Posting for my sister not on Reddit..... She’s (26F) in a 2 year relationship with the best girl (27F) she’s ever been with. Her girlfriend is fun, funny, kind, outgoing, beautiful, has great friends and family, the whole package. Both our families get along SO WELL. (This is my sister saying this, not just me giving my opinion😂) At this point, their social and family lives are pretty intertwined. For the last 6 months or so, my sister has just felt distanced. Has stayed with her to see if the feelings could come back. They lived together but her girlfriend moved out a few months ago after they decided it’d be better to have more space. My sis says during the week she likes knowing she’s going home alone, and when the weekend comes she’s only excited because she knows their plans will be fun, not necessarily because she misses her gf 🥴 She’s tried to “get the feelings back.” She doesn’t want to lose this girl. She is so afraid of hurting her too. She said she would pay money if ...

Are normal relationships dead? Like should I be ok with hooking up as like fwb n whatever happens happens? Is it foolish to still want n believe in love?? I keep feeling like I was born in the wrong Era. I go on dating sites (which one is even the best??) and get nothing but guys I'm not into or guys just wanting sex. It makes me think that I'll never find that somewhat fairytale love I'm looking for in my pisces head. I feel like any hope of finding love, getting married, and having kids is just gone and I'm destined to be a baby mama. I've only had 2 serious relationships in my 26 years of living. One started on a lie and the other started online and was predominantly long distance. I haven't a clue as to how actual dating works and I'm even more lost now because my friends seem to start out hooking up with someone and catching feelings. It seems to be the "norm" and I really hate that. So I'm just curious if this is the new way of dating o...

My first thought when trying to link them is the transphobic argument about trans women in women's bathrooms being opportunistic predators, because clearly being in the same bathroom has to be something sexual. I imagine this and deep-seated aphobia stem from the same ugly root of insistence that every human craves sex like no tomorrow and if they don't, they should. My two cents. March 02, 2021 at 12:07AM

Older bioware games never had explicit sex scenes so I always headcanon that they were entirely sensual and not sexual after the fade to black. It's harder in Dragon age Inquisition and Mass effect andromeda since they have more explicit scenes but not all romances have them so you could always still head canon the non explicit scenes. Also outer worlds has an ace character but idk if you can romance them March 02, 2021 at 12:02AM

I simply outlasted them. My sister had 4 kids and t hat pleased them. They assume I'm just gay or something, but I don't care. March 02, 2021 at 12:01AM

yeah? March 02, 2021 at 12:00AM

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im extremely curious about ...boob big one when other girl talk about thats i want to flee but stay for listen ....FFS (sorry if thats sound creepy or out context ). March 01, 2021 at 11:59PM

Congratulations! March 01, 2021 at 11:55PM

I came out to my stepmother, and she was very chill about it. That is a lot more than other people get. March 01, 2021 at 11:54PM

You're not saying never, you are saying no. March 01, 2021 at 11:54PM

Thank you to who ever gave me the Platinum. March 01, 2021 at 11:47PM

Throughout the whole movie I kept thinking to myself "is this really how teenagers normally think?" March 01, 2021 at 11:41PM

Wow that’s really powerful! I read your post a few times because I was really vibing with it all. This actually makes my day. I’m definitely exploring how I feel. I’ve always had a great dislike towards the whole actions of sex. And it really made me uncomfortable in the past when my boyfriends would push for it. Or questioned why I didn’t wanna be physical, and I always told myself it was something I’d eventually grow out of. But here I am! 21 and still feeling how I did when I was 13. People around me judged me quite a bit for it, so I was always trying to fancy the thought even though I really didn’t want to. It was a total betrayal of the self now that I’ve been reflecting, if I didn’t and still don’t think why am I trying to be something different? I told myself that I just might be on the kinkier side because straight up vanilla was never something I vibed with. But even that was something that I realize now that’s not even up my ally anyway...for the longest I was very confu...

I'm very sorry it happened to you. Maybe he doesn't understand it, maybe he thinks it's no big deal. But the problem is not that "he came on too strong". The problem is that what he did was invalidating and breached your boundaries. He needs to understand that. March 01, 2021 at 11:37PM

Looks like I'm buying an entire stock of glowing dinosaurs now... No regrets March 01, 2021 at 11:36PM

It's like a weird magnetic feeling, and you have an urge to get closer to the other person and just do something. It can also be awkward if you can't full read the situation Other times you can feel when the other person really wants to be closer to you, but you don't necessarily reciprocate that feeling. March 01, 2021 at 11:31PM

Ohhhh I didn't really think about that lol, thank you March 01, 2021 at 11:28PM

Argh, I guess I'm mostly afraid of me finding it horrible. But you're right, I can stop anytime... Hmm, I guess I could try it. At least I have more time to think before I can even commit to it because of corona March 01, 2021 at 11:15PM

Yes pls! Northern lights :D March 01, 2021 at 11:10PM

I think you can go for it? Just be honest about the situation and have clear boundaries? March 01, 2021 at 11:10PM

Oh, ok. Thanks. :) March 01, 2021 at 11:08PM

They still speak English in Germany and Austria though :) March 01, 2021 at 11:08PM