I'm a pantheist that chooses Christianity cause Jesus is dope. So... a progressive Christian with caveats lol Basically I believe that we're all worshipping or not worshipping the same deity or higher power or universe in our own ways and it's all equally valid. I believe that as long as you're a good, kind person, you're good no matter which one you choose. October 08, 2021 at 12:50AM

I think they just worded it weirdly; since they had to list a bunch of other religions as well. October 08, 2021 at 12:50AM

That's also atheist. Since atheism is simply a lack of belief in any Gods and not the active disbelief in Gods as it is commonly misunderstood to be. October 08, 2021 at 12:49AM

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I'm thankful to have a very healthy relationship with my Christianity. I still go to church, but I've grown quite tired of the widespread misinterpretations of the bible and my religion as a whole. So, even though I enjoy worshiping with others, I've grown to prefer praying and whatnot on my own. Despite having hardly gone to church over the past year during the pandemic, I feel closer to God than ever. October 08, 2021 at 12:49AM

Hello. I 22F have realised that I'm never going to cum during sex and that I can masturbate for that. The issue is that I fake orgasms so that my fwb is happy. He's just a FWB so I don't think he'd care if I was enjoying myself or not but it makes me think about actual relationships in the future. I want to make my partners happy, I don't really care about my own pleasure because I've given up. But I don't know if I should be 100% honest or not. Please can you share your insight on the below: Would you want to know if your partner wasn't feeling pleasure, or orgasmsing, or would you rather the ignorance is bliss path? Would you be OK knowing that your partner masturbates after sex on their own? I am thinking of asking my fwb if I can just give him oral/head to get him off. Since my mouth probably feels just the same and I don't think he'll care. I don't think he feels the emotional aspect of sex like I do. Would you accept the of...

I spend most of my time going down on my girl. Its pretty mundane. Am I doing something wrong if she rubs her clit while I'm licking? Submitted October 08, 2021 at 12:38AM I spend most of my time going down on my girl. Its pretty mundane. Am I doing something wrong if she rubs her clit while I'm licking?

I need to get rid of a fat fetish I made a few posts about it a couple months ago (almost a year now, under a different account), but I didn’t solve my problem, and I’m back here again. The title says it all. In any case, there’s a lot to get off of my chest here. Just for reference, I’m a teen, but I’d rather not say my age. The first thing one would need to know before I take a dive into my story is just a little bit of fat fetish lingo. Feeder means someone who helps someone else get fatter, feedee is someone who intentionally gains. Alright, as far back as I can remember, (actually it was really around second grade) I thought being fat would be cool. It doesn’t make a ton of sense to me why I would have this fetish, and how I got it so young. Neither of my parents were fat, but they weren’t tiny either, which seems to be pretty common in most other people I’ve seen talk about it. This desire kinda used to be limited to my bio gender, male, but around 3-4 years ago, I switched,...

I personally wouldn’t because I wouldn’t want to follow through with something they’ll probably regret when they sober up, and of course because I’m not into taking advantage of people who are in a less coherent state than I am. Submitted October 08, 2021 at 12:41AM I personally wouldn’t because I wouldn’t want to follow through with something they’ll probably regret when they sober up, and of course because I’m not into taking advantage of people who are in a less coherent state than I am.

This is part vent part advice seeking. I apologies if it is rambly and fragmented. It is also probably missing key info that I just can't remember or think to add. I just need someone to hear me. I also don't blame anything on her. I love her and she is my best friend and partner. My GF(24F) and I (24M) basically never have sex anymore. We have been together for 5 years. The first year or two she was really nervous and basically did nothing but some teasing. That was fine because we were both our firsts and it wanted to go slow. We lived apart and I only saw her on weekends. Year 3 I had to work a night shift where I only had every other weekend off and saw her then. Sex was maybe every other time we saw each other. Sometime around winter 2019 her existing condition of anxiety and depression took a turn for the worst. She has always been on medication and I pushed her to seek therapy and she did. Sex basically became non existent. Maybe sometimes I could ask she would. 2020 ...

