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/u/androidx_appcompat on I know this sounds crazy but hear me out. I have actually reproduced asexually

I saw the title and thought you cloned yourself January 31, 2022 at 12:34AM

/u/AspectEffective6119 on Asexuals, who didn't date/have relations before coming out, how did you find out you were asexual?

"The crush would fade when it got too real" is a sentence that sums up so much of my experience with interpersonal relationships so well January 31, 2022 at 12:34AM

/u/crobu- on Isn't it just easier to say "I don't like holes"?

I dont think they were picking a fight or something, in my opinion they were just explaining how what they said could come off as homophobic. I totally agree with your point in general terms tho! Plus yeah, as an older gen z i agree, fighting all the time is exhausting, but it is in my blood hahah im sure we could learn to relax a bit January 31, 2022 at 12:33AM

4th date coming up and unsure what to do from here

Hi, I'll give a brief synopsis of where I'm at so far: First date: Nice Asian buffet, we talked a lot about philosophy and the state of the world (she has a white-collar job where she works 70 hours a week) and she said it was the most interesting conversation she's had in many months. We hug and she leaves after I walked her to the train station. Second date: Seafood restaurant, we drank and laughed a lot on this one, but there were also some pauses that I perceived as awkward, so I was surprised that at the end of the date, she asked me when my next availability was. We hugged again and she left. Third date: We went through a museum (it was fast, like less than 30 minutes), then we went to this SUPER upscale restaurant by the water. We again seemed to have a good conversation, and I made her laugh several times. I also made sure to get into deeper questions like whether she wants a family, or if she's religious, and we both have basically the same positions in tho...

How to approach dating and sex as an inexperienced, 31F with baggage?

Due to life circumstances such as being on anti depressants, focusing on school and my career, my Mormon upbringing, and not putting myself out there enough, I’ve (31F) never been in a serious relationship and have only had sex with two men. One was an on-and-off, casual relationship I had a little over 5 years ago that lasted about nine months with a guy who was emotionally abusive, selfish in bed, and raped me once. I’ve since gone to therapy and have dealt with it the best I can. The other was a semi-nice guy I went on three dates with a few months ago, but due to a bunch of miscommunication, my lack of experience, and not being able to tell whether he was interested or not, it fizzled out. This was the first time I’d dated and had sex since the guy previously mentioned. I’m thinking about getting back on dating apps, but I’ve lost what little confidence I had and would like to gain some of that back. Any tips for someone like me on how to approach dating and sex? I don’t think ...

How common is this?

Hi, so sorry I’m not really trying to go into detail abt the situation or explain how I know… we do. but basically a little fun w this couple happened abt 2 years ago where I was invited to the bedroom and you know things went a little further w/ the s.o and we reaaaally like e/o now…like not love, but we’d be in love if the circumstances were right or we met first… we don’t know how to truly stop, it’s selfish but he’s figuring things out in home life to be able to available not saying we’re gonna jump in something but where we can enjoy e/o without sneaking and stuff… have you ever been in this situation? Fell for e/o when one isn’t available Judgement free zone please. I’m trying my best to just walk alway but I feel like I really found my soulmate even if we’re just friends I feel like we crossed paths for a reason everything just adds up 😭 Submitted January 31, 2022 at 12:04AM Hi, so sorry I’m not really trying to go into detail abt the situation or explain how I know… we...

How do i break up with her?

So I (M17) have been dating this girl (17) for two weeks now and we hit it off immediately. Things were great at the start and now I am just not really feeling that connection anymore. Problem is she has a few mental issues and was in the metal hospital because she tried to kill herself. I met her like a momth after she got out i think but i am not entirely sure. She said she has been doing a lot better since she met me which is important for later. She mentioned on at least three occasions that she doesn't think ahe could live without me and when I mentioned i need to talk to her bc she broke a promise she got really teary and when i said i wasn't breaking up with her for what she did (lied about something minor like a week ago) she said she'd probably kill herself if i broke up with her. As far as I know she doesn't have any friends she can rely on or whatever and i am worried she might actually kill herself when I break up with her. I really need some help here plea...

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