4th date coming up and unsure what to do from here

Hi, I'll give a brief synopsis of where I'm at so far:

First date: Nice Asian buffet, we talked a lot about philosophy and the state of the world (she has a white-collar job where she works 70 hours a week) and she said it was the most interesting conversation she's had in many months. We hug and she leaves after I walked her to the train station.

Second date: Seafood restaurant, we drank and laughed a lot on this one, but there were also some pauses that I perceived as awkward, so I was surprised that at the end of the date, she asked me when my next availability was. We hugged again and she left.

Third date: We went through a museum (it was fast, like less than 30 minutes), then we went to this SUPER upscale restaurant by the water. We again seemed to have a good conversation, and I made her laugh several times. I also made sure to get into deeper questions like whether she wants a family, or if she's religious, and we both have basically the same positions in those areas. However, at one point during the date, I really began to question whether she was getting bored, so I straight up asked her if she was enjoying herself, and she enthusiastically answered yes, she was just tired from a long day. I replied by saying I genuinely enjoyed spending time together, I found her attractive, and I am glad she enjoys spending time with me. At the end of this date she wanted to schedule for 2-3 days later, but the North Eastern US had a bad storm, so we scheduled for later this week. I invited her over to my apartment where I've offered to cook and watch a movie with her.

How do I escalate the physical intimacy in this relationship while also making it clear to this girl that I am INCREDIBLY into her for who she is?

Submitted January 31, 2022 at 12:00AM

Hi, I'll give a brief synopsis of where I'm at so far:First date: Nice Asian buffet, we talked a lot about philosophy and the state of the world (she has a white-collar job where she works 70 hours a week) and she said it was the most interesting conversation she's had in many months. We hug and she leaves after I walked her to the train station.Second date: Seafood restaurant, we drank and laughed a lot on this one, but there were also some pauses that I perceived as awkward, so I was surprised that at the end of the date, she asked me when my next availability was. We hugged again and she left.Third date: We went through a museum (it was fast, like less than 30 minutes), then we went to this SUPER upscale restaurant by the water. We again seemed to have a good conversation, and I made her laugh several times. I also made sure to get into deeper questions like whether she wants a family, or if she's religious, and we both have basically the same positions in those areas. However, at one point during the date, I really began to question whether she was getting bored, so I straight up asked her if she was enjoying herself, and she enthusiastically answered yes, she was just tired from a long day. I replied by saying I genuinely enjoyed spending time together, I found her attractive, and I am glad she enjoys spending time with me. At the end of this date she wanted to schedule for 2-3 days later, but the North Eastern US had a bad storm, so we scheduled for later this week. I invited her over to my apartment where I've offered to cook and watch a movie with her.How do I escalate the physical intimacy in this relationship while also making it clear to this girl that I am INCREDIBLY into her for who she is?