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/u/chaoticidealism on The perfect yarn is real! 💜🖤🤍

I'd love to make a beanie out of this. From a distance, it would look gray; then when you got closer you'd see the purple color. January 16, 2020 at 12:01AM

/u/KittyRose18 on Pardon?

Right?😂😅 January 15, 2020 at 11:51PM

/u/cautious-liberty on Can i identify as graysexual if i want to have sex?

can I ask you a question? how's the desire to have sex with someone different to feeling sexual attraction towards someone? January 15, 2020 at 11:51PM

I [22F] am so angry with my parents [52F] [57M] for how differently they treat my sister [16F] compared to me

I’m 22, senior in college and live at home with my parents and sister. I commute to college so I’m still living at home. (No I can’t afford to live on campus). There is a running theme here that I have so much anger towards my parents for how they raised and parented me compared to now with my sister. Although I am super angry, I am extremely close to my mom we are best friends despite this issue. Yes, I know the second child has it easier. I know they typically are parented more leniently. But it’s so much more than that. It’s not something simple like my sister got a cell phone younger than I did, no. It’s how they parent us. When I was in high school, I really struggled with depression and I missed a lot of school. I cut class a lot, etc. I was constantly punished. In middle school I cut my gym class because I was overweight and so anxious depressed but my parents grounded me for 3 months for cutting class, also took away my cell phone. Compared to my sister, who is failing majori...

My boyfriend wants to hook up with other people because I have more experience than him

My [20f] boyfriend [22m] says he at some point wants to take a break and hook up with people because I did in the past (before I knew him) and he never did. He was pretty inexperienced before he met me, I took his virginity but I’ve slept with a few people. He says he feels like he missed out on something that I got to experience. Normally I’d say fuck no and get the hell out of the situation but I really love this guy. I’ve never felt this way about anyone and I’ve never been so comfortable around or happy with anybody. So I told him if it makes him feel better he can, even though it makes me feel like absolute shit that he wants to do that. I show him so much love, he’s the number one person in my life, id go to the ends of the earth for him. I understand that he wants to experience sleeping with other people but at the same time I can’t see it from his point of view because he’s the only person I want and even if we weren’t together I don’t see the appeal in sleeping with random pe...

[41/f] My son (7/m) got bit by a kid at school and they refuse to do anything about it.

On Friday, my son (7) came home with a serious bruise on his arm. It was swollen, i asked what happened. He told me that on the line for the bus, this kid in his class just bit him. Why? I don't know. He said he's never even talked to that kid. He said he didn't ask for help because you're supposed to be quiet during the bus arrivals. He just laid down because he said he had a fever. He threw up that night, so i took him to the doctor, and they had to give a shot. I think Tetanus. My son didn't want to go to school at all this week, he's been pretty upset since. I let him miss the days. I demanded to see the principal and his teacher, they let me have an appointment today. They said they asked some other kids who were there, they backed up his story that my son was just sitting there when the kid chomped him. Some other teachers have noticed a little bit of bullying on the other kid's end. I asked what they'd do about it. The teacher said it would be ...

I (20F) need some advice on whether or not to tell my dad (44M) that my mom (42F) cheated on him with yet another guy (25M)

So, there’s a lot of history here. I’ll summarize. My mom is a repeat offender. Long story short, my mom told me a couple days after my 18th birthday, against my dads wishes, that she cheated on my dad when they first met (dad knew) and she doesn’t know who my biological father is. My dad raised me my whole life not knowing if I was his or not. Then, two years ago, my mom met and fucked a 23 year old guy. She had a relationship with him, introduced him to her parents, all while still married to my dad. She also had a thing with her old high school sweetheart for a while. My dad is a Christian and refuses to divorce her, says she’s the only woman for him, and he still financially supports her even though they’re separated. He pays for her apartment and her car. He raises my three younger siblings basically by himself now. But that’s not the issue I’m posting about. I got a message earlier today on Facebook from this lady in her 20’s that said “u should tell your mom to not fuck 25 year...

GF(27) me(30), I feel I can’t do anything right, she gets extremely irritable, how can I help?

My gf(27) and I(30) have been living together for about 2 years now, there’s been added pressure with things going on, but I feel like I can’t do anything right, everything seems to need slight improvement or I didn’t do something quite right in my gf eyes. And more recently if she has a problem with her laptop or something like that she’s get really frustrated and keep asking me why it’s not working and that I need to fix it for her and drop anything I’m doing, I try to sort it out but sometimes I can’t and she gets really angry and tells me I don’t support her and that she doesn’t know why we’re together. On occasions it’s progressed further and she starts to hit herself or scratch her face. I feel like I’m on eggshells all the time, these episodes can last for hours. I suggested going to the doctors and talking to her about how I feel but she says I’m being too sensitive or argues she doesn’t need this as she has a lot of issues going on. I do try to discuss the issues with her whe...

My girlfriend (F 37) tells me all my (M 35) female exes and good friends keep asking for double dates or to meet her because "its a territory thing, they're sniffing to make sure they don't still have a chance with you & to size me up". Is this true?

