No problem : ) September 24, 2021 at 12:40AM

Yeah, I looked it up and it's literally sexual harrassment so. Yeah. I guess I just posted my rant here cause I knew y'all would get it September 24, 2021 at 12:39AM

Some people are unaware they’re ace Some people know somethings out of the ordinary and don’t know that it’s called being ace Some people know they’re ace, but are in the closet So yes there are MANY many more aces that we think September 24, 2021 at 12:38AM

I passed the bitch in the hallway today and very almost did lol September 24, 2021 at 12:38AM

I (21F) met a guy (23M) online. He came on as really sweet. Talks about wanting to marry me and start a family, and coming to meet me in person. He started of as cool but he is really into the fact that I’m submissive. But when I don’t act that way, he cuts me off completely. He is into BDSM but isn’t willing to work with me much. If I don’t do exactly what he wants, like turn or my camera or send a picture then he just says goodnight and stops talking to me. This really hurt my feelings. I am open to a submissive role and learning but I need open communication. What should I do? Submitted September 24, 2021 at 12:44AM I (21F) met a guy (23M) online. He came on as really sweet. Talks about wanting to marry me and start a family, and coming to meet me in person. He started of as cool but he is really into the fact that I’m submissive. But when I don’t act that way, he cuts me off completely. He is into BDSM but isn’t willing to work with me much. If I don’t do exactly what he wan...

Does anyone know a good gag that will stop almost all sound coming from the user? Me and my boyfriend are trying to do kinky stuff, but we’re staying at my parents house, and I tend to be really loud, and I don’t want them to accidentally walk in on us, any suggestions? Submitted September 24, 2021 at 12:50AM Does anyone know a good gag that will stop almost all sound coming from the user? Me and my boyfriend are trying to do kinky stuff, but we’re staying at my parents house, and I tend to be really loud, and I don’t want them to accidentally walk in on us, any suggestions?

Hello, how is everyone. I am writing today because I’m extremely estranged about having sex. I am young man of only 21 years and have only had sex once. It was not a very pleasurable experience, unfortunately. I’m not sure if my experience was normal. I met a woman online, and we agreed to intercourse when we met. Everything went well up to the point of penetration. When she had removed her pants, she had an extremely bad odor. I was not able to keep an adequate erection from her odor and came very quickly. She was very upset by this and told me to leave. I did and was extremely dissatisfied as well. Then after, I experienced extreme paranoia about stds such as HIV and herpes. I wore protection throughout the act and was still unnerved about stds that I cried for a week. I’m not sure if my experience was normal. Are women supposed to smell badly during sex? Am I supposed to be paranoid after? How do elevate my feelings and have safer sex? I found another person that I am interested i...

Please read what's next before judging me and telling me that I'm the one with major issues. First of all, we have been together for almost 2 years and the sex was incredible for the first year. It's not the relationship I had with the most frequent sex but we still had it in average 4 times a week which is pretty decent in my opinion. During that time, she had a vibrator and it was not bothering me at all because it was not affecting our sex life in any way. So that's why I'm saying that I don't think the new sextoy itself is bad and I don't think it should be an issue. After the first year we started to have less sex but we were seeing each others way more the relationship was not new anymore. So for a while, it was around twice a week and then once a week which was a really low amount to it but my minimal in term of what I want in a relationship. Recently, it became like once every two weeks and it feels really forced more of the time. Also, I'm r...

Previous partners have always been rearing to go but I have to coax his boner out like a scared little turtle and half the time it just goes soft again. I really like him but the sex has always been ho hum, I try to talk to him about it but that goes nowhere. He said its not normal for him to not get erect but I don't quite believe it. He doesn't really seem to be that interested in sex. But he says he is. Sex is a big thing for me and I'm just not sure how to fix this, or of I should just walk away...? Submitted September 24, 2021 at 12:51AM Previous partners have always been rearing to go but I have to coax his boner out like a scared little turtle and half the time it just goes soft again. I really like him but the sex has always been ho hum, I try to talk to him about it but that goes nowhere. He said its not normal for him to not get erect but I don't quite believe it. He doesn't really seem to be that interested in sex. But he says he is. Sex is a big t...

Some of you may remember my post from last week asking if one of my guy friend's (let's call him P) maybe had romantic feelings for me, and the general consensus was that yes he did at least have romantic intentions but to just see how it goes. Well, here's an update, and I'm just confused and partly rambling. P asked me to get breakfast earlier this week on Tuesday (we had gotten dinner and ice cream last week, too) and we went, and it was good, and then P said that this weekend we should go to a nearby go kart place together on Saturday night, if he gets off work on time, but P would text me on Saturday. Now, if you had asked me on Tuesday, I would have told you I was 99% sure P liked me. Like, go kart together Saturday night? Yes he likes me. But then last night, we hung out with some of P's other friends, and ofc I felt a little awk/nervous because they all knew each other really well and I didn't, but I feel like after a few minutes, the nervousness went a...

