I need to get rid of a fat fetish

I need to get rid of a fat fetish

I made a few posts about it a couple months ago (almost a year now, under a different account), but I didn’t solve my problem, and I’m back here again. The title says it all. In any case, there’s a lot to get off of my chest here.

Just for reference, I’m a teen, but I’d rather not say my age.

The first thing one would need to know before I take a dive into my story is just a little bit of fat fetish lingo. Feeder means someone who helps someone else get fatter, feedee is someone who intentionally gains.

Alright, as far back as I can remember, (actually it was really around second grade) I thought being fat would be cool. It doesn’t make a ton of sense to me why I would have this fetish, and how I got it so young. Neither of my parents were fat, but they weren’t tiny either, which seems to be pretty common in most other people I’ve seen talk about it. This desire kinda used to be limited to my bio gender, male, but around 3-4 years ago, I switched, and thought being a fat chick would be cooler. When I say fat, I mean really fat—remember that lady Susanne Eman? It’s a long rabbit hole and disgusting if you don’t have the fetish, so to save you a search, she’s like around 6-800 pounds, and still gaining. In any case, pretty much since then that has all I have masturbated to, although once in a while, I do masturbate to the idea of having sex with one. (Just for the record, I have traumatic masturbatory syndrome, which might have something to do with it?) Over quarantine, I did a bit of reflecting, and started thinking I might be trans. After I started back at school though, I found I felt really quite comfy as a dude, so I don’t think I am, but I still masturbate imaging myself as an extremely fat woman. A bit back, I saw a post on a fat fetish forum that someone had stopped their attraction to fat people by too much masturbation. To me, that sounds like a bad idea, but I’m also curious if there is some way to reset my libido. I don’t have any problem with fat people themselves and I’m not opposed to dating someone who is, it is just I want to have a healthy relationship with others, and that usually means not being a blob. I don’t think you can look at someone like Ms Eman and feel that that is a safe or normal thing to do, so, I come to you, r/sex, and I ask—is there any way to get rid of or reset a kink?

Submitted October 08, 2021 at 12:39AM

I need to get rid of a fat fetishI made a few posts about it a couple months ago (almost a year now, under a different account), but I didn’t solve my problem, and I’m back here again. The title says it all. In any case, there’s a lot to get off of my chest here.Just for reference, I’m a teen, but I’d rather not say my age.The first thing one would need to know before I take a dive into my story is just a little bit of fat fetish lingo. Feeder means someone who helps someone else get fatter, feedee is someone who intentionally gains.Alright, as far back as I can remember, (actually it was really around second grade) I thought being fat would be cool. It doesn’t make a ton of sense to me why I would have this fetish, and how I got it so young. Neither of my parents were fat, but they weren’t tiny either, which seems to be pretty common in most other people I’ve seen talk about it. This desire kinda used to be limited to my bio gender, male, but around 3-4 years ago, I switched, and thought being a fat chick would be cooler. When I say fat, I mean really fat—remember that lady Susanne Eman? It’s a long rabbit hole and disgusting if you don’t have the fetish, so to save you a search, she’s like around 6-800 pounds, and still gaining. In any case, pretty much since then that has all I have masturbated to, although once in a while, I do masturbate to the idea of having sex with one. (Just for the record, I have traumatic masturbatory syndrome, which might have something to do with it?) Over quarantine, I did a bit of reflecting, and started thinking I might be trans. After I started back at school though, I found I felt really quite comfy as a dude, so I don’t think I am, but I still masturbate imaging myself as an extremely fat woman. A bit back, I saw a post on a fat fetish forum that someone had stopped their attraction to fat people by too much masturbation. To me, that sounds like a bad idea, but I’m also curious if there is some way to reset my libido. I don’t have any problem with fat people themselves and I’m not opposed to dating someone who is, it is just I want to have a healthy relationship with others, and that usually means not being a blob. I don’t think you can look at someone like Ms Eman and feel that that is a safe or normal thing to do, so, I come to you, r/sex, and I ask—is there any way to get rid of or reset a kink?