My Girlfriend claims this is something women do, I admit I'm completely clueless. But several female friends and former romantic interests who are still friends immediately asked for double dates or dinner dates once they heard me gush about her. She's been happy to oblige and makes it sound like its a "marking your territory" kind of thing with 'her' man.... ​ A part of me is intrigued by this notion, another part is off-put. Would anyone else say there's truth to this? Is she 'claiming her space' by letting them see her and me together? It feels like that dumb movie scene "if you're really in love, let's see you kiss!", but it happened multiple times now. ​ With some of the female friends they're like sisters to me and I legit think they were looking out for me to make sure she was treating me well, but others.... at least 2 or 3 others? It makes me wonder if she's right? Women, is this really a thing? Have I just b...

I'm [22F] getting increasingly frustrated at my boyfriend's [28M] nonchalant attitude about safety in our dangerous neighborhood and I don't know how to deal with it.

TLDR: My boyfriend and I live in a dangerous neighborhood (like, a few muggings and breakins a day kind of dangerous) and I ask him to take basic precautions like not leaving his phone or other expensive devices in the front seat of his car, or not walking our dog in the park near our house at night because dangerous incidents have taken place there. I grew up in a dangerous city, and have lived in several dangerous neighborhoods, so I've seen this sort of stuff happen. He grew up in a safe neighborhood, and thereby thinks that everyone is actually exaggerating how dangerous the world actually is, and actually gets very annoyed with me for asking him to be more careful as if I'm pushing some kind of agenda. I don't know how to deal with this. I grew up in a city with one of the highest homocide rates in the USA (New Orleans, Louisiana), and have lived in some dangerous neighborhoods and living situations. My boyfriend grew up in a mostly safe little suburb in the outskirt...

My[24m] fwb[22f] got a tattoo of my name on her back... we aren’t at all serious

So background my friends with benefits and I been seeing each other on and off for 2.5 years. I’ll say this much when she gets into the idea of something she generally gets really suckered in. She dropped out of college a year ago and now works as an apartment receptionist. So now to what happened we started seeing each other decently frequently now. She showed me on Instagram how this couple got a tattoo of two doves on their arms. I joked that it would be sexy if she got my name tattooed on her. And I made a joke that do you really love someone unless you get a face tattoo of their name. She said I had a pretty name and wouldn’t mind it. Two weeks later she sends me a pic of her back where it’s all red and with a banner that has my name with a blue and red heart in front of it. I called it asking if it was a joke and she was like it’s for real. I have no idea what to do, at that point I said we need to talk about it. We were supposed to link up today but I told her I was busy. I...

I (27M) am ashamed of becoming toxic in my last relationship to the only girl (20F) I’ve ever truly loved and would like to know how to approach future relationships and share my story to help others. [XL]

So over the last few months I’ve become very self aware and have fully realized that in past relationships I’ve become bored, cold and distant. In particular my last relationship ended quite terribly, she was possibly the sweetest, cutest and quite frankly greatest girl I’ve ever had the privilege to not only call a friend but a partner but yet during the relationship I became someone I’m not and someone I am ashamed of. I would like to know if anyone has had similar experiences from either side, has any thoughts on how I should approach myself and future relationships and simply would like to vent by sharing my story as I hope it might help yours in the future. -- the start -- Little background and hopefully a short (I tried... sorry) version of the story goes something like this, so we were together only around a year and a half however we lived together for about a year due to the nature of our work, housing is pretty hard and it was easier to move in together early in the relat...

Anyone got Sex tips for Male and/or female?

I've recently gotten into a relationship and have found myself more sexually committed to this person than any other past relationship and there's nothing too special about the sex except that she genuinely tries her heart out. She recently asked me what she can do in bed to make me not ever want anyone sexually and only her. I want to give her some new tricks to use but also don't want to fall behind in this race of who can please who more. So any advice or tricks would be highly appreciated. P.S. I tried to eat her ass once but felt that I was too inexperienced so I stopped. Submitted January 15, 2020 at 10:30PM I've recently gotten into a relationship and have found myself more sexually committed to this person than any other past relationship and there's nothing too special about the sex except that she genuinely tries her heart out. She recently asked me what she can do in bed to make me not ever want anyone sexually and only her. I want to give her some...

Does any other female experience yeast infections after having unprotected sex with their partner?

I have experienced multiple yeast infections on numerous occasions where my boyfriend doesn’t wrap it up..once he does the infections go away..does anyone else experience this?? Is it just me? Or does anyone know why this happens?? Help :( Submitted January 15, 2020 at 11:26PM I have experienced multiple yeast infections on numerous occasions where my boyfriend doesn’t wrap it up..once he does the infections go away..does anyone else experience this?? Is it just me? Or does anyone know why this happens?? Help :(

Have I (23M) been masturbating wrong my whole life, ruining my own orgasms?

