I know, I know, its not the right place to make that kind of a connection. But I was up front and stated that I probably won't be buying the car due to the high mileage on it. Its just that we had a pretty cool conversation about lots of different things. She kept making strong eye contact with me and laughing. I felt some type of connection with her. I still don't know if I should pursue this or not if I end up not buying the car. If I do express an interest to her though, how should I do it? Open to any ideas, suggestions, or feedback Submitted August 17, 2019 at 12:14AM I know, I know, its not the right place to make that kind of a connection. But I was up front and stated that I probably won't be buying the car due to the high mileage on it.Its just that we had a pretty cool conversation about lots of different things. She kept making strong eye contact with me and laughing. I felt some type of connection with her.I still don't know if I should pursue this ...

So I've just had my heart broken for what feels like the 100th time. Only this time I had fallen hard for a guy who in reality turned out to be someone I thought he wasn't. He simply ghosted me with no real explanation, which in turn resulted in me now second guessing everything to ultimately come to the conclusion that nothing he told was the truth and I have been played and taken advantage of. I uprooted a lot of my life for this guy and am scrambling to fix and move past everything. But I can't seem to find any closure and deal with how someone can knowlingly hurt someone like this. How do you live with yourself knowing you have taken advantage of someone for your own personal gain and ego? I'm struggling a lot and suffer with mental health issues and can feel myself slipping. I'm desperate for some advice on ways to possibly find closure and overcome this feeling so that I can look forward to the future instead of retreating into myself. I simply don't w...

So I've fallen hard and fast for this guy I met a couple of months ago. I've been out of the dating scene for around a year now, and decided not to look for anything due to my track record of past relationships crashing and burning spectacularly. Anyway, I met this guy through a volunteering thing, and we immediately hit it off. We'd talk every day, and he'd make me laugh more than I've ever laughed before. I initially saw him as a good friend, but slowly those feelings developed into a full blown crush, which I'm pretty afraid of - let's just say I've been used a lot by various people. He asked me to dinner a few weeks ago, and I wasn't sure if it was meant to be a date or something friendly. Regardless, I had an amazing evening and he kindly picked up the bill, despite my protests. We hung out until pretty late, walking and chatting and went our separate ways home. About a week later, I visited him at his house and we watched a movie, put his arms...

Background:  I (22M) recently reconnected with an old friend (22F) from college who I always thought was attractive but never pulled a move because I was dating another girl back then. I never intentionally got to know her as a friend but over the past year, I realized we shared a few similarities: playing tennis, traveling, being a foodie, and other things. We follow each other on IG and we'd always like each other's posts and be the one of the first to watch each other's stories. We also went to the same church and had lots of mutual friends, so when I broke up with my GF back then, everyone knew. Current situation:  Fast forward a few months after graduation, she moves to another city for work and I stay in town for grad school so IG was the only way to stay in touch. I heard that she broke up with her BF after graduation and I didn't pull a move until recently (last week): I replied to her IG story with a funny, teasing joke. (For context, she posted a story abou...

I've been at this job for over a month and a half now and there's a guy there I think is really cute. Only one problem, I've only spoken to him twice and both those conversations have consisted of "hi". Pretty pathetic start, right? I have pretty bad social anxiety but I'd really like to talk to him and get to know him. He seems nice, but shy and I don't really know what to do. I know this isn't really "dating advice", but does anyone have any suggestions as to what I should do? Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:00PM I've been at this job for over a month and a half now and there's a guy there I think is really cute. Only one problem, I've only spoken to him twice and both those conversations have consisted of "hi". Pretty pathetic start, right?I have pretty bad social anxiety but I'd really like to talk to him and get to know him. He seems nice, but shy and I don't really know what to do.I know this isn...

I know online dating apps can help people but I feel like I'm too young for that and I wouldn't get much for it either. I'm currently not going to school till winter so I won't be meeting new people for awhile and I'm not old enough to go to bars to meet people. What are some ways I could meet new people that could potentially be dating material? Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:14PM I know online dating apps can help people but I feel like I'm too young for that and I wouldn't get much for it either. I'm currently not going to school till winter so I won't be meeting new people for awhile and I'm not old enough to go to bars to meet people. What are some ways I could meet new people that could potentially be dating material?