I started to do this and have found great enjoyment out of finding random girls online mostly in my local area and a few out of state but I offer to buy them sex toys and or lingerie at the local sex store, I explain to the cashier at the store and then leave the girls name so that way she can pop in later and pick them up. Some have sent me photos and videos of them using them and wearing the lingerie. Some have just sent verbal descriptions. It's very hot knowing they get pleasure and thrill from those toys. I can't wait to to it again. Would any ladies like to participate? Submitted October 08, 2021 at 12:50AM I started to do this and have found great enjoyment out of finding random girls online mostly in my local area and a few out of state but I offer to buy them sex toys and or lingerie at the local sex store, I explain to the cashier at the store and then leave the girls name so that way she can pop in later and pick them up. Some have sent me photos and videos of...

What I mean by this is that what the people here usually tell the people asking about how to handle their first time is that introducing yourself to sex shouldn't be made into a big deal, that it may leave you resentful of sex if you set your expectations too high ("that's it?"), that virginity is a social construct, etc., but people here say that at as point you get more practice or communicate, etc. sex will get better provided you follow the basic needs for good and safe sex. How long did this take for you? Submitted October 08, 2021 at 12:52AM What I mean by this is that what the people here usually tell the people asking about how to handle their first time is that introducing yourself to sex shouldn't be made into a big deal, that it may leave you resentful of sex if you set your expectations too high ("that's it?"), that virginity is a social construct, etc., but people here say that at as point you get more practice or communicate, etc...

I’ve tried it with both my ex girlfriend and my ex boyfriend (I’m a bi guy). My ex girlfriend had a very slick tongue so I liked it with her, and I liked kissing my ex boyfriend too but when it came to French kissing, I partly liked it cause I loved him, but his tongue was alot bumpier (I don’t know how to describe it lol) Submitted October 08, 2021 at 12:56AM I’ve tried it with both my ex girlfriend and my ex boyfriend (I’m a bi guy). My ex girlfriend had a very slick tongue so I liked it with her, and I liked kissing my ex boyfriend too but when it came to French kissing, I partly liked it cause I loved him, but his tongue was alot bumpier (I don’t know how to describe it lol)

I’m (34F) really struggling right now with dating. I’ve been seeing someone for a little while but it’s always the same - I always feel like I’m the one more invested, more into the other person. I have an anxious attachment style which doesn’t help and probably makes things harder as I end up being the one trying to move things forward. Im scared of being vulnerable and getting hurt and so when they need space I struggle and want them more which is only natural I guess. But being anxious doesn’t help with this. I end up chasing and pushing things which makes me feel like I am the one more invested. It probably pushes people away but deep down I just want connection and to be loved. Feeling sad right now Submitted October 07, 2021 at 11:52PM I’m (34F) really struggling right now with dating. I’ve been seeing someone for a little while but it’s always the same - I always feel like I’m the one more invested, more into the other person. I have an anxious attachment style which does...

I find it hard to trust women, I’ve gotten myself in a situation, we started as fwb and now admitted to both liking each other. But it scares me, since we both start with don’t want anything serious and have decided to take it slow. I’m scared that I’m not good enough, or she’ll pick the guys she was sleeping with before we said we liked each other. I know it’s silly but I’m just waiting for the day for her to say nah I’m not feeling it. Because that’s what I’m used to. Also the fact that one of the guys still messages her. She apparently told him about us liking each other and then stop speaking but he does pop up every now and then. And it kinda makes me uncomfortable and I don’t know why? I just think it’s disrespectful on his end and not sure how to act as we technically aren’t dating? Just taking it slow Submitted October 07, 2021 at 11:56PM I find it hard to trust women, I’ve gotten myself in a situation, we started as fwb and now admitted to both liking each other. But i...

