I love it! August 22, 2021 at 11:48PM

woah that sounds pretty similar to what i feel! thanks August 22, 2021 at 11:47PM

Personally, I'd use desire or wants. We can actively celebrate and value desires and wants within the context of consensual dynamics. Needs makes consent a bit trickier. Other needs don't impinge upon other people's bodies, so their ethics operate differently imo. Like, if you were at a well and I came up to drink some water and you said I couldn't because it was your well and I died, there's a real ethical argument that you were in the wrong. Not the case with sex. August 22, 2021 at 11:46PM

I am a 25yr old ebony bbw looking for fun times with married men or men in longterm relationships. Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:09PM I am a 25yr old ebony bbw looking for fun times with married men or men in longterm relationships.

Basically i tried having sex so many times and each time it was like a burning pain and literally would not work at all the p would not go in the v. I really don’t know why this is there was lots of foreplay each time and i was really into it. Do any of ye know what could be wrong ??? Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:09PM Basically i tried having sex so many times and each time it was like a burning pain and literally would not work at all the p would not go in the v. I really don’t know why this is there was lots of foreplay each time and i was really into it. Do any of ye know what could be wrong ???

Did you click straight away? Was it awkward? If it was a one time thing, what made you want to continue? Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:09PM Did you click straight away? Was it awkward? If it was a one time thing, what made you want to continue?

It was my senior year in high school and I blew my football teammate in his shower. We had to make it quick because his parents were gonna be home soon, I remember that he didn’t tell me when he was going to cum and all I remember feeling is his dick getting thicker and starting to pulsate in my mouth and he coated my tongue and throat with his cum. I had no choice but to swallow. I miss those days it was a lot easier hooking up I feel like. Rant over. Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:11PM It was my senior year in high school and I blew my football teammate in his shower. We had to make it quick because his parents were gonna be home soon, I remember that he didn’t tell me when he was going to cum and all I remember feeling is his dick getting thicker and starting to pulsate in my mouth and he coated my tongue and throat with his cum. I had no choice but to swallow.I miss those days it was a lot easier hooking up I feel like.Rant over.

So I had sex on CD 10. These were the lengths of my previous cycles: 29, 27, 23, 25, 27, 26, 26, 24, 27, 27, 24, 30, 25, 21, 25 Any chance of pregnancy? Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:11PM So I had sex on CD 10.These were the lengths of my previous cycles: 29, 27, 23, 25, 27, 26, 26, 24, 27, 27, 24, 30, 25, 21, 25Any chance of pregnancy?

It’s not a forest down there or anything but I grow hair on my shaft and am typically a hairy guy. Guys seem to be into the hair but are girls into it? Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:13PM It’s not a forest down there or anything but I grow hair on my shaft and am typically a hairy guy. Guys seem to be into the hair but are girls into it?

Whenever my girlfriend orgasms before me, she can no longer handle PIV. She says it feels like her vagina is saying “NO”. When I’m inside her and she orgasms, I can literally feel the muscles tighten and stay tight. Tight enough that it’s uncomfortable for me to continue and she’s in pain. What is this and how can I help? We’ve tried various lubes but it hasn’t helped and I’m at a loss as to what to Google for. Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:25PM Whenever my girlfriend orgasms before me, she can no longer handle PIV. She says it feels like her vagina is saying “NO”.When I’m inside her and she orgasms, I can literally feel the muscles tighten and stay tight. Tight enough that it’s uncomfortable for me to continue and she’s in pain.What is this and how can I help? We’ve tried various lubes but it hasn’t helped and I’m at a loss as to what to Google for.

honestly before him(22m) i (21f) was saving myself for marriage but after a year together i just finally felt ready. we’ve only been having sex for a little over a year now, but I’ve never even came. that aside, he’s never even done anything to make me feel good. he gives oral wrong, he finishes too quick during penetration, and he doesn’t know how to use his hands well either. it wasn’t a big deal at first but the more we do things the more i get frustrated that i don’t feel anything from it. he just finishes and rolls over and it’s just starting to annoy me now. ive tried to help and guide him but as soon as i stop he’s doing it all wrong again. he doesn’t know im unsatisfied but it isn’t rocket science. i really love him and sex was never a big thing but idk i just wanna feel good too. where do i go from here? Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:27PM honestly before him(22m) i (21f) was saving myself for marriage but after a year together i just finally felt ready. we’ve only b...