Hi guys, i really don't know if this post belongs here but i just wanted to ask about a situation with a friend of mine. I'm in the uni, my friend(G) it's trying to date another close friend of mine called (V) she knows that he likes her but it seems, (G) is my friend but he's an asshole, he's asking me about info and strategies to date her. I think that he's just going to hurt her feelings if i don't tell (V) that he was a real asshole with other girls so he's probably doing the same thing with her. If i say that to her am i being a bad friend? Should i encourage (G) to date her or should i just stay quiet about it and let (V) figure it out by her own? Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:15PM Hi guys, i really don't know if this post belongs here but i just wanted to ask about a situation with a friend of mine. I'm in the uni, my friend(G) it's trying to date another close friend of mine called (V) she knows that he likes her but it seems...

Nothing sexual lol. But I'm 25F and texting with 29M. I got a haircut today and my hair looks really good lol. So I took a cute picture of myself, and figured maybe I'd send it to the guy? But I'm not sure how guys feel about selfies. I've never sent him a picture of myself yet. Are pictures of just the face alright? Or is that weird? Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:16PM Nothing sexual lol. But I'm 25F and texting with 29M. I got a haircut today and my hair looks really good lol. So I took a cute picture of myself, and figured maybe I'd send it to the guy? But I'm not sure how guys feel about selfies. I've never sent him a picture of myself yet.Are pictures of just the face alright? Or is that weird?

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For about a week I’ve been wanting to text a girl and ask her out. Had some of the smartest minds helping me formulate a message to send. Today I sent it and got rejected..well was told that she was really busy at work etc...it hurt for a minute but I moved on. Now I feel good. I hope the next time it’s much easier. Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:30PM For about a week I’ve been wanting to text a girl and ask her out. Had some of the smartest minds helping me formulate a message to send. Today I sent it and got rejected..well was told that she was really busy at work etc...it hurt for a minute but I moved on. Now I feel good. I hope the next time it’s much easier.

For a little background, this girl's sense of humor is pretty quircky and unconventional that's why I'm asking for advice (because I overthink). During the first date while we're driving she makes a comment (joke?) that she has 6 different personalities and that she's pretty crazy. I can't remember if she said just kidding after that because I was taken aback from what she said previously. Thing is, she seemed pretty normal throughout the whole date (and we ended up making out for at least 15-20 minutes in the car), it was just that comment that was weird. I'm not sure if I should go through with a second date because of her literally telling me she's crazy with 6 different personalities?! What do you guys think? Also, I'm not looking for a relationship, I just want a casual hookup thing or fwb. Judging from her Facebook she seems like a normal with plenty of friends and she's very intelligent (in med school). We also have mutual friends, I was ...

I try to be nice, make them laugh, and be respectable, I even pushed a girls car to a gas station because it died in the middle of a road and apparently that wasn’t enough. I keep trying to just be myself on dates, but it never works, and I would try to fix what I’m doing wrong if I actually knew what it was that I was doing wrong, because nobody seems to give me a straight answer when I ask, they all just say “I’m not ready for a relationship” or “it’s not you, it’s me.” I know that I may not be like every other guy, gallant, charming, energetic, hilarious, smooth, but I do know that I got lots to give, and even though I might not show that well on the first date, why doesn’t anyone ever stick around long enough to see what I have to offer? Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:39PM I try to be nice, make them laugh, and be respectable, I even pushed a girls car to a gas station because it died in the middle of a road and apparently that wasn’t enough. I keep trying to just be myself...

This is a throwaway, because she knows my actual Reddit username. I'm 27/M, she's 27/F. Little backstory: I haven't been in an actual relationship since college, back in 2013. I've spent that last 6 years not really caring about getting into a relationship, and instead focused on work. I'm also inexperienced at dating, since all of my past relationships came as a result of just hanging out with the other person, and then just ending up together. No "actual" dates in the traditional sense. I was introduced to her a few weeks ago via a mutual friend I work with. We had a good time at a convention, and then went surfing after. I got her number, and we've hung out with just the two us a few times since. She posted an Instagram story jokingly asking for a date to go to see Phantom of the Opera. I brought it up later and offered to take her. She said that she already got invited to go with a group of people, so I said no problem, and that was that... or s...