Hey guys and girls. I work part time at a grocery store. So last month I posted a question asking if I should ask this from work girl out after getting many good (in my book) signs from her. https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/pbrisj/is_she_interested_or_just_being_nice/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf I finally did and she happily gave me her number and told me to text her. So I do the next day and she tells me she’s busy for the week and will let me know. She never ends up doing that, and tells me the next time I see her that she will next week. I don’t expect that she will because we saw each other again and she hasn’t brought it up. It’s obviously a rejection but I feel like if a guy has the courage to ask a girl out, he should at least get the courtesy of an honest answer, and not an excited voice giving a phone number and saying to text her. I feel like there’s an elephant in the room now. I want to take the burden off of us both by me ho...

Obviously the title, but with some back story. Around the middle ofMay I started hanging out with (let's call her Tamara). She is a part of the friend group I hang out with at and outside of a local dive bar. At the beginning of July I applied for and got a promotion that would take effect at the end of this year. The promotion would move me 5 hours away and I have been pretty stoked about it. I told Tamara before I found our about the promotion that I would not be doing a long distance relationship and that things are exactly what they have been for the previous two months no deeper. I have since stated this multiple times in order to keep things from getting attached. We continued to hang out. Jump ahead to now. On Monday I was told by my direct supervisor that I would likely be getting the promotion and not moving 5 hours away. Tamara has been hoping I wasn't moving because she has become attached and has feelings for me. I have stayed detached and not formed the bond that...

I (25F) have been seeing this guy (27M) for a month. We live about an hour from each other, but we talk every day and see each other roughly once a week. He isn’t 100% my type physically, which I don't mind because I’m still very attracted to him, and we have great chemistry, but he’s just kind of weird sometimes. Some of the things he says or does make me think “what the actual fuck” to myself. This is the only thing “issue", but it’s just making me so confused about how I feel. I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship a few months ago and have been in therapy for over a year, and my therapist mentioned that it could mean he isn't the one for me since I’m so hung up on it, or it could mean that I’m trying to find the one thing wrong to not get attached and get hurt again. Has anyone gone through something similar after a traumatic relationship? Am I trying to sabotage my happiness, or is this something to pay attention to? I know no one is perfect (God knows I...

Hello, I’m 23 years old have this problem for I think over some years now. I get hard when flirting to a girl or like making out with a girl or flirt but only for like 2 to 5 minutes and then I get very soft and there is no way for my penis to get erect again. I‘ve met up with one girl and I always was hard at the beginning but after some minutes my penis was soft and I no longer felt „the need to fuck her“ if you know what I mean. Today I „sexted“ with a girl and I was very horny but after I started driving to her I was soft again so I drove home again because I didnt want to disappoint her. I know that many people will say that she was the wrong person or that I was simply nervous which could all be true but I still dont know how I should progress. Its honestly crushing my self esteem because for me it was always very important to be able to sexually please a woman. Its honestly very frustrating and I dont know what I can do. I thought that porn could be a reason for that but I no...

I want to try to use an estim device on my cock n balls but will it affect my sperm count or will it damage my penis Submitted October 07, 2021 at 11:04PM I want to try to use an estim device on my cock n balls but will it affect my sperm count or will it damage my penis

TLDR: my wife was diagnosed with mild insomnia recently and was prescribed sleeping pills. Doctors said possible side effect of pill would be sleep walking or sleep eating. Well, last night an hour after taking the pills she pull down her bottoms and asked me to put it in her ass. I clarified several times, tried to wake her up, but she got borderline violent and insisted I put it up her Asshole, which I did and happily came into. So this morning I asked her if she had any unusual dreams or urges last night and she said no. All she remembers is a good night sleep. The thing is she never wants to do anal….is against it for some religious reasons I guess. Should I come clean and tell her or is ignorance truly bliss? Submitted October 07, 2021 at 11:13PM TLDR: my wife was diagnosed with mild insomnia recently and was prescribed sleeping pills. Doctors said possible side effect of pill would be sleep walking or sleep eating. Well, last night an hour after taking the pills she pull d...