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Are there people really busy 24/7?

I(23M) and her (24F) were on a date that went really well in a great atmosphere. On the date she herself suggested whether I would like to go with her and her friend to camping at the end of the august. After the date, she wrote to me that she had a great time, but then the contact between us got cold, I had to wait 8-12 hours to wait for an answer. When I asked if she was just busy or simply not interested in further contact, she replied that she really wants to write with me, but she is just busy (she makes jewelry) and preparations for the upcoming exhibitions take all of her time and she herself noticed and said that these preparations destroys her contacts with her friends. Then she wrote that she would try to change the problem of writing back. It was good for 4 days and then again we returned to one message for 8-12 hours. A few days after the meeting, she said that she would not be able to go camping because of these preparations, but she would try to come up with something ...

Anyone I can direct message? Looking for advice on first line to this girl on tinder.

Hey I thought I’d improve my chances of going out with this girl on tinder by crafting a well thought-out first line. Here is what she wrote in her bio: Meeting new people and having fun. Share your podcast recommendations! I swiped right for the dog first, you second. 🙃 Eclectic, eccentric, and effervescent. I keep myself pretty entertained. 1st photo: she just looks super pretty 2nd photo: Eating McDonald and drinking wine And the rest of the photos are her looking pretty, hugging a friend and standing with a parking cone on her head. Anyway, any advice would be appreciated. Is there anyone I could direct message and just talk me through this? And I can update this too, to share what I send and how it goes. And I’m guessing she swiped on me because I have a dog in my profile. I guess my opening line would be, “wanna do shots of tequila and dine at Taco Bell for the first date?” Submitted August 18, 2019 at 11:51PM Hey I thought I’d improve my chances of going out with...

Being single sucks I hate single life?

Can’t change it though sadly😢 Submitted August 18, 2019 at 11:54PM Can’t change it though sadly😢

Im getting serious feelings for lesbian bestfriend.

So this is strange to explain but im a 26(M) in love with my lesbian best friend 23(F). We've known each other for over 10 years and have been in on/off relationships throughout, as of now were in an open relationship. We recently got matching tatts and made a vow to get married by the time were 40. Its strange because she straight up likes girls but continues to have these weekend adventures with me were we fool around. Now im normally a team player when we go to bars and stuff and let her mess around with all the chicks and never had a problem. But now she has this girlfriend that prevents us from chilling by invading my time with her(twice a month). I guess i just dont know how to feel about all this, I've told myself to find someone else but i always come back to her... Submitted August 18, 2019 at 11:59PM So this is strange to explain but im a 26(M) in love with my lesbian best friend 23(F). We've known each other for over 10 years and have been in on/off relati...

Question....

After both working for 8 months full time, she told me to end work the same day as her, a week earlier than I would have, before the new semester starts so I “have a week to chill.” What does she mean by this? I saw her a couple days after that when she was with her friend and she didn’t seem too enthusiastic to see me.... Thoughts ? Submitted August 19, 2019 at 12:07AM After both working for 8 months full time, she told me to end work the same day as her, a week earlier than I would have, before the new semester starts so I “have a week to chill.”What does she mean by this?I saw her a couple days after that when she was with her friend and she didn’t seem too enthusiastic to see me....Thoughts ?

I think of going on random dates from dating apps, so do people have sex with their dates?

I was told nothing is wrong with going on dates with few different guys so I can learn what type of guy I'd like, how to tell how I feel, and etc. I'm a female in late 20's. I have lack of dating experience, so I've been thinking of using dating apps for "practice." I'd learn from my mistakes. I have a question. Do you have sex with every person you were seeing? What if I don't want to have sex with every guy I've gone on a date with? I'm concerned about STIs, and I don't want to make my number higher. I'd be likely to sleep with one of them though if we both are ready. Oh, I wouldn't have sex on first date anyway. Submitted August 19, 2019 at 12:13AM I was told nothing is wrong with going on dates with few different guys so I can learn what type of guy I'd like, how to tell how I feel, and etc.I'm a female in late 20's. I have lack of dating experience, so I've been thinking of using dating apps for "p...

I've had a few dates with this guy I'm really in to but I don't know if it is a good thing for him at the moment?

Hi dating advise people, I'm 24, single for 4 months now and just had some dates with a guy that really have me butterflies and is very kind. Atleast he was until he went quite rude and standoff ish to me. He didn't ask me things and kept on talking about himself. When we had our second date last night I actually just told him I couldn't really appreciate his disinterest towards me and the little bit of "a hole" behaviour. He was very sweet and calm and explained why he was the way he was by past trauma and not being happy with how he is right now and trying to work on that. I don't know if it really is a smart idea to sell further romantical intentions with him even though we click very well physically and we can talk very good. He took my advise and already shows more enthusiasm and interest, but I want it to be genuine. How do I go with this? I don't even know if I want a relationship at the moment. Submitted August 19, 2019 at 12:18AM Hi da...

/u/Mattia11417 on This is such an ace mood

This is the best response August 19, 2019 at 12:20AM

/u/DootTheTransNoot on I discovered r/normalnudes today, and it is the most uplifting sub I've found yet.

Fate has united us, brother August 19, 2019 at 12:18AM

/u/Ettina on I don't know if they actually are, but here you go

Why not both? Maybe she's a kinky ace! August 19, 2019 at 12:16AM

/u/CheshireUnicorn on How to explain asexuality in an analogy: Imagine someone is baking chocolate chip cookies in an oven and they’re almost finished baking...