All of my past relationships have been either abusive or manipulative. I met someone a month ago thats makes me so happy and treats me great. It is almost confusing being with him sometimes because I'm bot used to having someone around that actually cares. I love him, i love being with him, i love having him in my life. I'm just always afraid that he's gonna disappear. I've talked to him about this and he feels the same way, since we both haven't been in committed relationships for the past 2 years. He has already told me multiple times that he isn't going anywhere, and that he would never hurt me like other people have. But i still can't shake the feeling that I'm gonna loose him. Is there anyone else that has dealt with this before? Can I do anything to stop thinking he's gonna just leave me? Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:46PM All of my past relationships have been either abusive or manipulative. I met someone a month ago thats makes me so...

I know a lot of people will look down on this, but I have finally realized that I am in love with someone. I have always believed that sometimes, love isn't a choice, as it just occasionally happens out of complete chance. So, this case is just automatic reflexes working in my brain. I ask that you try not to call me a pedophile or a hebephile, but I like, practically love a 17-year-old girl. The good thing about this is that I only have to wait about two weeks before she's officially a woman before I can do anything that won't be condemned by the majority of society. I've put a lot of careful thought into this, and I think it can work itself out. For a little bit of backstory, I'm a 23-year-old male, and she's a 17-year-old female. We know each other because we work at the same place, but we rarely have the same shifts together. Well, I barely know her because we don't talk much even though she has interacted with me a few times previously. On Memorial D...

There’s this girl in my science class that I like, she sat next to me and we talked quite a bit before she had her schedule changed. Shes kinda outta my league but she doesn’t really talk to that many guys. Should I dm her as if she was still in the class and Segway from class to going bowling or hiking? She’s a 9 but no one seems to really approach her. Submitted August 16, 2019 at 11:53PM There’s this girl in my science class that I like, she sat next to me and we talked quite a bit before she had her schedule changed. Shes kinda outta my league but she doesn’t really talk to that many guys. Should I dm her as if she was still in the class and Segway from class to going bowling or hiking? She’s a 9 but no one seems to really approach her.

I'm (22M) dating a girl (20F) who I absolutely adore. I'm going to marry her one day, and there's nothing in the world I'm more sure of than that. I liked her a long time before we actually started dating. We were coworkers for a while, didn't see each other for several months after I changed professions, and then reconnected. I'm not exactly the most personable, emotional person, and tend to keep those feelings internally. One outlet I used to use when I was crushing super hard, and even when we were in the early stages of dating was to write a sort of diary. Laugh if you want, it helped me express my feelings. I wrote some pretty sappy stuff in there, much of which is extremely personal and gives a very in-depth understanding of my thought processes and the vulnerability I felt during that time. I've thought about giving it to her as a sort of gift. Keep in mind that some of this stuff was prior to us dating, and it contains thoughts and feelings typicall...

Bars and clubs are a sausage fest and everyone stays in groups and hobbies don’t work sucks when you’ve tryed everything Submitted August 17, 2019 at 12:05AM Bars and clubs are a sausage fest and everyone stays in groups and hobbies don’t work sucks when you’ve tryed everything

So there's this girl (idk what age but definitely 15 to 17 at least/most) at my school that seems pretty cool (I'm in my junior year of high school btw). I've had a class with her before, last year when i was a sophomore, but I barely got to talk to her because we only sat next to each other once throughout the whole year. Prior to this, I didn't even know her, so It's not like I could just go up to her and start talking to her (well I guess I could but that would be weird I think). Anyways the time that we did sit next to each other, she seemed pretty chill and we laughed/talked a decent amount about random stuff. It was a little awkward I'll admit, but it was kinda cool and there was this certain energy idk (or so I think). So after we switched seats again, we didn't really talk at all and I was kinda bummed. I would see her in the hallways and wouldn't say anything because... I don't know I guess I'm stupid, and I kinda thought she didn'...

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I'm working on making my BIO look better since I have assed it. My buddy helped me with my bio and I've only gotten one message and alot of likes. So clearly I'm doing something wrong. I need some help ladies. Submitted August 17, 2019 at 12:21AM I'm working on making my BIO look better since I have assed it. My buddy helped me with my bio and I've only gotten one message and alot of likes. So clearly I'm doing something wrong. I need some help ladies.

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