I was just reading a post about “ruined orgasms” where the hand is pulled away when the man reaches the point of no return. This is what I’ve been doing my whole life, not knowing I was ruining my own orgasms! I’ve always moved my hand out of the way so as not to impede the flow, but I’ve never found solo orgasms all that satisfying. Are you supposed to keep using your hand when you’re cumming? God I feel so stupid! I also enjoy doing totally hands-free masturbation, so maybe I picked up bad habits from that. Submitted January 15, 2020 at 11:33PM I was just reading a post about “ruined orgasms” where the hand is pulled away when the man reaches the point of no return.This is what I’ve been doing my whole life, not knowing I was ruining my own orgasms! I’ve always moved my hand out of the way so as not to impede the flow, but I’ve never found solo orgasms all that satisfying.Are you supposed to keep using your hand when you’re cumming? God I feel so stupid! I also enjoy doing t...

I'd like some tips

I feel like when I have sex, it's alright, sometimes really good. I'd just like tips or techniques that make it more enjoyable for the woman, like when we're in doggy or missionary, small tips that I can do to get more of a reaction out of her. Or like when I'm eating her out, I'm doing the right things but I feel like I could do better. My penis size isn't LARGE I'm about a solid 6.8 inches. All advice appreciated. Submitted January 15, 2020 at 11:39PM I feel like when I have sex, it's alright, sometimes really good. I'd just like tips or techniques that make it more enjoyable for the woman, like when we're in doggy or missionary, small tips that I can do to get more of a reaction out of her. Or like when I'm eating her out, I'm doing the right things but I feel like I could do better. My penis size isn't LARGE I'm about a solid 6.8 inches. All advice appreciated.

My girlfriend and I got eachother off in front of her dad without him knowing.

So I work out of town up in Fort McMurray and I got sent home for the week due to transportation problems. So I hit the road this morning and surprised her I got home this afternoon, so I spent the afternoon watching movies and I was really horny after a week in camp I started to rub her vagina outside of her pajamas under the blankets She kept trying to get me to stop but then she started to rub my penis eventually slipping her hand down my pants, she rubbed dry for a bit but when her dad left the room for a minute she spat on her hand and I pulled it out, her dad returned and I was throbbing but couldn't get off so I put my hand down her pants and played with her vagina. I had to muffle my orgasm as I came all over the blanket her hands are so soft and wet from her spit. We had to head out for food since it was dinner time, when we returned we put on titanic and I thought I would return the favour. I teased her when we were in the drive through by rubbing her leg and softly...

Is good sex the marriage maker?

Please identify your gender in your response. Was the person you married the one you had the best sex with? If not, why did you choose to marry that person and now do you have seond thoughts because of it. Submitted January 15, 2020 at 11:45PM Please identify your gender in your response. Was the person you married the one you had the best sex with? If not, why did you choose to marry that person and now do you have seond thoughts because of it.

Autistic partner does not know how to use condoms

I am suffering with my boyfriend because he is autistic and does not know how to put condom on. Every time we have sex I put it on for him. I tried to teach him but no luck. He seems to hate condoms because sometimes he tries to remove it. Any advices? Submitted January 15, 2020 at 11:47PM I am suffering with my boyfriend because he is autistic and does not know how to put condom on. Every time we have sex I put it on for him. I tried to teach him but no luck. He seems to hate condoms because sometimes he tries to remove it. Any advices?

Struggling I get it up anymore

This is weird as I’m only 15 but my gf tried giving me a hand job for my first time ever and I couldn’t even get turned on and also I even find it much harder than usual by myself and I have no idea why this is. Edit: just looked at the title and realised it made no sense sorry Submitted January 15, 2020 at 11:47PM This is weird as I’m only 15 but my gf tried giving me a hand job for my first time ever and I couldn’t even get turned on and also I even find it much harder than usual by myself and I have no idea why this is.Edit: just looked at the title and realised it made no sense sorry

Genuinely curious - what makes bad sex?

I’m particularly curious about what makes sex bad for a man who is having sex with a women? What is it in particular that causes for someone to feel like it wasn’t enjoyable sex? Feel like I worded this rlly bad sorry haha Submitted January 15, 2020 at 11:52PM I’m particularly curious about what makes sex bad for a man who is having sex with a women? What is it in particular that causes for someone to feel like it wasn’t enjoyable sex? Feel like I worded this rlly bad sorry haha

Female friendly Porn

I’m in need of the titles of some “Female friendly “ porn movies, so we can watch together on the Firestick. Anyone interested in helping??? We appreciate any suggestions. Thanks. Submitted January 15, 2020 at 11:52PM I’m in need of the titles of some “Female friendly “ porn movies, so we can watch together on the Firestick. Anyone interested in helping??? We appreciate any suggestions. Thanks.

To buy or not to buy, wand

Hello, following on from feedback from my previous post I'm looking to buy a wand, any particular models that stand out? Also how loud are we talking ? Would my parents here a few rooms away Thanks Submitted January 15, 2020 at 11:53PM Hello, following on from feedback from my previous post I'm looking to buy a wand, any particular models that stand out? Also how loud are we talking ? Would my parents here a few rooms awayThanks