Okay so I know I might sound like I'm overthinking but basically, me and my bf were having sex and it really hurt since its still the first few times so we stopped. then I ended up giving him a blowjob. He literally came all over my face so I immediately went to the bathroom to wash it off, I rinsed my face with water and then I dried my face with a paper towel. Then I felt like I was bleeding from the sex so I took the wadded paper towel and kinda put it against the entrance of my v*gina to see if there was any blood would soak in it but I didn't put the towel in. I'm just worried that the towel had any sperm on it. Am I just being paranoid? Help a girl out I really don't wanna be pregnant. Sorry if I'm educated wrong and I sound stupid lmaoo thanks 😭 Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:31PM Okay so I know I might sound like I'm overthinkingbut basically, me and my bf were having sex and it really hurt since its still the first few times so we stopped. the...

Hi Reddit, So I've been dating this girl for about a month, she's a virgin. Also, she's quite conservative because of how she was raised, and so at the moment she doesn't want to have penetrative sex. She's very sex curious though, so we've been fooling around, and I'm being respectful of her boundaries. Sex aside though, she's ridiculously gorgeous, fun, intelligent, generally perfect for me- so I want to make it work! She's 21, I'm 25. Now here's the trouble, with penetrative sex off the table - we have, well, everything else - but, she's not sensitive at all! Kissing, sucking, lip biting her, her neck, her ears, her nipples, her back. She has no reaction, the most I got out of her was two uncontrolled breaths while sucking on her neck and nipples, and I think she might like it a little when I grab her butt? She does try to react though, and when she does and I'm curious if it was really something - I ask her - and she says ...

Hey family. So warning this is a very complicated thread that I have been going through for the past few years. This is no way a troll and is very real, asking for no judgement and only out in your input if you believe it could be beneficial for me. So I am a straight male, 22. I have two fetishes, Mermaids and Belly Buttons. It originated when I was little and watched The Little Mermaid it developed a fetish for both. Anyway it's gotten to the point where I have these fantasy's where I am a mermaid and I seduce and lure very old men and am very vulnerable. (again I am a male identify as one and is straight) I used to go on craigslist personals and made posts about meeting up with a old man to make this fantasy into a reality and filled a long description of what I was looking for. I had endless chats with a few men via email about meeting up to fulfil this mermaid fantasy of mine (even had them offer to buy me a swimmable mermaid tail) never have I felt so desired. Anyway ev...

When I was 15 I lost my virginity to a cute guy with a small stature and pretty small member. I bled quite a lot, which is to be expected. Anyways, I cleaned myself up and was super happy to have gone through this rite of passage. I only had sex with him once, and didn't have sex again until about 4 months later. The second guy I was with is very tall and has a much larger penis. Since I had already lost my virginity, I was very surprised to bleed again the moment he entered me. He was surprised too, and assumed I was on my period, which I most definitely was not. I was too embarrassed to explain that it seemed like he popped my cherry a second time, and I wasn't even sure if this was possible. 10 years later, I'm still not sure this is possible, but it does seem to make sense, that a smaller girth would partially rupture the hymen and it could still be broken more by a larger man. I have never heard anything about this, and I don't have any other explanation why I w...

Hey! I was wondering, is it possible to catch STD from swallowing cum only? If someone gives someone else a blowjob with a condom and then shortly before the penis person is going to cum, they both stop and he puts the condom down and jerks off for the final seconds and then cums on the other persons face or/and in mouth. Would it be possible for the person to catch some STD? Thanks! Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:33PM Hey! I was wondering, is it possible to catch STD from swallowing cum only? If someone gives someone else a blowjob with a condom and then shortly before the penis person is going to cum, they both stop and he puts the condom down and jerks off for the final seconds and then cums on the other persons face or/and in mouth. Would it be possible for the person to catch some STD? Thanks!

Pretty much what the title says. If I get pregnant right now, it's not going to throw anything off. I definitely prefer sex without a condom, and he does as well, so if he pulls out 30 seconds or so before orgasming, and I finish him with other methods, is the chance of pregnancy pretty low? Like I said, we don't need a 100% guarantee, as we'd be okay with having kids at this point. Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:39PM Pretty much what the title says. If I get pregnant right now, it's not going to throw anything off. I definitely prefer sex without a condom, and he does as well, so if he pulls out 30 seconds or so before orgasming, and I finish him with other methods, is the chance of pregnancy pretty low?Like I said, we don't need a 100% guarantee, as we'd be okay with having kids at this point.

