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/u/justleavemeidk on I (demi) fell in love with an asexual girl with many problems in life

Thank you for your words. I will wait for her, I would feel good if I try to force things. Thank you so much. April 06, 2022 at 12:46AM

/u/AKinkyIntrovert on Would you date an allo?

Think there also needs to be one for Demi/grays since we’re more likely to still have sex in general April 06, 2022 at 12:45AM

/u/WaitingForUrWhistle on I get turned on by certain people but I don’t ever feel the need for sex. Am I asexual?

If certain people, they themselves turn you on then yea, that sounds like sexual attraction. Basically you look at, think of or are near a person or certain people and thoughts/urges of being sexual with them come into play even if you have no arousal, libido or do not wish to be sexual with them. I can give you the spectrum chart to double check, but it sounds less like you are limited or have no sexual attraction and more that you have no interest which is Allo. There is a label called Orchidsexual which describes that perfectly if this is the case, but it’s not the same as asexual. April 06, 2022 at 12:45AM

/u/AKinkyIntrovert on Would you date an allo?

I’m Demi/Gray so I’m fine with it as long as I have a friendship with them first. And as long as they accept that I have a low libido. I’m currently dating an allo, for 5+ years, and I’m fwb with another, who is my bff. April 06, 2022 at 12:44AM

/u/thebirdsandtheteas on Sex isn’t the most intimate thing in a relationship imo

Lmaooo yeah me neither man my cash is my cash April 06, 2022 at 12:41AM

How to have the first fight/argument?

Hi there, I (M29) have been dating a girl (F30) for 6 months now. Last week, I asked "how she feels about our relationship and where it's headed." She said that she sees me as someone to eventually marry and have kids with, but she wants to see how I handle a fight/argument. How would I go about doing this? Should I ask if she wants to go on a vacation together to show her my true self? Thank you in advance. Submitted April 05, 2022 at 11:57PM Hi there,I (M29) have been dating a girl (F30) for 6 months now. Last week, I asked "how she feels about our relationship and where it's headed."She said that she sees me as someone to eventually marry and have kids with, but she wants to see how I handle a fight/argument.How would I go about doing this?Should I ask if she wants to go on a vacation together to show her my true self?Thank you in advance.

How do I be clear about a date?

How do I clearify that I want this to be a date and not just hanging out? Submitted April 05, 2022 at 11:58PM How do I clearify that I want this to be a date and not just hanging out?

Why would someone block you on WhatsApp but not Instagram…

A guy (29M) and I (31F) went on a few dates and he told me he isn’t interested in me anymore and before we could have a convo about it he blocked me on WhatsApp…. Except it’s been days and he hasn’t blocked me on Instagram lol why would someone half ass the blocking? I messaged him on Instagram a day later just to clear the air (wasn’t aggressive or confrontational) and he hasn’t opened the message but he also hasn’t blocked me…? Submitted April 06, 2022 at 12:12AM A guy (29M) and I (31F) went on a few dates and he told me he isn’t interested in me anymore and before we could have a convo about it he blocked me on WhatsApp…. Except it’s been days and he hasn’t blocked me on Instagram lol why would someone half ass the blocking?I messaged him on Instagram a day later just to clear the air (wasn’t aggressive or confrontational) and he hasn’t opened the message but he also hasn’t blocked me…?