they were together a couple of months ago, and while he was showing her something on his phone a woman texted saying "you going to come get this pussy". He claims the girl did it to be petty because she knew they were together. He refuses to block her,