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/u/Sweet-Job-6367 on Which sexual + romantic orientation do you identify as?

Cupiosexual November 30, 2022 at 01:32AM

Need advice and honest opinions

So I have been struggling with this mentally as of late and feel like typing it out, if nothing else I’ll at least be able to get it out of my system. So I matched with this girl on tinder a few months ago, we both go to the same university. We talked for about a month, perhaps a little more before actually meeting up. It just never worked out with timing and vacations and such, nonetheless when we did hang out it was really fun. We watched movies, talked, and made out in the end. I feel like we had a genuine connection, which I don’t think I’ve had with a girl yet, and it made me feel really warm inside. That was around 3 weeks ago, and since then we hung out once more and then went on vacation which we just got back from. While on vaca we texted back and forth, some days more than others cause she isn’t a great texter which is okay. We also FaceTimed once throughout the week. So there are key points of why I’m worried about this. The first is that I know we aren’t technically excl...

/u/Smiley_goldfish on This whole asexual thing is awesome!

What is QPR? I’m intrigued November 30, 2022 at 12:44AM

am i being dramatic?

i matched with this boy on tinder today and he messaged first and was pretty nice. i’m trans and it says it in my bio and he shockingly asked if i’ve started hrt yet. a man has never asked me that before so it was pleasant for someone to care about something like that but also a small red flag to me for some reason. we were talking more about my transition but then i decided to check his instagram and he follows a ton of porn actresses and girls with onlyfans. now i’m definitely supportive of sex workers and don’t hold anything against pornography but this definitely made me apprehensive to continue conversation… and for a straight man like him to know about hrt tells me he might look at trans women as porn categorey like a lot of them do… am i overthinking?? Submitted November 30, 2022 at 12:16AM i matched with this boy on tinder today and he messaged first and was pretty nice. i’m trans and it says it in my bio and he shockingly asked if i’ve started hrt yet. a man has never a...

/u/beccatlady-42 on Coming Out Over and Over

For sure that makes sense! Maybe I’ll just come out individually to some of my family so they don’t feel like out of the loop and just come out to my friends when it naturally comes up November 29, 2022 at 11:30PM