Thank you! June 12, 2019 at 12:31AM

We already have invisibility. June 12, 2019 at 12:30AM

My best (lady) friend told me "You should ask her out! :D" and I still regret not doing it, even though I know now that neither of us were ready for it. But now I don't have a chance. June 12, 2019 at 12:28AM

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My husband (26m) and I (27f) have been together for 7 years. I'm still his first partner, and he's a bit on the emotionally sensitive side. We have always had an off and on sexual relationship with our primary bond being more of the best friend variety. He's the best sex I've ever had, and I generally really enjoy our time together in bed, but I've gotten a bit bored with it. For the past 3 years or so, I've tried bringing up new ideas, buying new toys, trying to do some roleplaying, but he generally seems to be more turned off by all my attempts. For a while we attempted to try some light butt stuff, but it was not a turn on for me and while he was curious I found it kind of annoying/discouraging to see him so nervous or uncomfortable. I've kind of given up at this point because I've run out of ideas. I would say we are sexually incompatible, but when we do have good sex, it's just so good. To add complexity to the situation, he's a self-de...

Hi reddit we are thinking about getting the Lush 2 for some public discreet naughtiness. We are concerned about how much noise it might make and would love to know if anyone with first hand experience can attest to its noise level or offer your personal choice for a silent vibrator. Submitted June 11, 2019 at 11:56PM Hi reddit we are thinking about getting the Lush 2 for some public discreet naughtiness. We are concerned about how much noise it might make and would love to know if anyone with first hand experience can attest to its noise level or offer your personal choice for a silent vibrator.

I got my IUD in December of 2017. The partner I was with could sometimes feel it. I don't think the strings have softened up. Now with my new partner, he will usually feel it except in very few positions. I am also worried he managed to move it from hitting it so hard because I feel more cramping than usual. For example, I just got off my period and right now I have been feeling slight pain (it's more like discomfort than actual pain) in my right abdomen. Has anyone else experienced anything similar? Did cutting the string work for people with partners who are well endowed? I will go see a doctor either way, I just want to know if anyone has experienced similar things and how they handled it. Submitted June 11, 2019 at 11:59PM I got my IUD in December of 2017. The partner I was with could sometimes feel it. I don't think the strings have softened up. Now with my new partner, he will usually feel it except in very few positions. I am also worried he managed to move it...

By normal I don’t mean “porn stars.” I’m new to reddit and don’t know what to search for. :) Submitted June 12, 2019 at 12:12AM By normal I don’t mean “porn stars.” I’m new to reddit and don’t know what to search for. :)

My boyfriend (21M) and I (19F) have been together for about 6 months and have very open conversations about each other’s preferences and kinks. One of his is squirting and I feel bad I haven’t been able to for him. I’ve never squirt in my life but rarely have trouble reaching orgasm. We’ve tried lots of techniques and different ways of getting me there (oral, fingering, penetration, different forms of stimulation, sensory deprivation, edging, a combination of some of these) but I’ve never been able too even after he’s pleasuring me for hours. A lot of things I see about this is saying I have to relax and “get in the mood” but I guess I’m not sure how to go about it cause I don’t have any anxiety or shame that comes with sex even though I can be a bit insecure from time to time. I have a high sex drive and feel like this is the only thing I can’t give my boyfriend and myself. Any tips on how to go about this? Anything that gets you in the mood or a technique you use to help? Submit...

The celebrity things is VERY ace to me (though ofc being gay is also an explanation). Aces can still feel romantic attraction and aesthetic attraction (and sensual), so just bc you find someone attractive doesn't mean that you're not ace. June 12, 2019 at 12:26AM

A lot of the swinger community tries to avoid the middle finger to give us our thing :) June 12, 2019 at 12:23AM

If you can draw, you can draw dragons June 12, 2019 at 12:23AM

sounds ace to me but I can't decide for you June 12, 2019 at 12:22AM

No. We are gods. June 12, 2019 at 12:18AM

Not a balisong fan, but that's a sexy grind. https://imgur.com/9oOCGIK.jpg June 12, 2019 at 12:15AM

I've totally considered buying myself a nice ring, whether ace colors or not, to claim my ownership of my relationship with myself. (The ring I want is expensive so I haven't done it). But I might consider a cheaper ring. I'll do it someday. June 12, 2019 at 12:07AM

If it were me, since no one spoke up, I would bring it up with the group, saying that there was something that happened at last meeting that I have been processing and want/need to discuss. If she really is a best friend, then I would talk to her alone too. If the group is important to you it can be an opportunity for something good to happen. People sometimes need real life dialogue to have their eyes opened to a new perspective. If you are not up to it, that is okay too. Hoping the best for you in this! June 12, 2019 at 12:07AM

Thank you! June 12, 2019 at 12:07AM

It was all 4 of us. No one else spoke up until the topic was changed. I really dont know how I should bring it up, I know if I do im going to tell her I'm asexual. June 12, 2019 at 12:05AM

How big was the group she announced this in? Did everyone agree with her? If she is a truly good friend I am thinking it would be good to talk about your perspective with her. If not, it may not be worth it? If the conversation can be respectful and open, it could bring new understanding though. June 12, 2019 at 12:03AM

Do nonbinary, agender or genderfluid people not belong in the LGBTQ+ community? 'Cause those have nothing to do with sexual attraction. The state of being trans has nothing to do with sexual attraction. I think of being Ace as still defying and challenging social norms. And personally I'm queer, nonbinary, aromantic AND ace and I'm not letting anyone tell me that I don't belong! I don't belong in the hetero allo community that's for sure! Where the fuck else am I supposed to go? Haha. And the LGBTQ+ community should not be a place of hate or exclusion, even if you're simply a hetero ally, right? Remember when trans people were not included in the gay community and how backwards that seems now? June 12, 2019 at 12:03AM

So they're just going to start making G rated short films then? As long as there's pizza I'm OK with this. June 11, 2019 at 11:59PM

If you want to, you should ask her out. June 11, 2019 at 11:56PM