Why do women like a finger in the butt while PIV? When my wife is really horny she will ask for it but that’s maybe 10% of the time. I also see it a lot in porn. But other then that she wont let me get near there unless it’s rimming. Like the other night I was curious so I put a finger in while she was using a vibrator without her asking and came instantly. I have zero desire to do anal but I’m not grossed out by it at all. She said once that it makes her feel tighter after 2 kids. Like I said I don’t care at all and I’ll gladly do it to please her, I’m just wondering why women like it. Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:40PM Why do women like a finger in the butt while PIV? When my wife is really horny she will ask for it but that’s maybe 10% of the time. I also see it a lot in porn. But other then that she wont let me get near there unless it’s rimming. Like the other night I was curious so I put a finger in while she was using a vibrator without her asking and came instantly. I ...

Title is really as clear as I can get. I often find myself bursting into tears after he finishes. It doesn’t happen when he finished me off, only when he’s done. Why does this happen? Recently, I noticed that after sex, I start to rub his body as if I’m calming him down; like, I’ll rub on his back like you would to calm down a child when they’re crying. It has stopped me from crying, but I feel like it’s my body preventing itself from a panic attack or something because it’s a subconscious action and I find it hard to stop until I feel better. Does anyone have any advice on how to stop this sort of reaction after sex? I really don’t know if it’s my body telling me that he’s not the guy for me or if this is something more personal like insécurités or whatever. It kills the mood because my boyfriend goes from « oh that was amazing, » to « oh my goodness, are you okay? » I don’t want him to start having anxiety on finishing because of what might happen next. Subm...

I (30f) have been very horny lately so Me and my husband been having a lot of sex lately. Tonight I was rubbing his dick again and it was hard and I was doing it for a little while. He than started saying his dick was feeling a little raw from all the sex we have been having. I felt so bad, my sex drive has been so high and it’s frustrating how high it is sometimes. And I didn’t want to make him raw. He felt bad after saying it he said I’m sorry it just is a little sore today is all. I knew he felt bad….but he’s never had issues before but I also don’t think we have had sex as much ever in our relationship than we have had this month. He got a new job, pays more and our life is just following more into place. We have been through a lot so I think we are both just really happy and excited for the future. Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:41PM I (30f) have been very horny lately so Me and my husband been having a lot of sex lately. Tonight I was rubbing his dick again and it was ha...

I’m curious what this phenomenon was. Today was quite fun. I (34M) bought a butt plug that has an internal steel ball that rattles around as you move. I wore it to do chores and later when out buying groceries. I hadn’t worn a plug that long and it was quite distracting - I had already not come for a couple of days. After several hours of housework later, some edging and genital stimulation later, I decided I would upgrade to a dildo and finish myself off properly. However after so long since cleaning myself I was paranoid to clean again. That’s when it happened. I’d used a douche bulb to fill up with warm water and was ready to expel. As I pushed, my penis shot a stream of something - thinner than precum, thicker than pee. I had a partial erection so it made an impressive arc. It wasn’t an orgasm, but it did feel good. What was this? Bladder pressure and a mix of pee and precum would be my guess but I wonder if this is documented. Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:45PM I’m cu...

Hey sorry I know dumb question but I have a Coper IUD that is fully healed and I have this unreasonable fear of my vibrator is going to like get caught on it. It’s one of those ones that have the like rubbery exterior. I’m probably just paranoid but it would ease my mind to know, I googled a lot of stuff and got mixed emotions from a lot even tho most did say it was safe. Thank you in advance Edit- typos Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:46PM Hey sorry I know dumb question but I have a Coper IUD that is fully healed and I have this unreasonable fear of my vibrator is going to like get caught on it. It’s one of those ones that have the like rubbery exterior. I’m probably just paranoid but it would ease my mind to know, I googled a lot of stuff and got mixed emotions from a lot even tho most did say it was safe. Thank you in advance Edit- typos

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and I still don't like it when he gives me head. I am self-conscious about the way my vagina looks it doesn't look like the ones in porn were everything is neat. Mine is more out and I know it's normal and he tells me all the time it's fine but I still can't get over it. I think it's ugly and I really don't know what to do or how to get over it. Recently is came to a head where we got into a small disagreement because he was trying to be super sweet and wake me up with morning head and I got really upset. Note: it's not that he's bad at it it feels great I just think I look gross down there. Submitted August 22, 2021 at 11:53PM My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and I still don't like it when he gives me head. I am self-conscious about the way my vagina looks it doesn't look like the ones in porn were everything is neat. Mine is more out and I know it's normal and he ...