Not so much paying for s*x, but paying for "closeness" like cuddling. Dating today seems like it requires too much investment. I'd hate to jump through a million hoops over a period of months when in reality I just want a little bonding. Like I understand there is a LOT more to relationships and would hate to waste someone's time.. It all seems like too big a commitment for what I want. It also doesn't help that I live in the most boring part of Virginia with no one near my age 21M. What are your thoughts or experiences with this? Submitted March 25, 2022 at 02:12AM Not so much paying for s*x, but paying for "closeness" like cuddling. Dating today seems like it requires too much investment. I'd hate to jump through a million hoops over a period of months when in reality I just want a little bonding. Like I understand there is a LOT more to relationships and would hate to waste someone's time.. It all seems like too big a commitment for w...

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My current bf/ guy im seeing is very successul and smart which is all impressive and everything but im not that much… He is surrounded by good looking smart girls all day that he can talk about his work stuff with whereas I cant really understand. I got interviewed for a role that was almost at his level today and it went so badly. I had to do a case study and the worst part is I went into it thinking I would smash it. I worked hard and still got nowhere… I feel very stupid. I cried all day. And its making me want to break up with this guy because I feel so inferior to him. I dont really know why he sticks around. Im pretty certain he must be cheating as he is really good looking too. Weve not yet slept together Submitted March 25, 2022 at 01:15AM My current bf/ guy im seeing is very successul and smart which is all impressive and everything but im not that much… He is surrounded by good looking smart girls all day that he can talk about his work stuff with whereas I cant real...

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i (f23) have a date with a guy (m52) tomorrow and i’m kinda nervous. i’ve dated older guys before and they’re kinda my type, but this is the oldest i’ve been with. i’m just worried that i’ll seem to young/immature to him. We’ve texted a little bit and he seems super kind and nice. i haven’t been on a first date in a while. we’re meeting at a restaurant and i got A LOT of questions. if i get there first, do i wait for him or just get us a table? what if he gets there first and got us a table already? when i see him do i greet him with a handshake or a hug? what questions do i ask him? how long should the date last? how long after the date should i text him? do i drink on the date? how many drinks should i order? (sorry this is a lot of questions) Submitted March 25, 2022 at 12:15AM i (f23) have a date with a guy (m52) tomorrow and i’m kinda nervous. i’ve dated older guys before and they’re kinda my type, but this is the oldest i’ve been with. i’m just worried that i’ll seem to...