There is this girl in my class that I think is cute. I really want to ask her out sometime. We had our stats test today and I tried to chat with her about it. I asked her how she felt she did and all that. I was planning on just asking for her name and offering her my number, to see if she wanted to grab some coffee sometime. I just felt so weird doing that and don't want to bother her. How do you guys think I should ask her out. Do I just man up and offer her my number? Submitted September 23, 2021 at 11:54PM There is this girl in my class that I think is cute. I really want to ask her out sometime. We had our stats test today and I tried to chat with her about it. I asked her how she felt she did and all that. I was planning on just asking for her name and offering her my number, to see if she wanted to grab some coffee sometime.I just felt so weird doing that and don't want to bother her. How do you guys think I should ask her out. Do I just man up and offer her my n...

I know what most people will say, you are bragging, ego boost, you are heartless, etc. But I will be 100 percent honest. I am a very good looking woman, on dating app I have no problem, in person I am stopped, I have been proposed to, and I have no issue with getting a boyfriend (or girlfriend). But lately, and I am not sure where it's coming from; I have been feeling uninterested. I want to date, but I just cannot seem to do it. I am not old nor am I young, but I am at the age where most people start to settle down. I wonder where has my desire gone. I just don't feel like dating.... I keep telling myself I will get around to get. But on list of thing to do, it's not much. So my question is has any woman gotten dating fatigue? Have you gotten dates, and potential partners, but stopped going out. Is this a sign of depression? Submitted September 23, 2021 at 11:55PM I know what most people will say, you are bragging, ego boost, you are heartless, etc. But I will be 1...

I met a guy on a dating app in late 2019 or early 2020. (Age 34) We were never anything more than a friend with benefits. We hooked up twice. He continued to hit me up and I would turn him down. I even told him when I got a boyfriend and he asked “does he share?” I said no of course. Well he then continued to hit me up periodically and ask if I was still in a relationship, asked how things were going, etc. He said he still wasn’t dating anyone so if I ever wanted it, I could have it. I am a faithful person so this was never going to happen. Well, I saw him post something on fb about his WIFE the other day. I researched the situation and realized that he had to have been dating her while he was hooking up with me in 2020. He also had hit me up and told me he was single the very month they got married. By looking at her profile, he encouraged her to go into the military to follow her dreams. I’m sure it was just so he could get laid while she was gone. Another time he had hit me up was ...

I recently read a recommendation to go to raves to meet women. I've never been to a rave in my life. But I've been to loads of bars/clubs. In my experience, women there aren't interested in talking. Usually those places are at least 60-70% men and the women just keep to themselves. If you try talking to a woman you will usually get the following outcomes: She ignores you completely. She says "I have a boyfriend" and turns away. She gives you a few one word answers and turns away. She talks to you but her friends pull her away. I saw a video with one tall good looking black guy who was saying when he used to go out to pick up women in bars/clubs he had to talk to 40 women just to get a single date. Do you think this is a useful way to get dates? Obviously I am not asking guys who are good looking enough to have women make/sustain eye contact and smile at them in these venues. If you have that then obviously I'm sure it works fine, but that doesn't...

I don’t know what my intention is with this post; I guess to express my feelings as I don’t have anyone irl I can talk to about these things. For context: I’m 26F, black AA. Growing up I had crushes at school but nothing was ever reciprocated. This continued throughout college and for years after. I got to a point where it didn’t bother me and I just went on with my life focused on other things. At the start of this year I joined a company and immediately became friends with a co-worker [26M, white]. It started off with talking about work then, texting heavily to meeting outside of work 1-1. I left this company a few months ago. We still go out together and recently things have turned physical I.e hand holding, hugging & kissing. He’s such a gentleman, he gets me & we talk about everything. I like to think we are both equally interested in one another. As much as I enjoy spending time with him and everything we are right now it scares me because I am so used to being alone...

People use it to describe intense mutual sexual attraction coupled with good sexual compatibility. Imagine it like one person is the coke and the other is the mentos…… put them together and BOOM explosion of sexual chemistry. September 23, 2021 at 11:33PM

Side note, I’m almost positive I’m biromantic. I’m just super confused and I can’t sort out my real feelings from the ocd, and just want to have everything figured out. September 23, 2021 at 11:32PM

I feel scared like this all the time, but you just have to have hope. You don't really need a partner to live a happy and fulfilling life, but if you do, I know that there are some dating apps for asexuals if that's something you're interested in September 23, 2021 at 11:32PM

I have no idea lol. I just know that it’s a term mostly used about couples and scenes that annoy and bore me.. September 23, 2021 at 11:31PM

Estimates vary wildly (I’ve heard everything from 0.5%-5% of the population) and the newer studies do tend to have higher numbers, which would make sense as awareness rises (and other LBGT+ identities are also being reported in higher numbers as acceptance also rises). Thing about a spectrum is there isn’t a definitive cut off point where you can be like - these are the aces and these are not, so you’ll probably never get an absolute number but yeah I think it’s way more common for people to be aspec than the general population thinks September 23, 2021 at 11:31PM