Also I’m not out to everyone March 17, 2023 at 01:14AM

Okay so I need some perspective on this. I (25M) once made a move on (24F). We both go to the same college. I asked her out basically, even going as far as telling her that she’s a very attractive person. She did not take much interest and did not move forward but she was also not offended. She still talked very sweetly with me. Now the thing is overtime it feels like her behaviour towards me just got sweeter. She would seem very delighted whenever she saw me and even went as far starting a conversation with me from her own side. The way she looked at me and the way she looked into my eyes. Something was different, it’s not the look you give to someone who just see as a friend or acquaintance. I never really asked her out again and she never approached me for a date but whenever we still talk it’s like the sweetest little conversations for me. Like what’s happening? You can imagine the tension I feel when I’m talking to her. It’s like can I just kiss you already… Submitted March 1

Basically I’m a 26m engineer and my coworker 28f who is also an engineer have been flirting a lot for the past month, and have talked about both of us having a crush on eachother. She is currently working for another division in my company but is potentially joining my engineering group so she’s only in my state for 2 weeks out of the month. We are both dealing with feelings for our ex’s. I’m not currently talking to my ex but she is. I’m going to go over and talk my coworker tonight and I’m just not sure what to do. I know a relationship will never work because of many factors. So I see my two options as pulling back entirely and saying this has to be a strictly professional relationship or making of move and asking her out knowing that it wouldn’t be able to develop into anything serious. I got out of a long term relationship last year and spent a year working on myself staying out of dating anyone so I’m just rusty I know the time of talking to someone knew is fun and part of tha

They all seem to be into the same types of guys For example in 30+ years I've never met a woman who's type was more quiet introverted type guys, not even referring to physical because that's even more narrow Submitted March 17, 2023 at 12:13AM They all seem to be into the same types of guysFor example in 30+ years I've never met a woman who's type was more quiet introverted type guys, not even referring to physical because that's even more narrow

i want that. now. March 16, 2023 at 11:23PM

Have an honest conversation about him. Bring resources with you, such as websites, that can help him understand if he doesn't know a lot about asexuality. In general, just make sure that he knows that it isn't about not being attracted to him. You definitely have to tell him, for both of your sake's. Be prepared in case he decides that he can't stay in the relationship. Sex is a deal breaker for a lot of allos. March 16, 2023 at 11:23PM