"I want to eat those cookies you baked just for me, but I don't feel hungry at all." is kinda my thing. I feel so bad for my boyfriend. August 19, 2019 at 12:14AM

/u/ImagineTheMammoth on I don't know if they actually are, but here you go

I think she first said in 2007/09 or something like this? It was very old news that came back now because of the new films and people act like she just came up with this. I don't support 100% of her, but I think people overreact way too much when it comes to her, and this Dumbledore thing was just dumb because, again, it wasn't something new and even if it was? So what? I really don't think the sexuality of every character was in the front mind when she was writing this book mostly aimed at children but if she can help now to bring some representation and it makes sense (and for anyone who read Deathly Hallows, it should) then I only see as a good thing. I honestly think the problem comes from the fact that most people would assume everyone is white, male, cis and heterosexual unless explicitly said otherwise. August 19, 2019 at 12:14AM

How do i tell my crush i like em?

I want to tell my crush i like them but i hella dont wanna be basic and just say "heyyy u a cutiieeee, i like u" or someshit like that. Any suggestions Submitted August 18, 2019 at 11:29PM I want to tell my crush i like them but i hella dont wanna be basic and just say "heyyy u a cutiieeee, i like u" or someshit like that. Any suggestions

I'm marrying the right guy

Little things remind me from time to time that yeah, this guy is the one and I'm marrying the right person. Today, I was dancing around to my playlist when he got home from work, I often dance around stupidly in the kitchen while preparing food. No questions asked, he walked into the kitchen and joined in with my stupid dance moves. He picked me up and wrapped my legs around his waist, kissing me and looking into my eyes. "I love you, babygirl" he said in his low, sultry voice. My soul just about left my body and flew out the door. I turned into a pile of mush and weird things were happening inside me. He seemed to know this and smiled and kissed me again, moving to my neck (game over for me) and hugged me tight, resting his head on my shoulder. He whispered "I can't wait to marry you." Submitted August 18, 2019 at 11:33PM Little things remind me from time to time that yeah, this guy is the one and I'm marrying the right person.Today, I was danc...

Only you know

What do I look for when choosing someone to love.? Not all the movie stuff. But.... Submitted August 18, 2019 at 11:55PM What do I look for when choosing someone to love.?Not all the movie stuff. But....

I'm losing hope in love

Hello to whoever reads this. I once loved a girl and I'm convinced I will not love anyone else that hard again. We dated for 3 years. We were a perfect match, we were what people could call a 'real couple' and I can say that I had the time of my life with her. Sure we had our fights and disagreements but nothing that we couldn't overcome. I dare to say she was the one. As we were 2 years into the Relationship she had to move away from me because of her university and well we did make long-distance work... for a bit. Then came all the insecurities, arguments and fights that anyone that has had a long-distance relationship knows about. It brought up both of the 'traumas' we had from our pasts. Me with jealousy and missing her and her not being a long-relationship type girl. Anyway we started getting in bigger fights and drifting apart and when it came to it we decided that it was dragging is both down in very bad ways and so we started talking about breaking up b...

The greatest gift.

What is the greatest gift you can give someone ? Submitted August 19, 2019 at 12:09AM What is the greatest gift you can give someone ?

A bit depressed

So... Recently I'd been talking with this girl. She's wonderful, pretty, a real go-getter. I met her when she was in the states and when she left, I thought that would be the last I'd talk to her. The opposite happens. We talk 10x more than ever before. She answers 10x more frequently and faster than before. I even ended a few conversions just to see if she would start a new one. Every time she did. Even my siblings and friends admitted that she might/definitely likes me if she's texting me for this long. It hyped me up. So weeks later, today, I mustered the courage the confess how I felt about her. In her words (paraphrasing, of course) she said that thinking about us romantically gives her bad headaches. (Ouch) So far, we're still cool but I'm not sure what will happen tomorrow. I feel like a fool for even thinking that someone like her would actually like me. I feel like a fool for letting everyone else's words pump me up. I feel like a fool for going...

Ghosted by someone you will see again

Ghosted by someone you will see again I’ve known this guy for about 15 years, he is one of my closest friend’s brother. We have always been flirty and friendly with each other, and did make out several years ago, but it never turned into anything for various reasons. Usually we were either seeing other people and also my friend I don’t think would have liked it very much. Well, recently I had been seeing him more in group outings and I got the vibe he was into me. Since we both been had been single a while I took the plunge to ask him out. He responded right away that he would like that and we started texting regularly. After a few weeks we ended up hanging out and he slept over. We continued to talk after, but then he cancelled one of our dates and started acting more distant. Figured i would just ask him what was up with us and if he didn’t want to hang out again that was cool but just didn’t want to waste either of our times if he wasn’t into it. Well, he never responded back ...

Is she flirting?

I am a 16 year old dude who's been chatting with a girl who's slightly older than me. Shes nice, happy and athletic. Our lives seem to be run in very similar manners so I've been curious about her. We will talk (Almost always me initiating conversations), she will answer pretty quickly with an actual desire to chat. Shell ask questions and such as well as me. Goes well until she flirts (I think) and then disappears for as little as hours or as long as 1 or 2 days. After this time, she'll either see my message and ignore it or respond as usual. What am I to think of this? "Am I being toyed" with? Submitted August 19, 2019 at 12:05AM I am a 16 year old dude who's been chatting with a girl who's slightly older than me. Shes nice, happy and athletic. Our lives seem to be run in very similar manners so I've been curious about her. We will talk (Almost always me initiating conversations), she will answer pretty quickly with an actual desire to cha...

/u/SamanthaNatalie on I don't know if they actually are, but here you go

Isn't Jughead from the Archie comics ace August 19, 2019 at 12:01AM

/u/iyote6 on Aesthetically pleasing.

I love these ace dragon designs. The artist (Kaenith) did the other four card suits as well. August 18, 2019 at 11:58PM

/u/CarmelWox on We are valid.

So true 💖 August 18, 2019 at 11:58PM